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Lovely idea but I wouldn’t do this. It’s clear you have a friendship and this will most likely ruin that. I would wait a few weeks and give it to her then as a friendship gift to eliminate any confusion.
I'm sorry to hear about the challenges you're facing in your marriage. It's never easy to deal with such toxic behavior from a spouse, especially when it's a person you love and have committed to for life.
It's important to acknowledge that what you're describing is not normal or healthy behavior in a relationship, and it's taking a toll on your mental and emotional health. You deserve to be treated with love, respect, and trust, and it's not okay for your wife to emotionally blackmail you, gaslight you, or control your interactions with others.
I would encourage you to reach out to a licensed therapist or a counselor to talk about your experiences and work on improving your mental and emotional health. Talking to a professional can help you process your feelings, gain a better understanding of the situation, and develop a plan for moving forward.
If you feel that the situation is unsafe, I would also encourage you to seek support from trusted friends and family members, or consider reaching out to a local domestic violence hotline for help. Remember, it's never too late to seek help, and you deserve to live a life free from abuse and mistreatment.
I’m sorry to say that it sounds like this guy has been using you as a stepping stone until the “next best thing”comes along. Is that someone you really want to marry? I wouldn’t
Well, I already mentioned it's possible if they're held back, but either way we don't even know if they met at high school.
I remember being in high school and the administration announced that we were forbidden from driving to the middle school on days we got out early. Yes, high schoolers were trying to pick up middle school girls.
What if she was 18 and the guy was 30? She's not a “CHILD” anymore… so following your logic, that would be a-okay.
19 and 15 is a very suspicious age gap for sure, but they're older now, and OP didn't ask for judgment on that facet of her relationship.
I have had multiple people cheat on me and it sucks, but I have learned to not jump on the news to quickly.
Gather evidence, check the information, and then get all the evidence if there is any.
Your “friend” maybe trying to do the right thing, or maybe not. You do not know. What you do know is that you need information and proof. Why – because of the phrase – Gaslighting. If you have proof there is no way around it and if needed you can use it later.
If there is nothing wrong going on – say thanks to that person and then let the road end for them.
One thing I would not do – say a word or act abnormal until I had the proof one way or the other. Why because people can be evil out there.
best of luck.
i save them from my medications to give to my friends for camping and to my friends with guns to keep their ammo dry.
Bro you’re weird as fuck
OP, have you owned this car since it was brand new?
So your own insecurity is making you think she will stray even though she has done nothing like that. Please work through your issues so you can be a healthy boyfriend
Something is off in this situation. It doesn't smell right.
I suspect your boyfriend doesn't want you to feel comfortable or secure in this relationship. If this is what he's doing, then the reason he continuously talks about his ex to make you feel insecure. He does this because he wants you to feel like you have a rival, and so you have to “win” his affection by proving he should choose you over his ex.
Frankly, the kind of person who does this is not capable of being a good partner without a whole lot of mental and emotional work, usually in therapy. At your age, and at this point in the relationship, it's honestly not worth it.
Now, it's possible that I'm wrong. And if I'm wrong, then you're most likely right, and he is not over his ex. And if he's not over his ex, and she really is stalker-calling him all the time, then this is only going to get worse, not better.
So whether you are right or I am right, the best thing you can do is break up and find someone who doesn't have so much baggage
You're too young to be dealing with that level of bullshit; there are plenty of guys your age who are not hung up on their exes and not trying to convince you that you need to compete for their affection. Go find one of those guys, and you'll be a lot happier
Run don’t walk.
Sure, what do you want to talk about?
For the love of dogs, do not watch rom-coms for suggestions on relationships. What garbage that would be.
Here’s the thing: If you want to be with someone who’s compatible, you have to be able to identify who’s NOT compatible.
If your partner can’t process your history and translate that into a need for more proactive communication, then, is she really the right partner for you? Because what you’ve written looks a lot like a possibly bratty, entitled behavior on her part. Pick me up at the airport with flowers and a sign, after a weekend away?
The biggest flaw in your question is to be looking for “norms.” There are none. We all want different things, respond differently to each other, and have completely different relationships from the last person we were with, every time.
I travel all the time. I would love it if my bf showed up at the gate with flowers, but…if he didn’t, it wouldn’t even be a thought in my head, because I don’t care.
On my birthday last year, he didn’t get me flowers. I actually said “I’m surprised that you didn’t, and I’m a little disappointed.” We had a brief conversation about it, that’s it. A few words. This year, he bought me flowers, because we’re both adults and used our words.
Relationships aren’t one-way streets where one person gives and the other simply receives. You both have to put in the work. Even her.
Giving this advice while only considering the wife’s reaction seems pretty dangerous.
About 1% of male are psychopaths, the question she needs to ask herself is not if she can handle the reaction of the wife. But can she handle the reaction of a man that (apparently) cheats on his wife willing to put his whole family on the line?
You don’t know how bad he could react if he sees this as her ruining his family.
What were the circumstances that let you to snoop in your partner's private journal after so long together? Perhaps meditate on that?
This!! If this was a man shaming a lady for the way her hair is done reddit would clearly say “yta”
And the thing is you can't because she deleted that evidence all you have is your worst fears which she confirmed through herr actions. Regardless of if she actually did something worse or not, the only scenario you can probably fixate on is the worst case scenario.
I had a friend have a similar situation come up when his daughter was 6 years old. Because his wife did the exact same thing deleting the texts,not wanting to talk about it, and all he took an extreme step and did a DNA test on his daughter. She was 100% his but it took that before his wife realized how much she had fucked up. They're still together only because it stopped before it became physical and a ton of therapy to work back from it but I know their relationship is a much less satisfying one than it should be.
