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Date: October 6, 2022
Well, now you know there is an affair. Feign like you don’t know, hire a PI(if legal) and get information.
You’ll have ammunition for any legal proceedings that happen.
Yup. Big, huge, gigantic, yikes.
sorry, girl, you rally radiate pick me energy.
also kind of seems ironic you'd say you're not materialistic when this entire post has been putting a monetary value on gifts, as well as how much he makes.
The problem isn’t about asking her it’s actually about your anxiety around it. This is one of those situations where you need to suck it up and learn how to deal with possible rejection.
Just outright ask her if she’d like to go on a date. You can lead up to it by asking her what she likes to eat and what she likes to do when she’s out as well as sharing your own ideas to see how she reacts to it.
I never said that I thought that. I’m saying because she didn’t know for three months the time window for an abortion depending on where she lives is different because for example the uk the latest term abortion you can is is 24 weeks and for in the us some states it’s illegal no matter what some it’s till 9 weeks but only if medically necessary some I think can have late term abortions at 26 weeks. So I’m just stating that there maybe be reasons beyond her control that she kept the baby. Whatever her reasons are she doesn’t have to state them in her post. Especially when her reasons Or lack there of for keeping the baby are irrelevant to the post and issue at hand. Also the not to mention thing is a saying in the US it’s used when you want to emphasize something you are adding to the list so it was not meant literally.
You will as long you accept nothing less than what you want
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I think giving him time and space in a safe environment is the best medicine for him. As well as lots of patience and love. It takes time for people to heal from emotional wounds like that, just as it will for your dog.
The “friend” isn't the problem, the fact that your boyfriend is disrespectful of your relationship, your feelings, and your boundaries is the problem.
Ooooh darling, can you please consider this? There is ice on the roads, many people have already died, some drivers spent the night in shelters, so maybe we should wait dear, only if it’s okay with you! Sweetheart, I get it, the only right way is your way, so please let me know when to be ready. THANK YOU DEAR FOR PUTTING UP WITH ME AT ALL.
Bullet dodged. I'm sorry, it sucks, but what else is there to say? Man is trash.
I have to respect a couple that is willing to do whatever it takes to stay together, in a situation like this, where there are basic incompatibilities but no abuse.
I see a few possibilities here:
1: You'll find a way to raise your sex drive. This will be difficult, but it's possible to a degree, and this looks like the way you and him, indirectly, have chosen. Your sex drive may increase with age, as it does in many women, so there's that.
2: He'll lower his sex drive. This is easy, certain common meds are notorious for this, but has the risk (?) that the change is permanent.
3: He'll keep his sex drive where it is, and just do without most of the time. Easy in theory, difficult in practice, and it will take an emotional toll. His sex drive may decrease with age, so there's that.
4: He'll cheat to get his needs met.
I hope you'll update us a year or so out, to let us know how it all went. I hope it all works out like you feel it will!
I don't know you, but if you let him move in I will find you just to give you an 'are you an idiot' look. Women help women…feel like ass hats when they do something stupid.
That was truly a disgusting comment from your wife. You need to stand up for yourself and tell her that she had no business commenting on your body the way she did and if the roles were reversed and you criticized her vagina then how would that make her feel? I know it hurts but wow. I would be angry af. And she wants to have children? Is she even sensitive enough to be around them?? Hell no.
That's a plus that he's not easily offended!
When my boyfriend did end up going to therapy and went on medication, he became a different person and we ended up breaking up after he read through my phone, so I wouldn't say learn from my experience there.
I think his medication wasn't right for him and I was prepared to deal with that, but… it never happened.
Anyways, my whole point is is that if he does choose to work on those things, be prepared to work on them with him together.
He is disrespecting you and your friendship. You should block him.
Yeah, stop focusing on her life. It doesn't concern you and you're being a creepy possessive ex.
Get some therapy and move on.
JFC these people on that sub talking about their obsessees using nice terms like limerence instead of calling it what it is: obsessive, unhealthy behavior.
I think the best would be to not involve her in your decisions or even involve her in discussions. You are an adult. She is super religious and probably thinks a higher education will make you a sinner. Apply for the college but use a mailing address of a friend or trusted person outside of your home, or possibly a P.O. Box. Don’t tell her until you are gone, sneak out basically. This may affect your relationship with her but your education and future is more important than her eternal damnation. She is controlling every aspect of your life, get out and pursue your happiness.
