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Yeah I know it unfortunately seems to be very common :\ my last relationship had a similar issue due to my ex’s depression and he never treated me well so the resentment just grew until I couldn’t take it anymore. He was a complete asshole though but this one isn’t at all, he’s a total sweetheart which is why I’m trying so hard to be helpful. But I agree if he’s just not into me then nothing will change that
This exactly. Security is not Zoe since for the peace of mind.
Really?
Fiancee believes that this is not going to work and will cause him to double down and maybe even go for the full clown makeup.
I asked my fiancee if we could refuse him entry if he showed up in a literal clown outfit, and she was uncomfortable with that idea because she believes that even if we did, her parents or sister would let him in because they also think it's “funny” when he acts out.
You think a person who said this is “heavily working on boundaries”? Looks like the only person on whom she is enforcing these “boundaries” is you OP.
Seriously just think of the situation you are in. A 35 year old man basically just told you that he is wearing a clown suit to a formal event. And your Finance and your plan is to ignore him? Really? It's a grown man! Why is your finance and her family behaving like it's a toddler throwing tantrums?
OP, believe me when I say this – you allow this and this won't be the last time this will happen. Every time you do something you'll have to worry about a 35 year old manchild ruining it.
Don't marry into this and this is not what “heavily working on boundaries” looks like.
Let’s put things into perspective here. You say you’ve been off and on for a year. That would suggest you’re in an unhealthy relationship. Why were you off? Why would you move in together considering this dynamic?
Then, the guy went to the DMV and called you a few hours later. Your first though was to start auditing the timeline. I’m not saying you were wrong to do so as we’ve obviously learned she’s a liar if nothing else. But the fact that you jumped to doing that would indicate you don’t trust him. Right or wrong, healthy relationships can’t work without trust.
You then didn’t believe him. Why would your first instinct be to assume he lied? And again, he’s a scumbag so you were right. But to assume that again confirms what I’ve been saying.
The rest is just proof that he’s a scumbag and a liar. Did you overreact? No. But even if we were to believe he’s being honest, you can’t live like this. It would be miserable.
You should absolutely say screw it and give up on him. There’s lots of happiness out there for you! You don’t need this guy yelling at you
she wasn’t raised with wealth but now she’s acting like she has wealth growing up by the way she completely left us.
What? No, seriously, I can't even tell what lie you're trying to peddle here.
The fact of the matter is, she was neglected for years. Most of her life. It literally does not matter if it was necessary, or if it was the best you could do, or if it's part of your culture to do this to children. She was neglected, that is a fact. Parents are taken care of in your culture because the children were taken care of. You didn't do that for her — instead you favored her brother because he's a boy (which you admitted before) — and now that your bet didn't pay off like you wanted, you think she still owes you.
Of course you don’t want to be with someone who is only attracted to you physically, but it’s a fairly basic thing to find your partner physically attractive as well, especially in the early days of a relationship. If you’re on the fence enough about your partner’s looks that you have to convince yourself not to break up with them over it, I’d say the level of physical attraction is very minimal.