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Date: November 2, 2022
Because he’s your ex. shrug
He isn’t committed to you. It’s gross behavior, but he doesn’t have to give you attention.
It’s on you to decide if you’re willing to put up with that. Which it sounds like you did since you broke up. So stop dealing with him. He’s a jerk. You deserve real feels
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Unless the person who makes less is trying to live beyond their means and push for a more expensive apartment, area, etc – it should always be split based on income. The truly smart couples choose a living situation based solely on what the person who’s making less can afford solo. It puts them in the best financial situation for the future and removes financial strain should the relationship not work out.
Without context, it looks like you just want to hoard your money while leaving her to potentially struggle. At that point, what would be the benefit of combining anything with you?
As a woman with only hetero relationships, I have been through something similar insofar as having a partner that wanted an open relationship suddenly in the midst of our monogamous relationship. I think I can an empathize quite a bit.
It's heartbreaking. You feel inadequate, insecure – like you're always waiting for the other shoe to drop and you're walking on eggshells.
Personally, I don't think it's something you can compromise on. She wants the real experience, which means real live men and you can't give that to her without going against your very nature of monogamy. Maybe you'll give in to make her happy, but I can almost guarantee sitting at home and thinking about her out there with other people will create a new hell for you.
Seeing as this is a recurrent issue and it appears nothing you can do outside of giving her a pass to sleep with men will do, I'd suggest it's time for a very difficult conversation. Let her know that leaving you dangling there waiting for her to make a decision on whether or not she needs to act on her urges is tearing you up emotionally and it's high time she decides what she wants.
Based off my experience, though, even at that point what the choice in the end was wasn't really enough, I felt like the damage had been done with the mere implication that I wasn't enough. A relationship that you aren't secure in your position is a really crappy relationship.
I'm sorry this is happening to you, I know how it feels.