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If it’s cocaine, I wouldn’t even be ok with once per month. It’s a hard drug.
That’s not what she said. She didn’t say that she didn’t want to have kids until she’s married. She said “unprotected sex and orgasming during protected sex are husband territory that you have to put a ring on it to get”
She is 100% treating her relationship as an exchange. “You get this if you give me that” it has nothing to do with being in a stable and committed relationship — it’s fuckin’ “lock it down” relationship culture at its finest.
If she said “I told my boyfriend I didn’t want to have unprotected sex until we’re married so that we don’t risk having kids until we’re ready” that’d be one thing but that’s not what she said. All he has to do to get that is “put a ring on it” that’s fucking toxic and evidences clear emotional immaturity.
Noone owes you anything , and Noone should be expected to accept anything .
Realistically, Nobody is a 10.
N O
Take some NyQuil and go to sleep.
Woah I didn’t know that. We use to be using condoms but now we’re doing the pull out method so he doesn’t finish inside but he is inside raw and I feel like that might has had an affect
Yeah, I mean I'll get over it sooner than later. I'm just more curious if others would make out more of it and if it's something I'm taking too lightly.
Hey OP. I've been the girlfriend in this situation, but with my boyfriend suggesting the open relationship. I refused because I didn't think that would solve our problems and eventually we broke up due to sexual incompatibility.
You're both still so young. I think you deserve to find someone who meets your needs, and I think she deserves someone who matches her sex drive better. Maybe therapy and a change of birth control could help, but what if it doesn't? Are you prepared to put your needs below hers for the rest of your life? Are you sure you won't grow resentful?
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Ohhhh, this used to be me. Therapy my darling. My current boyfriend not only looks at my face but holds my chin so I watch him watching me in a mirror. I promise, if you do the therapy, you can move past it
Bro I get the division of labor feeling unfair. When my ex wife was pregnant and postpartum I did all the cooking, cleaning, picking up, worked 55 hours a week, and took care of our kids. It’s rough. That being said I stayed with someone who I had the talk about the division of labor and they didn’t care. I stayed for the kids.
However you haven’t had that talk yet, talk to them about what they’re expecting of you and you say what you’re expecting of them. You both need to take a perspective that you’re in the other persons shoes and try to find a compromise. She will be tired after birth. If she’s going to be breastfeeding she’ll be even more exhausted. Have this talk but take a step back and take a deep breath. Wait till after the birth before you decide to split.
I know it’s not easy of you. Everyone talks about the mom. Of course she has her own struggles getting ready for childbirth but that doesn’t discount yours. Just show up for yourself and make sure you’re not sacrificing too much of your own person but also have some empathy towards the mother of your child.
I don't think you're being unreasonable. Living in a constant state of panic and dread is not healthy at all. Eventually that panic will just turn into full blown resentment and the marriage will be over anyways.
Has your fiance tried anything to help with his anger outburst? Maybe you guys need some marriage therapy that will also help him with anger management as well as your processing some of your trauma response.
what happens in your current or future relationships is none of your ex's business
I think its more to do with my genetics. I am pretty ugly so I definitely don't see women as sex partners at all. My mom also has a lot of social anxiety(as a child she used to hide under the bed when a guest came to the house) and I just inherited it. Combine that with the fact that I have never talked to any woman ever and its pretty obvious why I have this anxiety. Please don't think that I think of women as sex partners only, its genetic
I read about NRE, and being a bit of a NRE chaser myself, I’m quite often thinking about how to make it more fulfilling at the moment. But my partner doesn’t really seem to have the emotional or erotic intelligence to do anything about it.. it’s as if he just accepts he will be more attracted to new people than me.
I’m petty but I would explain to him that he’s all in your business and it’s a huge turn off. Then if that didn’t work I’d turn the tables and be insufferable for 1-2 weeks. Pretty sure he’s doing some things “incorrectly “ himself!!
Oh my god you’re demented. Get some sun
I would just ask her where it is.
I would bet sometime after the 3 week mark it slipped off and scared her. So she put it somewhere safe. Or it slipped off and she didn't find it.
I wouldn't jump immediately to the worst case scenario. I mean, everyone knows she's engaged, right? Taking off the ring doesn't magically wipe that from their minds.
And if she was smart and cheating on you, she'd keep the ring on so you wouldn't notice any change in the photos.
No, he’s pushing your boundaries and you’re allowed to have them.
Women tend to be more permissive of nonsense in the office.
Yeah, not they don't. In fact, most women have delt with so much shit professionally they'll shred you in a second if they detect nonsense.
Your wife is the asshole, not you.
Gross.
That’s a tricky one, sounds like you’re having to trade sex for a stable relationship. Only you can decide whether this is workable in the long run. Can you go without sex, without resenting him?
You can of course try communicating your dilemma to him, but I feel like that’s something that you’ve gone over a thousand times before and I’m not sure there’s much point by now.
Some people do lead happy and fulfilling relationships without sex, so it’s still possible that this could work
In the end, you’re going to have to weigh up your options. Would he be open to you seeing a fwb at the same time?
If you move in with him, and are paying some of the costs, he should be able to afford heat/air.
Your take away is that men over 10 years older are bad? Shouldn’t it be that men who lie and text others are bad? Or that you should consider the advice of others, when EVERYONE is telling you the same thing?
Not really sure you learned the lesson.
Asking “you sure” and just wordlessly putting your bare dick on someone who already said no are two wildly different things.
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If you had religious parents who were against same sex relationships would you subject your partner to that environment… blind?
Or would you come out to your parents first and measure reaction.
Subjecting her girlfriend to this was a major error in judgement. I'm not saying it justifies the parents actions by any means (and honestly, who is to say what the hell happened exactly besides a rant).
What does it mean “forces” you to shut up? Hopefully that isn't by physical force? If yes that's a no brainer sign to leave, if he just tells you to stop talking and disengages from the argument i kind of feel like that's okay? Just to talk about it later once you've cooled down?