My husband promised that he would never look at porn.
Any guy who says that is making an outlandish bullshit claim. Unless there are layers of preventative measure put in place along with some type of ideology that they themselves believe in.
I guess what I’m asking is do I trust that he’s changed? Am I being irrational? I know my idea of porn is heavily skewed because of my father
Here is why I agree with your stance. You set your boundaries and expectations at the very start of this relationship. And he violated those by lying and hiding things from you. When he could have just been upfront and told you that it was something he could not promise to commit to.
—————————————————–
I haven’t caught him with actual porn in 4 years (outside of the instagram models) but I mean his phone and laptop are sterile, he’s on his phone all the time, but his history is nonexistent
Yeah, he hasn't changed. He has just gotten better at hiding it.
If your husband actually wants to change then it has to start with him.
So I smoked outside on the balcony but we both agreed that I would not do it. I pretty much understood at the time that she means the balcony as well. She had left for work and I thought I would smoke because she's not there and there is no way she will smell it 8 hours later. She came back because she forgot some files and saw me smoking outside. She got angry, left for work and told me it is over. I left the house at night since she had the keys to the other house and I left mine with my parents since they were visiting. It was an awkward dinner and then I left after taking my keys from her.
She's probably just transferring to a different port
If you are not comfortable- tell her that you are not comfortable, and she can do what she will with that information
My husband promised that he would never look at porn.
Any guy who says that is making an outlandish bullshit claim. Unless there are layers of preventative measure put in place along with some type of ideology that they themselves believe in.
I guess what I’m asking is do I trust that he’s changed? Am I being irrational? I know my idea of porn is heavily skewed because of my father
Here is why I agree with your stance. You set your boundaries and expectations at the very start of this relationship. And he violated those by lying and hiding things from you. When he could have just been upfront and told you that it was something he could not promise to commit to.
—————————————————–
I haven’t caught him with actual porn in 4 years (outside of the instagram models) but I mean his phone and laptop are sterile, he’s on his phone all the time, but his history is nonexistent
Yeah, he hasn't changed. He has just gotten better at hiding it.
If your husband actually wants to change then it has to start with him.
Whatever you path you take, I hope you find that “ Im Free!! “ feeling.
Yeah I was gonna say, mocking her for doing therapy in the past is a red flag too.
She cuddles me, kisses, hugs and all of that natural dating stuff
I have made Cotten candy. And am a woman. And i get it… Lol. Sorry.
I mean, I think respect in a relationship is important REGARDLESS of that.. you’re just dumb & trying to make this all about politics
This is not someone to be having sex with.
He said that my impulsiveness and lack of patience made me seem immature..
So I smoked outside on the balcony but we both agreed that I would not do it. I pretty much understood at the time that she means the balcony as well. She had left for work and I thought I would smoke because she's not there and there is no way she will smell it 8 hours later. She came back because she forgot some files and saw me smoking outside. She got angry, left for work and told me it is over. I left the house at night since she had the keys to the other house and I left mine with my parents since they were visiting. It was an awkward dinner and then I left after taking my keys from her.
They're just jelly cuz we're drowning in pussy lol