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This is a suspicious situation. It could all be innocent and out of necessity but it also could be not.
Did you actually meet and talk to the people who know about you, his friends (that are also her friends) and the stepdad? Or did he just told you about them?
I would ask him, to take you to his place and meet the people he lives with. Including the ex. If its really as innocent as he says, totally over with the ex and serious with you, there should be no real problem other then some awkwardness.
I mean, he doesn't have to bring you to family dinner or something, just a casual visit so you have peace of mind about his living situation.
It can be quite difficult to find a relationship where you're both compatible and in love. I know you've stressed that this issue is a dealbreaker for you but no relationship is perfect. Are you sure you want to end it? Because all you seem to talk about is how much you love eachother.
Maybe having more conversations about it with her will help. I wouldn't bury the issue or lie about it to break up with her because it may lead to regret.
That's great that she's starting a job. Maybe you can both discuss new places you can both go to whenever she gets a break- and in the meantime, you can mull over if this is the right decision. I don't think it would be right for her if she was left in the dark about your doubts though, because she doesn't deserve that.
What?
This is an excellent response. People act all kinds of ways with grief. Give grace.
If you want to keep the baby then think of a good time to tell him. Then you can give him hints, give him a pregnancy test, or just straight up tell him
Guys have feelings too and it is possible he’s looking for something deeper but doesn’t want to put himself out there to be hurt. Good luck.
I was young at the time. 14-17 so maybe that’s an excuse.
Absolutely nothing can be used as an excuse for being a bad person, at that age you know right from wrong. So If you can't own up to this now, you'll never own up to anything else in your life. It'll just be an excuse each time you do something wrong instead of owning up to it like a mature adult.
It definitely didn’t go well he said “nope not talking to you” then hung up in my face. Should I just give up?
Yes. He doesn't want to hear your apology because the damage is already done and healed. It healed all those years when you didn't apologize until now. You ruined his life, and he is not obligated to talk to the person who did.
His lawyer is advising him. I'm sure his lawyer knows the laws of the state.
Too late to fix anything, assuming there was ever anything you could actually fix. Time for a divorce. Have some self respect and do it now. Don't beg her not to cheat on you.
You know it's super common, right?
I always use one but it honestly seems like I know more people that don't. That said – there is probably overlap between types of people that discuss their sex lives and those that don't use condoms. I am neither of those
You were groomed and you're incredibly naive.
Technically, in the conservative and tradition world, the woman’s family does pay for the wedding. So it’s not way out of left field for him to bring it up.
I'm hoping I can find a solution before we marry this year.
Please, please don'tmarry him unless and until this improves!!
He says he’d rather do a solo trip and often times he plans his vacations when I am busy with work and school instead of when I have time off
Honestly, if he was her to heal, he will move on.
She signed up to be with you, but it's clear that at the time it wasn't under control, and it's not fair to her to have put her through heartbreak and then drag her through your recovery.
This. Totally this for me.
That said, there is part of me that would allow her one chance to redeem herself depending on how she handles the conversation. That is, unless there is some info we don't know about where she has caused trust issues.
Yeah, long story short my ex and I had a talk about them being the one to initiate and not me. A year went by with no sex. Found out it wasn’t being annoyed by my asking, it was them falling out of love with me. Lol
No, it CAUSES cramping. She's not that stupid, she would never take plan B if it wasn't actually for its intended purpose. No woman would. Ever. I'm so sorry. She is lying.
Updateme!
yes (thought I'd written that sorry) I'm currently 4 days/wk but earn same as I used to earn at 5 days. I've also had some health complaints so its nice to NOT work fulltime for a while.
Stay away bro!!!! Go catch a different fish
You say you want closure —- but this is supposed to be closed already, else you wouldn’t be married, right? You know why he wants to see you. Why explain now when he could have written to you a lot earlier and more easily? If you are curious, then bring your husband. You are stirring up a hornet’s nest here, be very very careful. It is too soon to pry that door open.
Move on.
Have you discussed having her go back to work after the youngest start preschool? Some people just aren’t built to be stay at home parents. I know I get bored out of my brain if I am between work for more than a month at a time. It sounds like your wife is similar.
Honestly this is what you’ll lay awake cringing over when you’re 30.
Just block him, spending this much time on your ex just shows that you’re not over him.
Aaaaaaaaand it's time to break up. Leave him. Block his number. Block his family. Do not pass Go. Do not collect $200.
Fuck, I know I will never choose to have a child, but I am happy to know my long distance partner immediately took 2 weeks off work and drove 18h straight to come support me after a traumatic event. To this day he checks up on my mental health surrounding the event and offers hugs, snacks, understanding and LOVE whenever I'm having a rough time with it.
This is fucking ridiculous OP's husband and father of her child is that disconnected and apathetic. Can't imagine 🙁 Poor chica.
Best of luck being a single mother.
