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Date: October 23, 2022
I didn't delete my online dating app after one date, but I did disable or pause all my accounts after about 3 weeks of dating the woman who is now my wife. I also stopped pursuing other dates when we started dating.
I know a lot of people like to date multiple people at once, but that's not my thing. I wanted quality, not quantity when I was looking for someone to share my life with. I wanted to focus on one person at a time, and see who they truly were, so I could decide if I wanted to keep going forward with them.
After 2 months I deleted all online anything. It had served its purpose and I didn't want my profile out there anymore.
You’re so hung up on your part being about paying that it throws up red flags that you don’t contribute in other ways. You want to support her financially and that’s become such a sense of pride that you are likely blind to what you aren’t providing. All of your responses go back to you paying and being too WEAK to understand how compromise works.
It’s easy to show the money you spend. It’s less easy to track, on paper, what else a partner should provide.
It’s a voicemail that he left willingly. He knew he was being recorded. This will be helpful for you to have.
No concrete decisions. Not sure if the wedding is off, but she told me she'll call me back and we'll talk more once she gets back.
Yup. IMO, your best bet right now is to pack your bags, book a flight to your home state and chalk that relationship up to experience. Good luck, you sound like a well-rounded person so my guess is you’ll be fine.
I still believe that sugaring and any form of sex work (if you consider sugaring that) can coexist alongside respect and feminism.
Girl. Divorce. This man is playing head games and there is not time for that. This is what your child is learning from by example.
I grew up in a Muslim family in the United States. We're of south Asian descent.
You have an insane amount of things going at once. When do you have time for you?
He literally started my migraines! I’m now seeing a migraine specialist! ?
You did good. The message you wrote is for his partner IMO maybe she will realize he's a POS treating her bad.
Yeah, this a boyfriend issue as well if he doesn't shut it down.
I agree with this. OP is saying dad likes to “joke around”.. I’m thinking this was less predatory and more of a bad joke/behavior. I think dad thinks it’s funny to cause issues in the son’s relationship. While I do think dad needs to see a therapist and explore why he wants to create problems/sabotage his son’s relationships, I’m not convinced dad is a predator based on this one incident.
As in she can change her mind at any time. He and many others are acting like she must be locked in to what she said when they first started dating.
OP doesn’t have cancer….
Weight loss is about a lifestyle change that's sustainable. Anyone cad fad diet for 7 days. You need to work with yourself to find something that you can sustain for a long time and not be miserable. You need to enjoy life as well.
At the end of the day is calories in – calories out. You can't beat the rules physics. BUT how you do it, is up to you.
What I did is for the first week, I just logged what I ate normally to see how many calories I was consuming. Then I did a TDEE calculator to work out what I should be consuming to get to my goal weight.
Now I log my meals. Its annoying. But I need to keep accountable to myself. I clearly can't guess or judge by eye (or I wouldn't need to lose weight in the first place).
BUT this way I can have cake for breakfast if I want to, but I log it. I just keep it light for the rest of the day. 150g of ice cream is a surprising amount.
Or you can OMAD (one meal a day) or Intermittent fast, or reduce portions, or go vegetarian 3 x week or go keto – its all up to what works for you.
You clearly have a science minded brain, so make yourself your own experiment.
On the bright side, you will lose fast. My other half is about the same as you and lost 10kgs in the time I lost 4. I was weighing and logging EVERYTHING, all he did is stop snacking. I try hard not to be salty about that.
Tell him to stop watching porn. It's a free cure.
Thank you this is so sweet ! I never did stop ima be a dr in a couple months he's behind by him self thank you for everything
You will be disappointed and sad at first because you had some good moments in the relationship and she ruined it by choosing her friend over you.
But the upside to all of this is way more valuable than the relationship with her. Because all of the bad times where she ALLOWED her friend to bully you will far outweigh any good that was had in the relationship.
You did everything you could. You did what most people couldn’t do and stood up for yourself. It sounds like you have a decent job and a stable life. Your have self worth, and no bully, ex gf, or anyone else can say otherwise.
You will look back on this and realize the BULLET that you dodged. You almost gave your life to a person that didn’t love you enough to stick up for you. Accept her for who she truly is, a person that chooses a toxic friend over everyone else, accept her for her flaws, and move on.
You should not have kept your mouth shut. Had you done that. You’d have had the same outcome, accept you’d have felt pathetic for not sticking up for yourself when you had the chance.
You are a strong person. You’ve taken a big step toward loving yourself. You deserve better from a girlfriend.
There isn't. I think in the spur of the moment a man would likely feel shocked also.
Example, I am old. I'm from the days of magazines and the start of the internet for these things. One time I was home, my husband was not, so I decided to look something up. Unbeknownst to me, whatever site I looked up also popped up a second tab that was at the bottom of the screen that I didn't notice. I finished watching whatever, closed the tab, and didn't give it a second thought.
Insert my husband then going to use the computer later and seeing a minimized tab. He clicks it, and is suddenly face to face with a black man with a very large member masturbating. It wasn't even what I looked up. It was just an ad. But the shock of it upset my husband in the moment.
Hell, at this point I have known and watched my husband look at porn for years. We still had a moment a couple months ago where what he looked up shocked me and rattled me for a few weeks and hurt my feelings. Things happen. Reactions occur. Sometimes they are irrational and sometimes they aren't. That's how being in a relationship is.