My daughter could be that “bastard” in 10 years. My husband is a wonderful father but if she wants to meet her bio dad when she's older then she has a right to. I know this is upsetting but think of all this girl missed.
You want to know why someone didn't directly say they didn't want kids when:
you admit that told you they likely didn't want kids (your comment about 10%) you admit you didn't tell them you wanted them (so you're being a hypocrite with your question) you admit that kids were never in the agreed retirement financial planning
My daughter could be that “bastard” in 10 years. My husband is a wonderful father but if she wants to meet her bio dad when she's older then she has a right to. I know this is upsetting but think of all this girl missed.
Let me make sure I understand your question.
You want to know why someone didn't directly say they didn't want kids when:
you admit that told you they likely didn't want kids (your comment about 10%) you admit you didn't tell them you wanted them (so you're being a hypocrite with your question) you admit that kids were never in the agreed retirement financial planning
Exactly what are you looking for, here?