If he can’t or won’t do those things for you then tell me what does he do that makes you love him? You love him so much but why, what does he do for you to feel as strongly as you say you do?
She literally will not. It sounds like she doesn’t want to be with you at this point. Stay on the sinking ship as long as possible if you want, but you’re not doing her or yourself any favors here.
Yes. I also feel somewhat certain he’d be very much the type to blackmail her with those videos if/when she ever upsets him or tries to leave. This is the purpose of these situations for many men who encourage it. It’s not even that it turns them on but rather that it’s ammunition. The same goes for men who really push you to film sexual videos with them
I had a bit of a similar experience. My wife and I went back to our home country for a visit and her ex asked her to meet him. She agreed with the stipulation that I be invited as well. I didn’t ask for that. I trust my partner but she saw it as putting me first in her life. So we met him and turns out he’s a really nice guy. He wanted to introduce her to his new girlfriend and so we all had a great time. What I’m saying is trust is good but you need to put the person you say you love first and trust be damned. It’s not a pissing contest. It’s about treating the person you say means everything to you like they actually do mean everything to you. BTW we’ve been married 29 years and her ex is now also a good friend of mine.
He already knows. He's been in love with her, but is so patient & kind, he's protected her by seeking gratification elsewhere. Each time he gets the urge, because she is beautiful, he rushes to the arms of his escort & pretends she's really his wife. The only reason he had to go out so often after lockdown was because of the stirring of the intense desires his intimacy with his ill wife created. If only she knew how he felt! If only he could do all those naughty things to her. But no. She doesn't love him as deeply as he loves her. For now, he will continue to seek solace in the arms of another…
If he can’t or won’t do those things for you then tell me what does he do that makes you love him? You love him so much but why, what does he do for you to feel as strongly as you say you do?
Exactly
I agree with the sentiment but condoms are very effective at preventing STDs when used correctly
Oh wow. That actually really put things into perspective
She literally will not. It sounds like she doesn’t want to be with you at this point. Stay on the sinking ship as long as possible if you want, but you’re not doing her or yourself any favors here.
Yes. I also feel somewhat certain he’d be very much the type to blackmail her with those videos if/when she ever upsets him or tries to leave. This is the purpose of these situations for many men who encourage it. It’s not even that it turns them on but rather that it’s ammunition. The same goes for men who really push you to film sexual videos with them
I had a bit of a similar experience. My wife and I went back to our home country for a visit and her ex asked her to meet him. She agreed with the stipulation that I be invited as well. I didn’t ask for that. I trust my partner but she saw it as putting me first in her life. So we met him and turns out he’s a really nice guy. He wanted to introduce her to his new girlfriend and so we all had a great time. What I’m saying is trust is good but you need to put the person you say you love first and trust be damned. It’s not a pissing contest. It’s about treating the person you say means everything to you like they actually do mean everything to you. BTW we’ve been married 29 years and her ex is now also a good friend of mine.
He already knows. He's been in love with her, but is so patient & kind, he's protected her by seeking gratification elsewhere. Each time he gets the urge, because she is beautiful, he rushes to the arms of his escort & pretends she's really his wife. The only reason he had to go out so often after lockdown was because of the stirring of the intense desires his intimacy with his ill wife created. If only she knew how he felt! If only he could do all those naughty things to her. But no. She doesn't love him as deeply as he loves her. For now, he will continue to seek solace in the arms of another…
That is still no excuse. You still should meal plan and stick to it.
LOL excellent point.
The one person out a thousand that wants this. I'm sure the dude is confused as heck.
The one person out a thousand that wants this. I'm sure the dude is confused as heck.