And tells her he’s going to be an attorney. She’s blissfully unaware that they have hoops to jump through before sitting for the exam. If he has something to hide, he won’t be sitting.
Man this is why so many women don’t bother trying to tell their stories or go to the police. In a house full of men, where incestual abuse is a known sad reality of the world, you’re bending over backwards to make it out like OP sleepwalked face first into cum on accident?
I don’t think you’re ever going to see her the same way again. Maybe if she comes to her senses NOW and starts actively behaving differently, but that seems unlikely and I imagine whatever changes she makes when you pull away will be too little, too late.
If I were moving to another city I would feel much more comfortable flatting with someone I already knew and trusted. You have this oppourtunity and it appears the only real issue is him being uncomfortable with you living alone with another guy. Understandable but at the same time if you lived with females, I mean technically the thing he's worried about could still happen….
Perhaps talk to him about your safety. Why would he be okay with you moving in with complete randoms who could do anything while you are there? Would it not make more sense to move with someone who you both already know?
1) I think it is absolutely weird / uncomfortable that she is doing those things with her ex. If my girlfriend was doing those activities with someone else I'd question why I'm even in the relationship since those are things you should want to do with your partner – not an ex.
2) I think you're a rebound and she got together with you way too soon after the break up. I think it is important that she's 10 years younger than you. I don't think she's in the same headspace as you in terms of how serious she wants to be. You're not controlling for asking those things, you're insecure and you're trying to find a way of becoming more comfortable with it. If this is a boundary you need to have, you need to communicate it. If she isn't respectful of it then she's not the one.
And tells her he’s going to be an attorney. She’s blissfully unaware that they have hoops to jump through before sitting for the exam. If he has something to hide, he won’t be sitting.
Man this is why so many women don’t bother trying to tell their stories or go to the police. In a house full of men, where incestual abuse is a known sad reality of the world, you’re bending over backwards to make it out like OP sleepwalked face first into cum on accident?
If you can’t live comfortably without porn, you have an issue. One is a trivial indulgence, the other is someone’s actual feelings?
I don’t think you’re ever going to see her the same way again. Maybe if she comes to her senses NOW and starts actively behaving differently, but that seems unlikely and I imagine whatever changes she makes when you pull away will be too little, too late.
It’s one party consent here, but would I have to audibly state at the beginning of the recording that I consent?
If I were moving to another city I would feel much more comfortable flatting with someone I already knew and trusted. You have this oppourtunity and it appears the only real issue is him being uncomfortable with you living alone with another guy. Understandable but at the same time if you lived with females, I mean technically the thing he's worried about could still happen….
Perhaps talk to him about your safety. Why would he be okay with you moving in with complete randoms who could do anything while you are there? Would it not make more sense to move with someone who you both already know?
If you still have good, supportive friends, don't chase them away.
How I know if I am chasing them away?
But yes, i think i can only take courses, improve everything i can. There is a new girl that is helping me with getting money to survive
Okay so two things
1) I think it is absolutely weird / uncomfortable that she is doing those things with her ex. If my girlfriend was doing those activities with someone else I'd question why I'm even in the relationship since those are things you should want to do with your partner – not an ex.
2) I think you're a rebound and she got together with you way too soon after the break up. I think it is important that she's 10 years younger than you. I don't think she's in the same headspace as you in terms of how serious she wants to be. You're not controlling for asking those things, you're insecure and you're trying to find a way of becoming more comfortable with it. If this is a boundary you need to have, you need to communicate it. If she isn't respectful of it then she's not the one.