Literally I very rarely eat off my bfs plate unless we are intentionally sharing a plate, we legit only share if our appetite is small on both sides so dirtying two more dishes for a couple bites is weird that is the only time we share or if one of us offers the other a bite but we'd never flip shit like that
Jfc. If you're not trying for a baby, then use protection. And if you do want to have a baby with him, get your head examined. A baby is a 18 year commitment minimum and you've known this guy six months.
Yes, it is something I always wanted to do even before knowing things, as I told him before he’s my first sexual experience so I wanted to try things with him.
Ugh, you’re the reason why doctors won’t sterilize child free people because WhAt If YoU cHaNgE yOuR mInD? A vasectomy is to prevent all future pregnancies, it’s not meant to be reversed so people who already have a football team think “you know what? Never mind taking care of the kids I have.” and treat their body like a baby cannon. You cannot be both working and be spending enough time with your existent kids, much less adding more to the mix.
i agree that the way i act is my responsibility but also i have certain reactions because i have been in situations that were traumatic and because of that i can act in heightened ways. that is what a trigger is. i can own the fact that i treated my friend in a cruel way without blaming myself for the emotional abuse i endured. she is completely entitled to remove herself from the conversation and i respected that, i did not contact her from the last date on the screenshots onwards except to reschedule our call the first time and then today when we were supposed to have our second call. her wanting space makes sense, but we had arranged to talk and that’s what frustrated me today. i have given her space.
addressing your point about asking my therapist about the narcissistic abuse in my messages and not being entitled to your time: i understand your point but also you responded to my post in an advice sub, it’s not that weird of me to ask for advice. of course i will ask my therapist.
She never “felt bad” about lying, using, manipulating…
You have a good heart… she never it or appreciated you. Don’t be a doormat. Stand up for yourself. You’ll find a woman who will appreciate everything you have to offer.
i don’t know the answer but 1000 calories a day is basically an eating disorder. please rethink your weight loss strategy as that will do more harm than good
Your GF broke the trust and respect of your relationship into so many pieces that they are probably going to need to redefine the smallest particle in existence.
You end the relationship.
Tell her she is crazy and you never want to see her again.
Literally I very rarely eat off my bfs plate unless we are intentionally sharing a plate, we legit only share if our appetite is small on both sides so dirtying two more dishes for a couple bites is weird that is the only time we share or if one of us offers the other a bite but we'd never flip shit like that
Don't. Have. Unprotected. Sex.
Jfc. If you're not trying for a baby, then use protection. And if you do want to have a baby with him, get your head examined. A baby is a 18 year commitment minimum and you've known this guy six months.
I just want to point out that OP has since commented that this 40lbs weight gain has mostly been due to alcohol.
It's def about health, but not in the way he thinks it is because yikes.
Its not your fault your brother decided to cheat on his wife or that your friend decided to sleep with your brother.
Yes, it is something I always wanted to do even before knowing things, as I told him before he’s my first sexual experience so I wanted to try things with him.
we can reverse the procedure
Ugh, you’re the reason why doctors won’t sterilize child free people because WhAt If YoU cHaNgE yOuR mInD? A vasectomy is to prevent all future pregnancies, it’s not meant to be reversed so people who already have a football team think “you know what? Never mind taking care of the kids I have.” and treat their body like a baby cannon. You cannot be both working and be spending enough time with your existent kids, much less adding more to the mix.
He is like 30. I can tell he is not a good man. A hypocrite. You stay with him and find out how he will treat you in years to come.
i agree that the way i act is my responsibility but also i have certain reactions because i have been in situations that were traumatic and because of that i can act in heightened ways. that is what a trigger is. i can own the fact that i treated my friend in a cruel way without blaming myself for the emotional abuse i endured. she is completely entitled to remove herself from the conversation and i respected that, i did not contact her from the last date on the screenshots onwards except to reschedule our call the first time and then today when we were supposed to have our second call. her wanting space makes sense, but we had arranged to talk and that’s what frustrated me today. i have given her space.
addressing your point about asking my therapist about the narcissistic abuse in my messages and not being entitled to your time: i understand your point but also you responded to my post in an advice sub, it’s not that weird of me to ask for advice. of course i will ask my therapist.
She never “felt bad” about lying, using, manipulating…
You have a good heart… she never it or appreciated you. Don’t be a doormat. Stand up for yourself. You’ll find a woman who will appreciate everything you have to offer.
They have been together less than a year and have broken up already based on OPs other comments.
Yup he’s using you while he waits for someone better.
i don’t know the answer but 1000 calories a day is basically an eating disorder. please rethink your weight loss strategy as that will do more harm than good
How can you not know what to do.
Your GF broke the trust and respect of your relationship into so many pieces that they are probably going to need to redefine the smallest particle in existence.
You end the relationship.
Tell her she is crazy and you never want to see her again.
Then block her on everything, and never look back