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Good idea about the recording, thank you!
You can tell him, but he’s not going to appreciate it regardless.
Maybe send an anonymous note with some proof rather than an anecdotal accounting
Has this always been a problem?
I do know this.
One example that is actually demonstrated with the info here and isn’t my intuition:
There is a new mother who purposely made sure he was restricted. Within two weeks, he had harassed her enough to change the last name of her baby and let him sign the birth certificate.
She is exhausted. She is stressed. She just had a baby. The only way OP got his way is via abuse, and I would argue that him even throwing the fit he did no matter how he did it was psychological abuse because of the vulnerable state the woman is in.
He’s an emotionally immature and selfish moron, and nobody like that is healthy in relationships.
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If someone would consider an open relationship, their values are different than mine in an irreconcilable way. I wouldn’t even entertain the idea under any circumstances. Someone who’s nonmonogamous doesn’t share my values.
Sorry bro, but you brought this on yourself. She friended an ex. Not a big deal. She even explained why. But you wanted to look through her phone, in depth, for no reason. All the while, you've had lengthy conversations with another woman about problems in your relationship, which is a HUGE deal. You're the poster child for “fucked around & found out.”
If she hasn't broken up with you yet, she should. And next time, don't discuss private relationship issues with anyone else, ESPECIALLY another woman.
Mhm
I understand that. What I’m saying is the dad didn’t need to bring it up if he can’t handle that other people won’t share his views. Literally the only way the dad would’ve been happy is if the boyfriend either agreed or kept his mouth shut. It’s a dick move on the dad’s part.
And it’s often a case where they really want something but feel it’s too extravagant/justify it
Honest guy looking for LTR that's what I wrote-
I also wrote I'm introspective and analytical.
What is he doing to regain your trust?
Nothing but empty words. The reality is that you basic standard should be “I don't date liars and I don't date guy who don't respect me”
You would have stayed broken up if you kept those basic bare minimum standards.
So you want to stay with the guy who lies and who doesn't respect you and you want to heal at the same time?
You can only heal by being away from the source of your pain OR he does so much work to prove he deserves trust. You had to remind him to block her on everything so you know which one is the obvious choice.
Bud, you dodged one. Remember, you're looking for someone that compliments you, not completes you. This woman has a lot of work she needs to do on herself, and you're not her therapist nor her child's father. Take solace in the good times you had, and remember what you learned and apply it to the next girl in your new town. Best of luck.
I can’t imagine looking at someone that I am in love with and thinking that 30 lbs is what changes my attraction to them. I think that it would help to talk this out with a professional for your own sake but FOR ME the relationship would be over.
Wish I could upvote you 10,000 times!
You've made this worse by not just being upfront from the start. His obsession over this is weird on its own, but he's probably going to flip when he finds out.
If you didn't feel comfortable enough communicating with him on this, it's probably a good sign this isn't a healthy relationship to begin with.
That’s a rough life lesson.
But you want different lives and luckily the loss is minimal
Personally I'd give away the bf. People who love you, really love you, want what's best for you. Your dog helps you and your bf is begrudging you that? How selfish is that? Sounds like he only cares about himself. You'll get more love from that dog than you ever will from that petty little boy, and the dogs love doesn't come with strings attached. I know which I'd choose.
Forgiving her for lying to me for 1,5 year or so took a big part away from myself as beinig true and honest to one another is one of my most important values. I could not even think about doing the same! When we just met honesty was very important to her, one of the reasons I fell so hard for her back in the days. But I have figured out she is very very good at lying with multiple layers of truth.
But besides these events over the last few years we do give our kids a caring a loving family. Ofcourse I do not know for how long we can keep this up as I am pretty paranoid already. She keeps telling me “no more secrets”, but I just wish I could be a relaxed husband instead of beinig on the lookout all the time.
I have comitted my life to my children, who I dearly love. So I really do want what is best for them, but what would they think when I leave after 10 years when they are “old enough”. Or how will I feel after 10 years and decide to stay because she really did better her life this time, could I keep believeing that would be possible or will I always keep on the lookout?
You are 22, dad is out of line.
we’ve been together since we were 15 and this isn’t the first time he said something like this. it’s really traumatizing to hear.
why are u putting up w that? tell his family and friends that he has suicidal tendencies and block him on everything. you deserve better
37 years old and he's behaving like this? 37?
What he did is not 'incredibly sweet and supportive' it was manipulative and he basically just wanted to use you as a live masturbation device.
I hope OP reads this whole thread. Y'all are spot on!
Personally, I would not stay with someone who has a toxic codependent relationship like this.
You’re too young to be dealing with this BS if she left you for another guy that easily forget about her learn from it.
I’m still not understanding why cruises aren’t a viable option here