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Somebody vehemently denying any foul play when they are implied by others to partake in such isn't a red flag, it's a natural behavior for someone who isn't guilty. There's actual science behind it. I don't get how people keep misunderstanding this.
Not to sound too much like a therapist but you have classic signs of abandonment which feels very real and very rational. Unfortunately it can also manifest and drive him away too without you even realizing it. I would encourage you to start with a list of all the good things and ways this person has been there and shown his commitment to you. Keep adding to it, even the small things and come back and read this list whenever these fears creep in. I’m not sure if you have expressed to him that you are having these fears in a way that is healthy but try to find a way to share it with him. Make sure you are meeting your needs and keeping your own cup full as well.
It's not kink shaming to say “I will not unknowingly participate in your fetish”
Your husband should be the one handling this with her. He needs to call her and let her know that he loves her but you aren’t going to be taking her in again. You can’t control what her reaction will be, he just needs to be clear and firm.
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Just ask him why they were there. Explain how you found them and how they make you feel. If he truly cares about you, he will be remorseful and delete them without hesitating.
what can i do to express how his behavior was ridiculous ?
DUMP HIM. Jesus Christ, how is that not obvious? Your boyfriend is a misogynist gaslighting dickhead. Why are you trying to fix these things (spoiler alert, they're unfixable and he will always be like this or worse once you're married and he feels like he's “got” you) instead of finding a guy that doesn't have these massive glaring personality flaws in the first place?
Well this is just not true at all. I have no clue what you're basing any of your comment off of. I have been very much aware of her male friends and had no issue with it whatsoever. One of which, she had even mentioned was a distant ex bf.
You seem to be completely missing out on the context of this. It appears to me that you're under the impression that she was having this conversation with me or something. Well that is not the case. She was saying this in exchange of a conversation that she thought I wasn't aware of.
I quite literally mentioned in the post that “it's not like I expected her to not find other men attractive”
Judging by this thread, it is practically unanimous that your accusations of me being “controlling” are beyond far-fetch.
This, the length of time and everything we share together makes this so scary.
So basically you're a party girl and he prefers to chill. There's no advice to give you.
Are they your pets or hers?
I read it less as “i allow you to volunteer” and more like , “if you want to interact with dogs so much , here is a possible solution that wouldn't require a dog in my house “.
Go to therapy. Who cares if he’s J-Ing Off?
But since he’s never been in a serious relationship or seen any healthy serious relationships, doesnt that make it a little understandable that he doesnt automatically know to do certain things?
This is completely off, of course you should be part of the group chat if SOs are included. Of course it hurts that you are left out. You need to be angry with whoever set the chat up to exclude you, and also with your BF because he should have added you or said if they didn't want you they shouldn't have the other SOs either. I suggest you talk to your BF about it pronto.
Welcome to the consequences of your actions
I was married to someone like the BiL. His jokes were never really funny and he wanted all eyes on him at all times. These people exist and are nightmares to deal with.
Let him go. He's taking out his frustration at being unemployed on you and that's not ok. He's making it “your fault”. I bet after you two breaks up & he gets another job he'll come crawling back, but right now his true colours are showing.
Agree
Dead kittens and baseball.
So you’re take is ignore it
They sound like miserable people that many people dislike. They deserve each other, and you deserve someone you don't have to deal with this stress over.
Believe me, you'll find someone, and you'll remember this girl as a big stain during a small portion of your life. She definitely isn't the one that got away, she's the one you are glad to get away from.