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Date: November 2, 2022
The OF girl was months ago. I don’t know if this girl is OF
This is a really common scenario. People from the past often come crawling out of the woodwork when someone gets hitched. If it was meant to have been, it would have happened. This person is a poor friend and should not get the time of day from you. She is trying to ruin your relationship due to feelings of inadequacy, jealousy, loneliness or some such. She doesn't actually want to be with you.
Cut her off for good.
Is she going to have a date with him? If so you need to show up with her and his reaction will tell you everything you need to know.
No, HE needs to go completely.
Well said and everything I was thinking (although you said it much better than I could).
OP you have to speak to a lawyer, I don't think you have a clue about what prenups generally entail and what they can protect.
I really do understand the desire to protect your family property, but as soon as you spend marital money on property she will have a stake in it (albeit a smaller one). So you really have to get legal advice.
Age gap is the issue, not you!! He wants young and beautiful, he is shallow!!
You deserve better!
I have a friend like this. We were neighbors as kids and grew up together. She has always had terrible self esteem, and won't date nice guys or men that don't fit the motorcycle bad boy persona. I'm 27 and she's about 30 now. When I started hanging out with my now husband, I was kinda timid because I had gotten out of an abusive relationship, and when the three of us went to get Friday the 13th tattoos and she decided he was attractive enough to flirt with, she told me either you kiss him or I will.
It was at that point I was floored, she knew we were taking it slow and she was also involved with a couple other men she was casually dating but not wanting to commit but somehow also wanting to get married and fast track the relationship. She made no sense. I couldn't keep up with her texts and screenshots and photos of these way older dudes with baby mommas who she wanted to play step mom to, and would, then would call me in the middle of the night still, even when my husband and I were engaged and I was pregnant asking if she could crash on our couch because the guy beat her up only for her to go back and them break up within 3-6 months. I couldn't take it anymore.
I had to stop talking to her, I still have her on Facebook and I thought this last dude she was with was working out because she changed her last name to his on Facebook and posted a picture of a marriage license. I was like yay finally she's getting it together, and not even a month later her status is single again and posting the same bs update about how no man appreciates her and how he didn't work and wasn't emotionally available to her. At this point nobody likes or comments kind words to her, only her parents and grandparents comment on it telling her to not post personal stuff on Facebook or some cliche words of encouragement. She does it to herself.
I've been with my husband for over three years and we have an almost two year old daughter. Between her and my brother in law they seem to think whoever you date is the right person for you and that things can work out the way it did for me and my husband, when in reality we still have problems but we love each other very much and are fortunate our relationship has worked out the way it has.
My point in telling you this story is that I understand where you are coming from but you can't change her. Even after I stopped being her person to cry and over share her sexual exploits she still continues, on Facebook and to anyone who reads or briefly puts up with it. Even when I tried talking to her about other things or telling her she made me uncomfortable talking about her sex life in detail she still did it. I reckon this friend is the same way, and nothing you say or do will fix her.
But you do understand that marriage legally gives you a lot of ease and legal protections when he eventually throws you and the kid out on your asses to chase the next young thing, right?
Dump him
I mean, she's clearly trying to be petty and take digs at him. It's not just unfair to him, it's terrible for their son to grow up seeing that. She clearly doesn't care about the poor kid, at least not as much as she cares about drama.
He did you a favor.
He was in a relationship with her all along. All you were to him was his side piece if things don't work out with her.
He has shown you over, and over, and over again that his best friend is his first priority and he will always be more committed too.
You could consider couples counseling but he sounds like the kind of guy who expects a woman to defer to his judgment. Perhaps it’s cultural but honestly, cultural or not, he sounds like a jerk.