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yeah, i worked a low salary job before being where i am now, and i remember how much i hated living within such limited means. she doesn’t need those comments. it sounds like she’s managing just fine. if you guys aren’t at the point of living together or talking about marriage or anything serious like that, you don’t need to be talking about finances anyway.
if it’s a matter of either doing something or not just because of money, just take the lead and pay for it. don’t make a big deal of it. and if she insists that she can’t afford it, or can’t pitch on it, just kindly emphasize something along the lines of “i love that you always contribute but i want to do this, and i want you there with me. this one is on me.”
she clearly doesn’t expect you to spend your money on her, and trust me when i say that quality in a person is very, very valuable. she’s genuine and has a lot of substance as a human.
Having a skill matters. The economy doesn’t care about white paper, only green.
Piggybacking on the top link to suggest to OP that he gets his own separate therapist. People should not attend therapy with their abuser because the abusers learn quickly to manipulate them using what was brought up in therapy. You clearly have a lot of necessary personal growth that you need to work through but it’s valid to ask if you two together are a good partnership or if you are both much calmer and more stable apart. Do you have any calm and stable relatives that can come and help you for two hours a day (one for you, one for her) who you are both happy to be around?
Mate for your own sanity fuck the hell off.
Hmmm. Couples can literally end up talking about anything daily. It can go from how the day went for each of you to venting about coworkers or traffic or weather then to movies or food or going off on a random tangent or whatnot.
If you find yourself feeling awkward in a moment of not having a new topic, perhaps you can say a cheesy joke or ponder a weird thought out loud to help get the conversation going again. Or even just acknowledge the elephant in the room. “Oh man, our conversation stalled. Now what?” And laugh. Sometimes that could help make it seem less awkward.
I think if you feel like you need to talk about something serious, you can always ask your partner something like: “hey, this is kind of bothering me and I’d really like to talk to you about it. Is now a good time or should we wait until later or tomorrow?” And then let them know you appreciate them listening to you and that you’re always there if they’d like to talk/bounce something off you too. Hopefully over time, you’ll both get more comfortable doing that.
And just make sure you practice good listening skills. If she feels like you’re only half tuned in or something, she may not turn to you for problems or support in the future. And if you don’t understand what she’s saying, you can kindly explain you’re not fully understanding. Then ask if she can explain it in a different way or repeat it again so you can take it all in a second time. But just be kind about it. And then you can always try to repeat it back to her to make sure you’re good.
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I think one of my biggest flaws is that I value careers and money too much. My parents engrained into me how important a career is, and I’m working through changing that perspective in therapy because a person’s and/or partner’s value does not come from their career. It’s not that I need him to make as much money as me, it’s that I value an intellectual connection with someone and my personal way to do that is through the medical field. I know there is a plethora of other ways to do that and I am very open to those, just trying to figure those out. It’s not about the money, it’s about having a career that is fulfilling and that we can connect with. Please let me know if my perspective doesn’t make sense. Words to explain this appear to not come to mind right now. Thank you
Then divorce her and remarry if you want kids. She doesn’t want them. 10-20% is a good chance of a no. None of your planning has included them.
DO NOT bring a baby into this world without both of you being 100%