He doesn't seem to understand why this would be bad at all and me telling him that it comes off as him not liking my face as is or would be embarrassed of me doesn't seem to help I wasn't grubby, and literally had sweats on to go to the store because it's cold af and raining and he said walmart Why would I need makeup for Walmart
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So my wife and I have been together since 2005. She has never been a sexual person, and was only with one person, one time before me. I meet her when she was 24. She made me wait 5 months for sex, then sex was only about once a month afterwards. Took her a year to do oral even though she expected it from me. She would gag if I got cum on her or her lips. She never initiates sex and blows off most requests, but after I keep asking her to try new things and fulfill them. She has never asked me for anything in the sex area. We ended up going to marriage counseling about 2 years ago, and we learned how important sex and intimacy were in a marriage. Since then she has marginally tried to be better.
In the past, I would make big deals out of her Birthday, X-Mas, Valentine's Day, etc. She would never do anything for my BDay, buy me any X-Mas gifts, or if she did, very little thought. Was never there when I needed her (would rather go to lunch with her friends than drive me home after a hospital procedure). Counseling explained that a Spouse should come 1st, and I was being put 3rd or 4th.
Last night was my 47 Birthday, and we arrange a rare night with the kids over at the grandparents. We planned to do a Novel experience. We were going to go to a Strip Club which was BYOB just to start the night for an hour and then a club. We got to the strip club and I was instantly bored. But the woman were pulling my wife on stage, feeling her up and she was LOVING IT. They would be on top of her rubbing her all over, including between her legs and she was loudly moaning. I kept saying I wanted to leave but she kept telling me how it was one of the “best times ever.” She was REALLY into one of the strippers and wanted a private dance in front of me. I told her I did not want that and would have rather spent the cash on a PS5 game I wanted. She insisted and went to the stripper herself and set up the deal
We went back into the room, and I was told I was only allowed to watch, my wife pretty much got completely naked and the stripper was completely naked. My wife kept telling the stripper how attractive she was over and over. Once they started my wife was all over her. Hands everywhere. There was a point the stripper was rubbing her naked crotch against my wife's name crotch and my wife was moaning so loud, I think she got there. My wife was so verbal during telling the stripper how attractive she was to her and how comfortable she made her with the biggest smile on her face the entire time. I HAVE NEVER SEEN MY WIFE THAT TURNED ON WITH ME EVER. I feel like she basically cheated on me and showed me she is a sexual person, just not with me.
It was a BYOB club, and my wife got drunk (2 shots before, and 1.5 can drinks there we brought and never left our sight). I do not drink. She did puke when she got home and I had to take care of her. My wife is always so conservative/reserved, It was strange seeing her that way.
Did she cheat? Why was she so excited to keep being pulled up on stage and have the strippers feel her up as she felt them up with the private dance, it was pretty much sex. I have NEVER seen my wife so excited about sex with me before. I am quite confused and hurt.
It was a BYOB club, and my wife got drunk (2 shots before, and 1.5 can drinks there we brought and never left our sight). I do not drink. She did puke when she got home and I had to take care of her. My wife is always so conservative/reserved, It was strange seeing her that way.
Did she cheat? Why was she so excited to keep being pulled up on stage and have the strippers feel her up as she felt them up with the private dance, it was pretty much sex. I have NEVER seen my wife so excited about sex with me before. I am quite confused and hurt.
My fiancé proposed not even a year into our relationship. 5 years is plenty of time to at least know if you want to marry a person. If you propose you don’t have to marry right away, it’s just showing that you WANT to and plan on marrying her. If you don’t want to commit to her let her go. Waiting until 10+ years in isn’t reasonable in my opinion.
Learn to read and you'll comprehend. If there is a garage space, the wife can't complain about toxoplasmosis- especially if she doesn't have to change any litter because a Litter Robot literally does all the scooping. It would keep the cats sheltered, away from the dog, and give OP space to just play with the cats and keep them content. Better than getting rid of either the dog or the cats. Pets are a lifetime commitment. Better this route than taking them to a shelter.
Maybe so.. Idk ??♂️
Thats extremely toxic and you should step away from this relationship.