I'm not ready for children yet. I want to secure a good future for them, this is one of the reasons I'm being busy. Maybe I should be alone until I feel ready. There are many guys I train with that have children, haven't talked with them about their family life and how they combine them, perhaps I should.
I know it’s strictly an FWB but idk I feel like I catch him glancing at me at work and just paying attention to me alittle more . Also idk call it a gut instinct. I was right about him wanting to fuck me .
A little over a week ago we reconnected. He has done a lot of reflecting on his own behavior and identified the cause of some of his toxic/unhealthy behaviors. He has also made some pretty big lifestyle changes and distanced himself from a group of friends who engaged in behaviors he couldn’t align himself with and caused him to behave in ways that were hurtful to me and the relationship (partying, recreational drug use, excessive drinking, etc.) his friends didn’t like me because they felt like I was stealing him/changed him because he didn’t want to party as much and that caused him a lot of stress feeling like he had to choose between us. I love his friends and I’m sad they don’t like me. Him choosing between us was never something I would have asked for but his reasoning (identifying he wants to live a different life) is something that feels like a change/part of that work to me.
Not expensive if the ‘dates’ are at each other’s homes. Some people like living alone so much that they never move in together with their partner but each keep living at their own place, that is ok too.
Thank you kind stranger for this. I appreciate it.
It’s over buddy im sorry
It’s nice that you are willing to with through this with him, but I HIGHLY recommend going to see a professional about this, this is way too big to deal with on your own. You don’t want to end up emotionally damaging him unintentionally.
I agree with the first comment on here. You need to separate from him safely. Details of how it got to this point no longer matter. As much as anyone in your shoes would want closure, I’m not sure it’s safe for you to do that right now.
You said yourself “he seems like a completely different person. A person I don’t know.” For years, there have been big issues he’s refused to open up to you about because it seems he has a side he has successfully hidden from you.
What if he determines the reason he can’t be with this woman is because you’re alive? What if he blames you for ruining a situation that was “meant for him?”
Message her back- and tell her to get the cops involved. Don’t assume you know him well enough to address this with him rationally.
Get out of there. Now. Stalking ends in violence a lot of the time. The fact that you were too disturbed to post what he said- but you posted that he was physically watching her, calling her a bitch, not respecting her saying no, and engaging in a really unhealthy imaginative world where they are made for each other- girl. Get out of there now.
Financially, legally, all that can be worked out later.
Physically get out of there now. Look for women’s abuse shelters if you don’t have the money to get yourself your own place or hotel or don’t have family or friends or coworkers who can house you.
You’re safety is more important. I’m glad this woman messaged you about this- and you should go to the police if this other woman is unwilling to.
You're probably right but In my mind I justify it mostly by the fact it's been a struggle for us both money wise so we're unable to have the experiences that made past relationships more enjoyable, we mostly just sit in her room and watch shows on TV, which don't get me wrong I enjoy doing as we often talk about said shows but I'm more of an outdoorsy person and like to get out there and make memories, I've also put on a decent amount of weight since being together and I'm unsure if this is also contributing but it could also just be what you said about expectations she's an amazing person I just know it'd ruin her if I ended it due to how she is always saying how much I've helped her mentally and things of that nature.
He sounds unstable and dangerous. I’m not sure confronting him is safe, but I would be quietly planning my escape.
I've literally never seen a person on Coke, and yet my first thought was the exact same thing!
All you have to know is people with allergies aren't this excitable and fired up when having an allergic reaction.
You haven’t broken up with him? You need to see a therapist.
Did you try a few therapy session to see why you are attracted to extremely unstable people?
You want something out of him that he cannot give you. You want to fundamentally change who he is to be with you and that's unfair to you and to him.
“Do you find me attractive?”
You “this isn’t about me finding you attractive, this is health and about me being scared you’re going to be dead from diabetes or the plethora of cancers that can happen from being unhealthy, this about wanting both of us at our child’s wedding. I miss (insert all the activities you used to do together).”
I’d avoid the attractiveness one because it’s a cop out. She wants to hear ‘yes’ to make herself feel better about the fact she is probably very unhappy.
Have you talked to your sister about this concerning behavior?