Seriously, you will be doing yourself a great disservice and damage if you stay with someone who continually behaves the way she does. If you don't walk away now, you will either be submitting to a life of misery or a more painful breakup later on. It will be hard to do, breakups are never easy, you just have to decide how important your sanity and wellbeing are to you.
Liking other naked women's photos that have no similarities to me at all, lying to me. Making Instagram accounts even though we both agreed not to be on there.
Unfortunately, his ex blocked me a few years ago, so I'm unable to let her know… I haven't sent any in quite some time, and I didn't find any of me while looking in his phone
Calling that an accident is a bit of a stretch. You may not have meant to hit your girlfriend, but it only happened because you snapped and attacked your brother. That's still completely your fault. It's not like you were doing some innocent activity and hit your girlfriend in a freak accident. Take some responsibility for what you did.
No. There is NOTHING common about the stunt you pulled. It is incredibly creepy and I do not know a single other female that would find it even remotely appropriate, funny, attractive or anything other than EXTREMELY uncomfortable. Particularly since she still has to still look at you. She is SO embarassed right now.
She is a person with feelings. You reduced her to a sex object. You literally have no relationship with her other than friendly banter and study groups? That is not even really a friendship. Do you guys hang out? Do you do things together? Eat meals together? I mean, to jump straight from “we're studying and there is fun banter” to “lets get it on” is a massive stretch and truly told her that you see her of so little value that you couldn't even ask her on a date. You demeaned her.
There is Adzenys ER I take it as Vyvanse didn’t work for me after so many years. I hope you get your meds that work for you soon. I am really sorry. :/
That’s the thing. I don’t know. I don’t know if this will happen again if I leave or not. And that what I’m worried about especially with a deployment coming up which would be a lot longer time than the last time I left
I read your edit and the sad part is. There is no better way to set “your boundary”. Which understandable isn’t really a boundary, it’s a rule. He is free to sleep in the same bed with his friend if he wants and you then get to decide what YOU will do in that case.
Now is the time to have the consequences of that boundary or rule. If you don’t then the boundary becomes useless. There is no boundary-police that will show up. You said: I don’t want you to sleep in the same bed. They did. Now what? You can’t control him, you can only control you.
Gotta say, wasn’t able to follow a fair chunk of this, but yes you should tell your girlfriends it won’t be possible for you to save that much before December.
I see, Thank you for helping me, ill do better and do some of the things we like to do together more, i really appreciate man!
Seriously, you will be doing yourself a great disservice and damage if you stay with someone who continually behaves the way she does. If you don't walk away now, you will either be submitting to a life of misery or a more painful breakup later on. It will be hard to do, breakups are never easy, you just have to decide how important your sanity and wellbeing are to you.
Its just light hearted fun, she does it back to me sometimes too.
Liking other naked women's photos that have no similarities to me at all, lying to me. Making Instagram accounts even though we both agreed not to be on there.
Unfortunately, his ex blocked me a few years ago, so I'm unable to let her know… I haven't sent any in quite some time, and I didn't find any of me while looking in his phone
Calling that an accident is a bit of a stretch. You may not have meant to hit your girlfriend, but it only happened because you snapped and attacked your brother. That's still completely your fault. It's not like you were doing some innocent activity and hit your girlfriend in a freak accident. Take some responsibility for what you did.
Dude! You watch way too much porn.
No. There is NOTHING common about the stunt you pulled. It is incredibly creepy and I do not know a single other female that would find it even remotely appropriate, funny, attractive or anything other than EXTREMELY uncomfortable. Particularly since she still has to still look at you. She is SO embarassed right now.
She is a person with feelings. You reduced her to a sex object. You literally have no relationship with her other than friendly banter and study groups? That is not even really a friendship. Do you guys hang out? Do you do things together? Eat meals together? I mean, to jump straight from “we're studying and there is fun banter” to “lets get it on” is a massive stretch and truly told her that you see her of so little value that you couldn't even ask her on a date. You demeaned her.
There is Adzenys ER I take it as Vyvanse didn’t work for me after so many years. I hope you get your meds that work for you soon. I am really sorry. :/
That’s the thing. I don’t know. I don’t know if this will happen again if I leave or not. And that what I’m worried about especially with a deployment coming up which would be a lot longer time than the last time I left
What in the loving fck did I just read?
I read your edit and the sad part is. There is no better way to set “your boundary”. Which understandable isn’t really a boundary, it’s a rule. He is free to sleep in the same bed with his friend if he wants and you then get to decide what YOU will do in that case.
Now is the time to have the consequences of that boundary or rule. If you don’t then the boundary becomes useless. There is no boundary-police that will show up. You said: I don’t want you to sleep in the same bed. They did. Now what? You can’t control him, you can only control you.
Gotta say, wasn’t able to follow a fair chunk of this, but yes you should tell your girlfriends it won’t be possible for you to save that much before December.