He doesn't seem to understand why this would be bad at all and me telling him that it comes off as him not liking my face as is or would be embarrassed of me doesn't seem to help I wasn't grubby, and literally had sweats on to go to the store because it's cold af and raining and he said walmart Why would I need makeup for Walmart
This post has reached one of our comment/karma limits. The text of the post has been preserved below.
So my wife and I have been together since 2005. She has never been a sexual person, and was only with one person, one time before me. I meet her when she was 24. She made me wait 5 months for sex, then sex was only about once a month afterwards. Took her a year to do oral even though she expected it from me. She would gag if I got cum on her or her lips. She never initiates sex and blows off most requests, but after I keep asking her to try new things and fulfill them. She has never asked me for anything in the sex area. We ended up going to marriage counseling about 2 years ago, and we learned how important sex and intimacy were in a marriage. Since then she has marginally tried to be better.
In the past, I would make big deals out of her Birthday, X-Mas, Valentine's Day, etc. She would never do anything for my BDay, buy me any X-Mas gifts, or if she did, very little thought. Was never there when I needed her (would rather go to lunch with her friends than drive me home after a hospital procedure). Counseling explained that a Spouse should come 1st, and I was being put 3rd or 4th.
Last night was my 47 Birthday, and we arrange a rare night with the kids over at the grandparents. We planned to do a Novel experience. We were going to go to a Strip Club which was BYOB just to start the night for an hour and then a club. We got to the strip club and I was instantly bored. But the woman were pulling my wife on stage, feeling her up and she was LOVING IT. They would be on top of her rubbing her all over, including between her legs and she was loudly moaning. I kept saying I wanted to leave but she kept telling me how it was one of the “best times ever.” She was REALLY into one of the strippers and wanted a private dance in front of me. I told her I did not want that and would have rather spent the cash on a PS5 game I wanted. She insisted and went to the stripper herself and set up the deal
We went back into the room, and I was told I was only allowed to watch, my wife pretty much got completely naked and the stripper was completely naked. My wife kept telling the stripper how attractive she was over and over. Once they started my wife was all over her. Hands everywhere. There was a point the stripper was rubbing her naked crotch against my wife's name crotch and my wife was moaning so loud, I think she got there. My wife was so verbal during telling the stripper how attractive she was to her and how comfortable she made her with the biggest smile on her face the entire time. I HAVE NEVER SEEN MY WIFE THAT TURNED ON WITH ME EVER. I feel like she basically cheated on me and showed me she is a sexual person, just not with me.
It was a BYOB club, and my wife got drunk (2 shots before, and 1.5 can drinks there we brought and never left our sight). I do not drink. She did puke when she got home and I had to take care of her. My wife is always so conservative/reserved, It was strange seeing her that way.
Did she cheat? Why was she so excited to keep being pulled up on stage and have the strippers feel her up as she felt them up with the private dance, it was pretty much sex. I have NEVER seen my wife so excited about sex with me before. I am quite confused and hurt.
It was a BYOB club, and my wife got drunk (2 shots before, and 1.5 can drinks there we brought and never left our sight). I do not drink. She did puke when she got home and I had to take care of her. My wife is always so conservative/reserved, It was strange seeing her that way.
Did she cheat? Why was she so excited to keep being pulled up on stage and have the strippers feel her up as she felt them up with the private dance, it was pretty much sex. I have NEVER seen my wife so excited about sex with me before. I am quite confused and hurt.
My fiancé proposed not even a year into our relationship. 5 years is plenty of time to at least know if you want to marry a person. If you propose you don’t have to marry right away, it’s just showing that you WANT to and plan on marrying her. If you don’t want to commit to her let her go. Waiting until 10+ years in isn’t reasonable in my opinion.
I find it concerning when single parents introduce their kids to people who they just started dating and barely know.
It’s great to see you are taking parenting seriously.
Do what you think is best.
Wtf-he should shower after work everyday! Gross.
Learn to read and you'll comprehend. If there is a garage space, the wife can't complain about toxoplasmosis- especially if she doesn't have to change any litter because a Litter Robot literally does all the scooping. It would keep the cats sheltered, away from the dog, and give OP space to just play with the cats and keep them content. Better than getting rid of either the dog or the cats. Pets are a lifetime commitment. Better this route than taking them to a shelter.