Lol. To Catch a Troll.
Can’t argue there.
Too much time in the fiacee's tent when Jack's tent is so warm and inviting ?
But don't use the word informant either. You are not in the mafia
On the fanfo (f*ckaroundandfindout) metre this is a 20/10 – you f*cked your “best friends” gf and then want him to forgive you?
Also there was no party, no one cancelled and now you are suffering consequences of your own making.
Are you for real?
Sounds like Bob was the “little girl” this time and melted under the consequences of his own actions.
I think your note was EPIC and deserved.
However I think you should have ran it by the hostess first.
Yeah, this is not need to know information especially from something being self righteous.
And do not under any circumstances have a child with him as you’ll be doing 100% of that work too.
He's a big boy. He can calm his high up ass down. If he can't figure out to use a hotspot on his phone and didn't have his laptop battery charged, sounds like he should be better prepared.
And he's a really big jerk for acting like a baby throwing toys out of his pram and treating you like you blew the fuse on purpose in front of your boss. He'd freak out so bad if you yelled at him if he was on a call.
Hope he doesn't freak out like that and act so crazy in front of his team or Mr high up might be Mr unemployed.
I think you should explain the quandary you feel, even at the risk of this ending the relationship. Why stick around in a situation that doesn't meet your needs?
So he likes fake plastic porn boobs? Guy needs a reality check.
I’m so sorry he’s not enthusiastic about parts of your body. You deserve so much better.
Either that or she's trying to break you up!
This happened to a friend of mine in HS. Her “friend” convinced my friend's bf to agree to a “test” where the “friend” would tell my friend she and the boyfriend had done everything but sex together. The idea she pitched to the bf was that it was a test of whether my friend would trust him even in the face of evidence that he had cheated. The real plan was to break them up so that the “friend” could get with the bf.
It turned into this whole debacle where my friend confronted the bf, broke up with him, gave his stuff back, he found a stain on his jacket that he interpreted as evidence of her cheating (it turned out to be from a bottle of conditioner that spilled) and blew up at her, and by the time they got the truth sorted out (neither had cheated) they still broke up. He didn't get with the “friend,” though.
I am beyond outraged and disgusted. Literally what the fuck did I just read.
Who cares that he’s fully grown? What influence does that have on his desire to have her do house chores? You have no idea whether this babysitter normally does house chores or not.
Maybe he has no idea how to do laundry or maybe he does but doesn’t want to waste the small amount of time he has to relax doing house chores. You don’t know their situation.
What is clear is his wife is insecure and is being controlling instead of dealing with that insecurity.
Look at the comments, everyone is supporting the woman in the scenario, just like always. If the genders were reversed, the comments would rightfully say that if a spouse doesn’t trust their partner, they shouldn’t be in a relationship.
The fact everyone here supports her, including her desire to leave a camera on so she can monitor what he’s doing while she is gone, is so outrageous it’s laughable.
This is so disingenuous. He’s not having an identity crisis or trying to figure out anything. He’s just lusting after men and cheating. I don’t care what he calls it in this age of labels. It’s flat out cheating. JFC get tested, and stop falling for this word soup from a freakin cheater.
Omg your friend have a serious problems
She wants to date other boys and not tell you. From her POV you can stay
cause I was bullied into blocking him
You know the answer to being “bullied” on Reddit is to just delete your account. Or stop reading the responses. Why won't you own your decision? YOU blocked him (which was the only good path forward) – no one made you do it. No one bullied you. They just shone a bright light on the lunacy of this situation.
Great fathers set positive examples of how to live life with moral and ethical integrity. They prioritize strengthening their family unit. They protect and value the people they care about. They don’t actively set out to destroy their family, which is what you have done, whether you admit it to yourself or not.
It is completely delusional to say your affair partner is making you a better person. Every single day you are lying, betraying your wife, and disregarding your family. You are making unethical and amoral choices. If this is you as a better person, you must have been a true trash heap before. If you truly have tries everything to improve your marriage – therapy, new hobbies with your wife, special date nights, unique family outings – and nothing has worked, then get a divorce. An affair is not an “alternative” option to fixing what’s wrong in your life. By choosing an affair, you’re choosing to end your marriage vows. You’re just being too much of a coward to loop your wife in on your choice.
Man if I was ignoring someone for a month and they opened with “my darling” I would be…unimpressed
So first DO NOT try to lose the weight for her.
If you do not do it for yourself, you will end up resenting her, which will eventually end your relationship.
So decide what you want, and if you want the relationship, decide if you can make the changes that you will need to.
Also do not try everything at once. Start with small changes, and add more as you are able
Bestie your boyfriend is pretending to date your sister because boobs???? You look and sound like a smart and sophisticated lady, why are you dating losers queen????
it’d be better to find out who he truly is than carry on with a suppressed swinger
Listen. Divorce now that you’re unemployed. And document how you’ve asked her to get a job and she’s refused. It’ll help your case. She doesn’t love you. She loves what she wants you to provide for her. Get out now
In your reaction? Definitely. Even if it was her fling calling, you just ask her about it, and if you can't get answer assume the worst. Tell her you don't want to see her if this how she acts and leave.
Tell her what is your problem, and how you feel. If your concerns are ignored, and you are disrespected in general, then you tell it your partner, and move towards break up.
Or maybe he’s worried they’re moving too fast…
She’s sleeping over at his place 5 days a week, within the first month? I think OP needs to reevaluate how much he’s actually shown interest v. how much she’s planned things or asked to come over.