I think you’re overthinking this. Both of your statements don’t have to be mutually exclusive. You can acknowledge that you were hurt and also be over it.
Unless she’s given you reason to believe she’s not over her past otherwise, don’t harp on this.
Don't throw away a 30 yr life for a 10 yr relationship. This person will kill you. Please leave as soon as it is safe for you to do so.
I think you’re overthinking this. Both of your statements don’t have to be mutually exclusive. You can acknowledge that you were hurt and also be over it.
Unless she’s given you reason to believe she’s not over her past otherwise, don’t harp on this.
Leave, don’t go back or take him back. He’s a dangerous person to be around, you being pregnant makes the threat level higher.