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If I understand you correctly, you're certain you don't want children, but you're worried about your partner, who is paternal in nature but has stated he is willing to be childless if it means a future with you, because you're worried you're denying him what he really wants? Or are you worried that he might change his mind?
I ask, because this is an important distinction. You're very certain you don't want kids, but how can you be sure HE isn't certain in his choice? You aren't denying him anything, he is making a choice; and I think it's a very mature reflection on his part to accept both your decision and that you aren't at a point in life to talk about it anyway, regardless of how certain you are.
But if you're worried he'll change his mind, I'm afraid no one can reassure you he won't. On the flip side, no one can reassure you YOU won't. Or of anything else in the world, because you're both individuals who are still growing and changing, every day. It's possible he may, but it's entirely possible he won't, either, and the most important aspect of any relationship is trust.
Do you trust him? Not to not change his mind, but do you trust him to be honest with you, and communicate with you? And can you keep that channel of communication open? If so, I wouldn't worry about the future, because if, IF, he starts to reconsider somehow you'll see it coming and you can talk about it as partners.
And if you do trust him, trust in his honesty now, and don't take away his autonomy by deciding on his behalf because you're scared. It's okay to be scared! But it's not okay take that out.
If you don't trust him, though, you need to think through why, and you need to talk. Because no partnership survives says trust.
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