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Are you a compulsive liar? Because that’s how this sounds and I’d be concerned if I were him.
Multiply it by at least 3 for the real number.
It’s none of your business?
The correct course of action is to get an STI test and dump your cheating boyfriend. The only, ONLY way that a relationship can ever recover from cheating (and it is VERY rare) is when the cheater takes full responsibility and does anything within their power to rebuild trust. Your BF has done none of that. You're never going to rebuild trust because he isn't giving you any foundations. Save yourself agonizing months of trying to trust and be happy before inevitably breaking up, and just do it now.
First of all, I'm pretty sure you have to live together for 2 years to be considered common law in BC. A quick visit to a government site will confirm that. The biggest financial thing is splitting half of any interest earned on assets from the moment you are legally common law. It's not splitting all assets like with marriage.
As for the break up conversation, you're in a good spot because this sounds like a no fault break up that can be done amicably. An honest heart to heart conversation about how you still care about him but feel you've been growing apart and aren't willing to walk away from your current life to move is all you probably need.
I wouldn't go into the details of why because that just opens it up for negotiation. Stating your decision without all the details you've laid out here will keep it from feeling like blame and all he can do is accept your decision. Whereas breaking it down gives him the opportunity to argue for change, even though that's not likely to happen despite any promises.
Before you bring it up, you should know if you want to stay together if he doesn't move. If you want to break up even if he stays, you will need to make it clear this isn't just about the move or he might stay and call your bluff.
I know it's hard to do, but try not to overthink it. Just go in knowing what you want and focus on getting that across compassionately. Sometimes breaking up is an expression of love because it's in both of your best interests in the long run.
You said you're a writer, you should know it makes it difficult to read and difficult to follow.
I gave up after the second paragraph.
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You do the laundry then, problem solved.
Thank you, you made some good points
you don't. sexual desire is natural.
I’m thinking not, she will be waiting for me to make a move sadly.
I agree! Just technically it’s not binding but I agree with the intention.
Waaaaay to fast. Eeeek. Run
You can’t. Look I get it, it sucks when you’re compatible in every way besides one, but this is one issue you can’t compromise on. He told you from the start. Either accept you’ll never have a dog, or you guys should end it.
If the issues are on his side why would you need IVF? I’d check with your doctor about the actual procedure needed and make a decision based on that. IVF is typically when the issue is on the woman’s side.
But if I'm reading it right, this was all before you were exclusive, right? Then it's open season for her. If she did it now it would be a different story.
He can do what he wants. You can’t control him. You’re not compatible, end of story.
I just got out of a relationship that felt pretty similar to this. Make sure you both communicate your feelings about these sorts of things with each other. These are pretty small problems right now but if you both let the feelings of frustration build up it could turn into something serious. You shouldn’t feel like a servant to your SO that’s not being equal partners but im sure there’s a compromise that can be made that helps you both out
You’ve already ‘tried’ it. It didn’t work.
I don’t comment often here but here’s my 2 cents – you need a different partner. My husband and I decided after being married 5 years and with 2 small children that he would quit his job and go to medical school.
He needed to study, he needed to be away for school and rotations and residency and all that.
We were lucky in that I have a great job with a very flexible schedule but having a partner in medical school is difficult on a relationship and on a family. Unless you have a great partnership and understand roles and goals.
And once you graduate medical school depending on your speciality there become a huge financial power imbalance – unless you have a great partnership.
You guys don’t sound like you have a great partnership and I would look to change ASAP
Sounds like she wants people to find it. That would make me more uncomfortable than anything else tbh. I would not validate it with attention.
Those aren’t your friends. He had a family dinner with his ex. He excluded you on purpose. They (your “friends”) excluded you on purpose. Everyone knew but you that you weren’t coming and why. If it wasn’t something weird your husband would have never excluded you and your friends would have thought it odd he came with out you. But that didn’t happen did it? You know what’s going on, you would just rather ask questions you know the answers to than deal with reality.
OP, your wife married a single man without any kids but now another kid is forced on her. You say your son's mom is not fit to take care of him so you will take him in. You won't even have shared custody. I understand she doesn't want to be a full time step parent. Your son is not a baby. He knows his mother and might act up against your wife. Being a step parent is hard. You get to do a lot of hard work like taking care of and being responsible for the kid. You have to feed him, pay for his things but you don't get to discipline them or you can't be a part of important decisions like the bio parents.
You think that there will be no drama but there will be. Your son's mother can sober up and try to get him back. There will be problems in every birthday, vacation, graduation, etc. as your son will want to see his mother there. Who knows if they will be able to get along well? Your wife doesn't want this and it's pretty understandable.
Get a lawyer and try to separate as amicably as possible. You have no fault as you didn't lie about your son, you just didn't know. But even unknowingly you changed the circumstances of your marriage and if it's a dealbreaker for her, she has every right to leave.
Do you understand how out of proportion his reactions are? Even if he 'doesn't feel heard' (which I doubt, you seem to be overly attentive as a result of his tantrums) none of these events are worth this level of angst. He's teaching you to ignore a reasonable and sensible fear of violence and you should refuse to learn it.