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Don’t worry about defining a cheating scenario. Encourage her to report to a rape counselor or to law enforcement. Don’t give ultimatums though, no matter what you should realize she’s got to work through the trauma responses. A counselor is going to be the best person to turn to, but law enforcement can help facilitate that if needed.
I have women friend. And fact is though at one point there was interest in each other. If she was single we be on top of each other lol there is a respect though. Kind hoe it rolls. And I don't blame you guys for feeling like it's sus. Cause it is lol. My friend knows I'm a gentleman in the fact in keep some bro guy codes. Just cause I know how it feels to be snaked or heart ripped like scorpion from mortal kombat. “Get over here”. It's Shakey ground and suiter is waiting in the wind basically. Common thing in dating. But not a.good thing in my case I was around years and years before. And many other things happen so it's a mutual like no we won't but it's nice to dream lol. In this case your building brand new friend quote in quote friendship as you call it. Men rarely are friend only. Some yes but rarely.
there isn’t a whole lot of saliva involved
There doesn't have to be a lot, that's how germs work. ANY amount of saliva is plenty for viruses. Microscopic things.
All the other people's advice on herebis spot on. Listen to it. You are the asshole here.
To be honest I dated someone for years and was the bread winner, they quit their job with no plan to return to work or go to therapy or study or do anything!
I thought I’d nicely plan out how to end it at an appropriate time but one day I got home from work, I wanted to relax, he complained the internet was slow and impacting his gaming. Something just came over me and I broke up with him there and then.
You will get frustrated and so it. Waiting months and months won’t work.
My advice isn't much help I'm afraid, I'd throw the whole man out.
He's clearly very insecure, and had attributed you having a toy to cheating?! (That one baffles me). Yet doesn't want to initiate, rebuffs your advances, and is willing to throw the relationship away over an unused object?
How exactly does he think it would work going forward? You'll live together in a confined space, hurt and resenting each other, eventually one of you may find someone else you're interested in and what? Bring them home?
Is this something he'll bring up and hold over you in future arguments?
If you think it can be salvaged, couples counselling. Honestly, it sounds like he needs some one on one with a therapist.
Dude. Get out. Run for the hills.
37 years old and acting like an immature irresponsible child. Poor kids
She met you when you were 19… how much “abuser history” does she think you could have possibly racked up by age 19? Or that there would be a background searchable record of it if you did?
If she has this little trust in you after 6 years of knowing one another and 5 years of dating, I don't see that this relationship has anywhere to go. She and her friend can be single together, but I bet if you leave, she's going to call your refusal to participate in her nonsense proof that you were an abuser and pretend to be a victim like her friend.
Have you thought about easing into sex a little bit more slowly? It seems like there could be some pressure on the all-or-nothing mindset there. If you can make it a gradual thing to get back into, then you can both have “outs” that aren't just cutting out sex, but also don't require completion through PIV sex.
Some options might be just like a naked make-out session, or Getting yourselves off together, or getting each other off. Maybe when you do have sex, you can use a position where she's leading all the activity? Idk, I just think that if there's a step that feels like it might be too bit, you can look for some middle ground between here and there.
Ask her if you can have sex with her during her next gaming session with them. Assert your dominance.
If he was a year younger or if she was a year older would it suddenly be okay?
Where do you draw the line with teenagers dating in Highschool?
Trust is accrued over time. Are you where you said you’d be? Come home when you said you would? Follow through on plans and commitments? As these things stack up , over time, trust is gained. Past relationships and so-called “trauma” (a word that I find so completely over-used btw) are not blueprints for other humans. And Being cheated on by one partner does not grant you or her the right to question another. After 8 months you should have some sense of this person and they of you, but maybe not si much that you’re ready to make any life commitments.
How many times does he have to show you who he is before you believe him? This is a you problem, not a problem with him. Send him a nice note telling him that you appreciate his efforts but you have decided that it's best for you to end things. Then block him immediately. Do not respond- you have shown that you can be controlled by manipulation and verbal abuse. Expect him to escalate and then move on. Take back control of your life by a complete black out of response from you. It will take some time but will be worth it.
Break up with her. She cheated, simple as that
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Whatever you do, DO NOT attempt to salvage this unless you're okay with being cheated on.
I go by she/they. Either is fine and if I cared and preferred one I would communicate it. My partner is enby and uses he/him as he has all his life because that’s what he’s comfortable with. Ask your bf if it would feel more support and affirming if you used “they” and go with what they say. But don’t beat a dead horse, it can be exhausting to have these conversations over and over. Let your bf know if they change their preference you want to know to be supportive.
You’ve done nothing wrong here.
In some weird, twisted way, we are never “the first” choice to anyone. Because we may have that first crush or GF/BF that we thought we'd be with forever. When that falls apart, we end up with someone else. If you do end up marrying your first love, it may work, but more often it will not work out because you're young and inexperienced, and once you grow up, you realize you want different things.
From my point of view, what she did is somehow healthy because she shot her shot, she failed, and then she was free to live the rest of her life. Would you have preferred she said “yes” on the spot, and then always wonder what might have been if she asked that guy out? She was free to get to know you and fall in love with you, for who you are. I hope this helps.
First of all you need to apologize. You were hurt and you lashed out. You felt betrayed so you couldn't talk about it then okay. But you two have to talk about this. It is very possible that there was no lying or manipulation. As people get older their feelings about having kids can change a lot for a lot of reasons.
Honestly if he is trying to gaslight you id be asking him to turn over his phone. If he refuses end it.
She's a cheater, id forgive her only if she starts bringing the girls home for regular threesomes.
I understand, thank you. It might come to us just being friends but even then she’s an amazing person and I could see myself falling out of like with her if that makes any sense
I rest my case.
The reaction is highly immature on his end.
You have a choice to make I guess.
I agree and i bet their kids are relatively young (under 10), so they probably are drained. Sounds like they need a weekend away.
If she is amazing and you really get along well, then these are details. The kind of details all married couples deal with.
Btw – spend a few months with her in china and see how smart you feel.
I’d be gutted if my kid moved away.
But I’d sure as hell not try to control or guilt him about it like you are.
He’s 33. Cut the apron strings. Move near him if you want to be close so badly.
But I suspect the reason he’s so far away is because you’re so controlling.
Yeah guessing this is probably going to be the case.
If OP’s situation is anything like that then there’s no way he could afford to miss the app, especially with something like physical therapy, that could jeopardise his recovery.
But OP I advice as soon as you get your appointment dates to write them in your phone calendar immediately and set up reminders days before it happens.