You can only control so much, and have exhausted all the tools you can use in the relationship to help him. At this point, he needs you to leave him to motivate some sort of change.
Yeah – what happens in the future? Are you going to continue to be excluded from any events including this friend group? Even if you accept it this time, you need to be honest with him that his excluding you really hurt, and it’s not a great start to your supposed new life elsewhere.
Don’t accept any guff about it being his friends – it was his party, his guest list, and ultimately he decided not to have your corner. He needs to do a lot better.
I’ve met her boyfriend once and they seem like they’re sweet at least on the surface. Apparently her and her boyfriend never fight.
Did your fiancee tell her this is a problem? Are you not doing other chores?
Maybe she told her mother you're not around much and she's battling it.
Talk to your fiancee and sort things out.
You can only control so much, and have exhausted all the tools you can use in the relationship to help him. At this point, he needs you to leave him to motivate some sort of change.
THAT is a problem. That is your answer OP. This isn’t about him wanting to do things or spend time with you. It’s about him wanting to control you.
Every other month he’s also going to want to do things on the weekends you’re away.
Yeah – what happens in the future? Are you going to continue to be excluded from any events including this friend group? Even if you accept it this time, you need to be honest with him that his excluding you really hurt, and it’s not a great start to your supposed new life elsewhere.
Don’t accept any guff about it being his friends – it was his party, his guest list, and ultimately he decided not to have your corner. He needs to do a lot better.