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Date: October 7, 2022
tell him the things that you would regret not telling him a year from now.
I once dated a girl who had some serious sexual trama myself and it didnt last very long. The first time she came over to my house she got very upset i didnt have sex with her and chalked it up as im not a dominant man? These type of girls i feel push down there feelings sooo deep they just do anything to make themselves avoid their trama. Encourage her to go to therapy but if i were you. Id save yourself a lot of heartbreak and cut things off before you get more hurt. My experience was she was extremely impulsive and the day after we broke up she went to her ex that she previously told me sexually assaulted her. Not worth the time brother :/ you hope you can change them but i think these type of people need to help themselves first and you dating them will only hurt yoy both
Next time he’s out you could drop a hint on social, (tell her as well discreetly), then she could catch him… you could signal when and where based on the public hint. She could claim she was concerned and she stalked your social to find out where he was.
Just tell him your goals
Just because you have goals doesn’t mean you have to drop everything in your life to do them
Why not work on your goals and be with him?
That sounds more fun
Because when you achieve your goals who is gonna be there to congratulate you
Porn is a thief. It steals intimacy, it steals time and attention that should be yours. If he’s not hungry he won’t hunt.
If you're afraid of losing her forever due to this breakup, you should be even more afraid of losing her due to the stress of trying to satisfy your needs in a long distance relationship that she doesn't want. If she ever keeps coming back to you, it will be because she's attracted to you, and because you treat her like a person whose judgment you respect.
I was the 25 year old dating a 42 year old man before. We actually dated for 4 years. He chose me because I didn’t know better and put up with his shit that women his age would never. He did use me for money and lied constantly. At the end of the day, I ended up leaving him. I grew up and realized I wanted more out of my life than taking care of a 40+ man who I had already caught up to and left behind. No emotionally mature, normal 40 year old man is looking to settle down into a committed equal partnership with a girl in her early 20s. It’s all fun and games now, but you have a kid so ask yourself the big questions:
How long can you afford to go Dutch? What happens if he loses his job or quits? Old people get sick. Are you willing to be the breadwinner? Do you want more kids? If so, are you willing to parent with him? How do you see him fitting into your life with your kid?
Your mom is right. You don’t need advice, you need self love.
Leave him
You can only preserve your good name to yourself.
You’ll always be the villain in someone else story. So there’s no point in sugar coating things for people.
Here’s how you break up with someone.
When you make the decision, be 100% positive it’s what you want and stick to that. DO NOT bend, compromise or delay.
Make sure you make it very clear what you are doing.
Example:
Hey John, I think it’s time we discuss the state of our relationship. I’m not feeling good about where we are and I think it’s time that we move on. I’m sorry things did not work out between us, but this is for the best for me right now. Please take care of yourself.
Be direct, do not leave any room for maybe or some days or anything like that. Just be direct and honest.
If they start on with the “what about me!” Stuff remember that relationships take two people being happy to work. If you’re not happy the relationship isn’t working.
Best of luck.
That’s part of my issue too, I don’t like the idea of sharing to begin with, let alone in a sexual manner. From what I know the friend would be done to do it and wouldn’t want to do it again, a one and done situation entirely, even with my GF saying she has no interest in doing it with anyone else, it does make me worry.
It’s odd, it both is a fantasy and that she’d love to do that, the idea of two partners is interesting to her but alongside that she wants to do it because she wants to let us have those one off experiences with someone we trust.
She just wants to do it the once but I am the same, I have no interest in opening relationships but I don’t wanna deny her the experience either because there’s this weird guilt that eats at me cause of it. And we trust the friend and each other so I don’t think we’d want tk do an open relationship, mainly due to because we both have agreed that an open relationship is a messy thing.
She has and has been actively talking to me about them and what they’d be, so it does help me but at the same time it feels like it’s not enough
He needs to leave the past in the past. He's cruel and sexist. Please leave him!
Yeah that’s what other friends have advised. I’ll try to say it but I think she might get defensive. I think what you’ve said is probably the best course of action…it’s a lot of money after all
Because OP's husband Skeevy McSkeeverton probably told OP how she “WaS MoOoOrE MaTuRe tHaN AnY Of HeR FrieNds” and OP, one year out of high school, fell for that groomer speech hook, line and sinker.
And here she is…
Yeah to me this isn't funny or flirty, this is selfish. He's using her to get himself off while she's asleep.
So either 1) she can't consent, or 2) he wakes her up because he couldn't be bothered to use his own hand
Either way, I'd be pissed and disgusted
With a sister like that, who needs enemies?
Look at how she said “she didn’t love him”. It’s not saying she’s sorry for it or feels bad. I know people who have cheated as young inexperienced people but the only time they change is when they recognize what they did was wrong. She did point out she cheated which a lot of cheaters don’t do so that is a good sign. But honestly talk with her about it more
Yes this is moving too fast and you will both lose yourselves in this relationship. Which will cause problems down the road.
