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Unfortunately seeing the presents wrapped and piled along with time spent on opening is a large part of what brings my mom and sister joy and neither my sister nor I have children so there's no grandkids to redirect that towards. I know I could get my dad on board but suggesting things like that has upset people in the past and I'd really like to avoid that this year
Next time she invites you to bed decline by saying, “I am not confident I can behave myself around you laying in your bed. It’s getting difficult. I think I should take the couch. “
Hmm he is clearly being manipulative here, however, if after 8 months of dating you aren’t ready to blow him yet you likely aren’t ready to be with such an experienced man. Or you need a man that will very clearly walk the slow route with you.
Why aren’t you ready yet? Are you insecure? Is it purely trauma based? ( these questions are for you to ponder, don’t feel obligated to answer them on here!)
A good majority of men will want blowjobs and if your past trauma is stopping you that is a clear indicator that you need to work on healing from that.
Personally I would leave this guy, you are in very different phases and this level of sexual incompatibility is frustrating and can seem daunting to have to repress your desires for someone else to catch up. It makes more sense to find someone on your wave length, or who doesn’t prefer blowjobs. bottom line is this is clearly an incompatibility, i may not be his age but i am older then you and I personally would walk away from someone that couldn’t fulfill a desire of mine after that long. It turns to bitterness ,resentment and manipulation when you try and force it to work. It’s better to leave and let it be!
Also life tip: don’t ask questions that you are not able to handle the answer too!
Good luck op! Being that young and navigating your sexual trauma is tough.
You’re trying to show him that you should be kept around for things other than money. He has asked you to contribute money, but your response is “nah, but I can do these other things”
I mean he’s here criticizing his wife while leaving comments like
If she told me directly that she did not want kids, not now not ever, obviously that would influence my feelings more than “maybe there's a small chance someday”
He has literally never expressed his desires either but she is the bad guy? Mmhmmm
He said that he was okay with that and we continued. Fast forward and we've been doing it for about a week.
So the position you are left in is that he either outright lied or he is so anxious about a relationship and entangling you that he genuinely can't see how absurd what he said was. It's pretty scary either way and I can tell you right now that once you meet that kid they will pivot to being a reason you have to stay, so you don't upset them after they've bonded with you [even if you've only met once].
There is no gently with this guy. You were upfront and he broke that boundary. It took one week. Don't let him get any more invested, no 'chemistry' informs the reckless rush this guy seems intent on.
Unfortunately seeing the presents wrapped and piled along with time spent on opening is a large part of what brings my mom and sister joy and neither my sister nor I have children so there's no grandkids to redirect that towards. I know I could get my dad on board but suggesting things like that has upset people in the past and I'd really like to avoid that this year
Next time she invites you to bed decline by saying, “I am not confident I can behave myself around you laying in your bed. It’s getting difficult. I think I should take the couch. “
See if she still offers.
Hmm he is clearly being manipulative here, however, if after 8 months of dating you aren’t ready to blow him yet you likely aren’t ready to be with such an experienced man. Or you need a man that will very clearly walk the slow route with you.
Why aren’t you ready yet? Are you insecure? Is it purely trauma based? ( these questions are for you to ponder, don’t feel obligated to answer them on here!)
A good majority of men will want blowjobs and if your past trauma is stopping you that is a clear indicator that you need to work on healing from that.
Personally I would leave this guy, you are in very different phases and this level of sexual incompatibility is frustrating and can seem daunting to have to repress your desires for someone else to catch up. It makes more sense to find someone on your wave length, or who doesn’t prefer blowjobs. bottom line is this is clearly an incompatibility, i may not be his age but i am older then you and I personally would walk away from someone that couldn’t fulfill a desire of mine after that long. It turns to bitterness ,resentment and manipulation when you try and force it to work. It’s better to leave and let it be!
Also life tip: don’t ask questions that you are not able to handle the answer too!
Good luck op! Being that young and navigating your sexual trauma is tough.
Man, I hope you get your money back for that book of insults.
You’re at the perfect age to learn about “boundaries” and how to set them.
Your mother needs to know that your girlfriend’s physical appearance is none of her business. That is a boundary.
You’re trying to show him that you should be kept around for things other than money. He has asked you to contribute money, but your response is “nah, but I can do these other things”
I'm aware… That's my point…
I mean he’s here criticizing his wife while leaving comments like
If she told me directly that she did not want kids, not now not ever, obviously that would influence my feelings more than “maybe there's a small chance someday”
He has literally never expressed his desires either but she is the bad guy? Mmhmmm
He said that he was okay with that and we continued. Fast forward and we've been doing it for about a week.
So the position you are left in is that he either outright lied or he is so anxious about a relationship and entangling you that he genuinely can't see how absurd what he said was. It's pretty scary either way and I can tell you right now that once you meet that kid they will pivot to being a reason you have to stay, so you don't upset them after they've bonded with you [even if you've only met once].
There is no gently with this guy. You were upfront and he broke that boundary. It took one week. Don't let him get any more invested, no 'chemistry' informs the reckless rush this guy seems intent on.