Lol what? Look, I'm not fat (5'9 and 140lbs) but even still I can't run a 5k, nor cycle 100k. I'd fucking die. I guess an overweight person could be running 5k weekly but like, I doubt it? He says he can fit into a size medium. That is not fat. Weird that you want pics of an internet stranger, which OP could easily fake as well, rather than just taking them at their word.
How many hours a week are you ignoring your wife and infant to game? Be honest. I’ve never heard a gamer give an accurate response to that, as they all underestimate the time they go down that rabbit hole.
Listen, fall in, fall out, fall between, whatever. Truth is she just dient know her own mind yet. Shes only 20. Gotta let her go and move on with a purpose.
This happened to me when I was your age. I loved this girl. I thought she reciprocated until ine say, she didnt. I let her go. It hurt. Bad. But I mived on down the road, didnt beg, didnt argue, just told her I respected her choice, wished her well, and moved on.
A year later, guess who contacted me? Yep, the girl who “fell out if love w me”. She said she made a huge mistake, realized what a gem I was, missed me terribly and wanted another chance. Could we talk about this?
I could have taken the opportunity to rub it in. I dud not. I told her gently that while I appreciated the call and her sharing with me, I had done exactly what I said I would and moved on. I was in a new relationship and could not consider her again (didnt tell her this, but the new woman was a far better match for me and outshined her in every way….never would have met her had this girl not broken up with me). I let her down easy. Told her Id have many fond memories of our time together but she too needed to move on. She cried and said she understood. She said shes kicking herself and probably would for a long time for losing me. This made me sad, but it was all for the best.
Its your money. If your husband wants to loan him some of the money he has saved, from his account that only he has access to, you cant stop him. (I assume theres no such account) But asking for your savings is over the line. I think you are right to trust your gut on this one.
What a weird fucking thing to say. If your significant other LOST THEIR JOB, would you make them fuck you nonstop otherwise you'd throw them out of your house and refuse to help them pay for your expenses?
Lol what? Look, I'm not fat (5'9 and 140lbs) but even still I can't run a 5k, nor cycle 100k. I'd fucking die. I guess an overweight person could be running 5k weekly but like, I doubt it? He says he can fit into a size medium. That is not fat. Weird that you want pics of an internet stranger, which OP could easily fake as well, rather than just taking them at their word.
I'm not really sure about this.
I agree with everyone saying they shouldn't have told her about it if they wouldn't let her read it.
But they're his family and she's his ex, how is it not their decision?
How many hours a week are you ignoring your wife and infant to game? Be honest. I’ve never heard a gamer give an accurate response to that, as they all underestimate the time they go down that rabbit hole.
Been there. Sorry man.
Listen, fall in, fall out, fall between, whatever. Truth is she just dient know her own mind yet. Shes only 20. Gotta let her go and move on with a purpose.
This happened to me when I was your age. I loved this girl. I thought she reciprocated until ine say, she didnt. I let her go. It hurt. Bad. But I mived on down the road, didnt beg, didnt argue, just told her I respected her choice, wished her well, and moved on.
A year later, guess who contacted me? Yep, the girl who “fell out if love w me”. She said she made a huge mistake, realized what a gem I was, missed me terribly and wanted another chance. Could we talk about this?
I could have taken the opportunity to rub it in. I dud not. I told her gently that while I appreciated the call and her sharing with me, I had done exactly what I said I would and moved on. I was in a new relationship and could not consider her again (didnt tell her this, but the new woman was a far better match for me and outshined her in every way….never would have met her had this girl not broken up with me). I let her down easy. Told her Id have many fond memories of our time together but she too needed to move on. She cried and said she understood. She said shes kicking herself and probably would for a long time for losing me. This made me sad, but it was all for the best.
I tell you this to say, it will work out.
Good luck.
Its your money. If your husband wants to loan him some of the money he has saved, from his account that only he has access to, you cant stop him. (I assume theres no such account) But asking for your savings is over the line. I think you are right to trust your gut on this one.
What a weird fucking thing to say. If your significant other LOST THEIR JOB, would you make them fuck you nonstop otherwise you'd throw them out of your house and refuse to help them pay for your expenses?