Make sure you allow time to yourself, for healing and self-discovery.
Try having 3-4 days no contact, with a plan to meet up after that time and discuss how you feel after some time alone to process.
I know it feels good now but it’s just not sustainable. If you want this to be a healthy, long term relationship, slow down.
Yes this is moving too fast and you will both lose yourselves in this relationship. Which will cause problems down the road.
Make sure you allow time to yourself, for healing and self-discovery.
Try having 3-4 days no contact, with a plan to meet up after that time and discuss how you feel after some time alone to process.
I know it feels good now but it’s just not sustainable. If you want this to be a healthy, long term relationship, slow down.
Yeah, bro, you're a shit boyfriend.
Any person who cares about your girlfriend will absolutely advise her to dump your ass and find someone who actually wants to be with her.
Your behavior and attitude are so terrible, I can't actually decide whether you're trolling or not. But if you're not trolling, you absolutely deserve whatever negative consequences are coming your way
Ew.
Oh but depends on culture. I'm in the US and we are both Irish and German so we don't have the same familial type of pressure families of other cultures have.
He didn't want to hurt you? So he lied and did something he knew would hurt you while you're at home pregnant with his child? Sounds like a great guy.
He was probably with his wife and didn't want to talk about it.
So does the time he lasts in bed
Nice excuse to search his phone, because you couldn't have used your own Instagram. Nice try
He massaged her hoping she would get aroused and tried again, she said no
After she had already said no, he tried again. It does not matter what “signals” he thought he saw. Her words said no and yet he still tried again. No doesn't mean “maybe”, no doesn't mean “try to convince me”, no means no.
It's pretty common and reasonable for someone to want a massage without it turning into anything more, especially after already saying no. It's also pretty common for people to want physical intimacy without it always being about/leading to sex, such as by giving/receiving massages.
If he was only giving her a massage in the hopes of getting laid, that's manipulative. Going off to pout after not being allowed to convince her to have sex, is manipulative.
What is with the incessant need to make everything political?
She does. But OP doesn't owe her putting herself in harm's way for a stranger.
Point taken.
I feel like he’s not planning on paying you back, or can’t, and that’s why he’s pulled away. That’s what it sounds like. And men and women can be best friends. I’ve had a dude bestie for 30 years. Sometimes we trail off, and not speak for 3 months, and sometimes, we talk everyday. We’ve been accused of “hiding a relationship” which is not true. But he trailed off once he borrowed the money……. So……. Maybe that’s it. But I’d definitely stop reaching out. If you need to cut your losses, then do it. I’m sorry if you have to but some people will use you without a second thought. Just be careful who you lend money to in the future.
Who cares about the neighbor? Your husband took her number. And gave his own. That is alarming. What does he have to say for himself?
I'm sorry OP, but it sounds like the marriage was over before it started. You had to pester him into getting married and he continues to flirt with other girls. He's never going to respect you or give you the treatment you deserve.
Well, the relationship is odd, and he’s probably grooming her a lot, and she probably has father issues too and all of these issues are culminating in the situation. Frankly, it’s too much for one young man to handle. I would leave her and find somebody much healthier.
Why bring anyone other than him into this conversation? Say it. He may be upset but if it’s a health condition then by you being timid don’t bring it up and you don’t have a conversation you are only hurting him.
OP: Writes a sad post about his wife being mean. Then spends his time arguing his wife's position with everyone in the comments, while collecting that sweet, sweet reddit karma.
Bro why are you with someone that wants you to ditch your own daughter so they can have you to themselves? Grow up and do right by your child. Jfc.
But in this case it is definitely a man lol
She should get her tubes done. Double whammy.
Okay thanks!
I find it weird that it's been less than a week, and he's already annoyed. Maybe he's cut alcohol completely, and is mad at you cos you haven't?
I think self care is important. If you need some time to yourself after work, then that's perfectly reasonable. There's lots of things that people do in their own time as self care. You don't always need to be attached to your partner. It's important to have time to yourself.
I don't like the comment he made about how other men wouldn't let their gf's drink alone at a bar. What is he saying is going to happen?? That you are flirting with other men? That he can't trust you? It's literally right after work. You are tired, and looking for somewhere to chill out, and enjoy a drink before you go home. Why is he threatened by your independence?
You need to talk to him and figure out what his problem is. My partner used to regularly stay after work to decompress after a busy shift. There was literally a police bar inside the police station (NZ) so the cops could have a beer and a chat before heading home if they wanted. Gave them a private space to talk about their day, unwind after dealing with a lot of stress, and go home feeling a bit better. Taking an hour to yourself after work a few times a week is fine.
Alot of redditors would tell you to divorce him…and they would be right.
Guess who's not straight and definitely not faithful…