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I have sort of been on your girlfriend’s side.
when I met my boyfriend, he had a female best friend since 10 years. She was married and with kids but sort of kept messaging my boyfriend all the time. The phone kept pinging when we were together or her call was used to be in waiting when we talked.
I kept it to myself for few months because I did not want to come across as a jealous person but I starting hating how much attention she demanded from him.
I told this to him and he assured me there was nothing to be worried about. She also tied Rakhi to him (sisters tie Rakhi) to brothers. I tried to be sane but I couldn’t get over how much she wanted to be in his life. When I met her the first time, she insisted my boyfriend come to drop her back home as he always did even though I was standing just there! That incident blew my lid off!
I started acting crazy and even creating many scenarios in my head. I used to pick fights every time when he mentioned her or over silly little things. I kept feeling that the 10 year friendship would be too strong for me to be the girlfriend. I genuinely tried including her in our life but couldn’t.
Eventually my boyfriend realised how much pain and shame it was causing me. He told me that I mattered more and he wanted our relationship to be about us and not about her. It took few months but Slowly and steadily he reduced contact with her. It went from nearly 100 texts a day to 2-3 texts a month.
We are 3 years married now and it all seems like an old incident. I still feel guilty of robbing him of a good friend. My husband on the other hand doesn’t feel much about it. He says he is the happiest he has even been and so have I. 🙂
I am telling this story to emphasise that even the sanest of girls can act crazy and jealous when it comes to female best friends, don’t let your family or friends call your girlfriend crazy if you know the back story. Give her the assurance and do what is necessary to keep her happy.
Hope you find someone who can make you happy ?
Gaslighting might be in reference to a stage play and movie, but the term was used in psychology in the 1960s. It wasn't until the 1990s that it gained popularity outside of psychology.
I’m gonna need more info here.
Have you ever asked this of your previous partners?
Is there something that you are looking for or are you just being nosey and trying to take control?
21 yo girl drama.
Speaking from experience, texting someone constantly is SO exhausting. It can definitely feel smothering to feel like you have to communicate with someone constantly who is not in front of you but needs or wants to hear from you all the time. Maybe ask your girlfriend what she needs and wants out of communication and if constant texting wears her out. She might be avoiding the conversation if she's afraid to hurt your feelings in a new relationship.
He wants a new 19-year-old.
Seriously OP. Go back and read your post as if you found it on Reddit. There is nothing that is even remotely okay between you and your husband.
I'm guessing he's concerned he'll try grooming another teenager once you age out for him.
He's not dating people his own age because they understand that disappointment happens as a part of life. You can't make this promise to him because it's just not reasonable. He can and will disappoint you. It happens. This age gap is not ok at your ages.
Nothing you've described comes anywhere close to the criteria for gaslighting.
Also, what you described is not a boundary. Boundaries govern YOUR behavior, not hers. Telling her she can't meet with a client in a public place to conduct her business isn't a boundary. It's controlling behavior.
I assume she's a small business trainer based on the scenarios you've described. If that's the case, engaging with other local trainers is necessary for her job. Telling her she can't do that because it makes you uncomfortable is not reasonable. It's controlling behavior.
Given how intently you scrutinize her social media and how you make demands of how she conducts herself on social media, can you understand why she'd be resistant to handing over her phone?
She hasn't done anything untrustworthy. You're just looking for reasons to not trust her because you're insecure. If you don't address your own insecurities in this relationship, your behavior is only going to get more controlling and eventually she will get fed up. Especially since it's reached the point of interfering with her livelihood.