He's not gonna change. He's just lost all the attention you used to give him
That's what he “gave” up without realising it and now he's found out he don't like it.
OP asked for it after his planned travel because he wanted to sleep around. He was taking the opportunity and got burned because he didn't get to fuck anyone else and she did. He brought it 100% of himself with his stupid exclusivity-later plan.
It's 100% ok to unload on reddit! That's what we're all here for.
Your desire to get better and awareness of your problems counts for so much. Start thinking of it as such, a strength of yours. Keep pushing to find the help you need. Our healthcare system is broken, it's unfair, expensive and difficult but if you muster up the will there is always a way forward. You can do this. It's a process and hard but it seems like you understand that and want to push forward anyways.
Do the best you can every day, however that looks for you. It will be imperfect but it counts. Try to think of the “what ifs” of your fiance leaving as completely out of your control. Focus on what you can control, which is how you proceed with getting better. Most of all, be kind to yourself through all of this.
so even w your size and how many Os you have given her, she still said YES to be exclusive w you?
she's still w you and isn't too late, get your head out of ass and stop wasting time on things you can't change like your size and focus on what she likes so you can give her some Os….
And that is the first intelligent thing you have said all day.self-awareness is great. Good thing is, if you put in a little effort and, I don't know, get a fucking job until you are actually a wife or a mother, you might actually become a good girlfriend who he wants to marry and give you that life you want so badly. But if all you do is put in the minimum and expect the maximum, you'll never get anywhere in any damn relationship.
So I suppose there are a few ambiguous things here that make getting a full picture hard. Specifically what your standard of “basic cleanliness” is and what level of messiness you let it get to. And honestly something like this is not easy to convey without images.
You don't mention children so I am assuming none, and he works while you stay at home.
I REALLY don't think that having a VERY CLEAN/NEAR spotless house is a ridiculous request from you if this is the case.
He presumably works 8 hours a day 5 days a week. To keep an apartment with just 2 adults in it spotless, and cook for both people will take 2-4 hours of work a day to maintain max.
I am going to guess that this is more about the fact that he doesn't feel like you are pulling your weight in this relationship, that you're not contributing at even close to the level he is. It's less about the cleanliness of the house and more about the fact that you probably spend most days doing little to nothing to contribute to the household.
It's not transactional to expect your partner to pull their weight in a relationship and I bet that's all he wants. And if you're not pulling your weight for an extended amount of time it is natural that he will start to feel more and more disconnected to you.
I would suggest talking with him about you working outside the home and splitting the chores so you're both contributing equally and he can clean to his standard in areas he feels are lacking.
She may deny the behavior, but that’s ok as long as she stops doing it. The goal isn’t “get her to admit she’s sexually harassing you”, it’s “get her to knock it off”. Denying it out of embarrassment is a very probable outcome. To return awkwardness to sender (her), it is better to describe the behavior you have an issue with than to just ask her to stop hitting on you.
There is a big difference between “Stop flirting with me”, which likely leads to a response of “I wasn’t flirting with you!”
And
“You frequently make comments that you want to touch me, give me personal compliments, and bring up sexual subjects when we talk. You have also stated that you want me to visit you and to develop a personal relationship with me. All of this behavior is unwanted and inappropriate in a professional relationship. “
If you want, you could add that in the US, some of that behavior would actually violate laws relating to sexual harassment. Which is true—frequently bringing up sexual topics in a professional relationship is a good way to get sued.
She'll contact you. Move on with your life.
I have no issue with my wife using toys. I have bought her some. I honestly would feel better knowing she is taking care of herself rather than being deprived or seeking it elsewhere (worst case obviously). Toys are fun and part of a healthy sex life. You guys are pretty young so it may be an age thing as we get older realizing it's fun to experiment with other things ya know? He will get used to it. Maybe when he is around bust out a vibrator during sex or butt plug or whatever you guys are into so he can be part of the experience. That may help him feel more comfortable.
Keep the reception, ditch the husband part. Go have a party with your friends and family and celebrate your strength to not settle or accept this behavior. You’ll likely not get much money back due to the contracts and the time frame of cancellation, so live it up and think of it as a “I saved myself from divorce” party. Your fiends and family will understand.
No.
Sos the father for putting his ho above his kid.
Yea it’s been hard to completely understand what’s happening. I asked him if there’s someone else and he says there isn’t. I’ve been losing my mind over this bc he was all over me then suddenly nothing. And then he stops me from saying a lot of things to him and it’s just all so bizarre. I have been distancing myself from him but it sucks bc he’s back in town this week and I was looking forward to seeing him. So idk what’s happening anymore. It doesn’t make any sense how someone could be all over me nonstop to acting like this. And then I keep wondering what if there’s someone else and he isn’t telling me. I just don’t know if he’s trying to get over me bc we don’t live near each other I just don’t know anymore
Bingo!!!!