Dear god your girlfriend really went the extra mile to be a total piece of shit to you. Not only you, in fact. Her friends too. Have some dignity and tell her you don’t waste time on hoes.
I came here to say the same thing. I’m sorry OP but it really does sound like you are the side chick that the wife happens to know about. Really time to move on from this sham relationship because neither of them respect you and will never respect you… or your child. You are worth so much more.
You can't get them to change their behavior – you can change what you do about it. You can simply say that you are not going to listen to that abuse and then walk away. Don't argue about it, or explain what you mean, or what you think, or ANYTHING. Just stop listening to their abuse.
Read up on growing up in a dysfunctional family and on codependence. You can change your own life and learn to accept that they are not the people you wish they were.
The chick who he was fucking in their bed left it for his GF to find , it was her way of telling her he's cheating!
Get professional medical help
Dear god your girlfriend really went the extra mile to be a total piece of shit to you. Not only you, in fact. Her friends too. Have some dignity and tell her you don’t waste time on hoes.
I came here to say the same thing. I’m sorry OP but it really does sound like you are the side chick that the wife happens to know about. Really time to move on from this sham relationship because neither of them respect you and will never respect you… or your child. You are worth so much more.
Nobody said “getting wasted makes you a bad parent”
He’s saying somebody as irresponsible, immature, and shitty as her husband probably isn’t a good parent.
You can't get them to change their behavior – you can change what you do about it. You can simply say that you are not going to listen to that abuse and then walk away. Don't argue about it, or explain what you mean, or what you think, or ANYTHING. Just stop listening to their abuse.
Read up on growing up in a dysfunctional family and on codependence. You can change your own life and learn to accept that they are not the people you wish they were.
Good luck, OP.
That's a good and fair take on all of this. I'll take a look into the geek social fallacies stuff, thanks for the comment.