It doesn’t matter when the screen shot was taken. What matters is that she cheated on you when she’s very happy with you. Can you imagine what she will do when the relationship hits a rough patch?
The only reason i say willingly is thats what a witness said, they left together to the room willingly, if she was in a state of being pushed out id assume someone would have went to check the situation. Again shes not to blame for the assault but from whats being said she was willing to go with this guy to the room.
Agreeing here. I was always in tumultuous relationships and tried SO hard to make them work and obv they never did. I met my partner at 37 and we are going on 8 years now. We dont HAVE to try to make it work. It just does because we are compatible. I never knew it cold just be so easy! We have arguments and discussions but never fights and we both ‘fight fair’, no name calling, no hitting below the belt.
Could you potentially give a very meta explanation?
“I cannot explain this trigger to you in a way that you can rationalize, b/c it is not a rational reaction. However, it being irrational does not mean that it does not exist. You should not talk about it with me because it causes me immense unhappiness. You can rationalize not doing something to avoid hurting someone else.”
Also, not to encourage you to if you don't want to, but do you have any plans to begin smoothing out this trigger? If you do plan on eventually doing something about this trigger you can include the information that you have a timeline for when you will begin the process of working on it, but it is not a high priority and there are never any guarantees that you'll get further than not feeling physically panic-stricken when it pops up unexpectedly.
So she rejected you, you keep hoping something happens, keep doing unnecessary things for her under the excuse of being a friend. Then when she have a relationship with other person and tell you about because you are her friend you get mad?
I mean she definitely shouldn't have a relationship with a married man but that's her own problem, not your because she only telling you this because she thought of you a a friend.
Stop creating drama, stay away from a girl who makes drama and work on yourself because being a “nice guy” it's not the only to make a girl like you.
OP, she will never change. How much you do for her & her child is irrelevant. Besides it will never “be enough”.
The dogs are not at fault for the child leaving his games out. I’m going out on a limb & say her child is golden & never does anything wrong… like mom.
Is this your home? Are both your names on the lease? I’m thinking she needs to move on with her manipulative, narcissistic, disrespectful behavior. You deserve better than this in a GF.
She’s blaming your dogs. If they go? She will blame you for any & every thing.
I trust my partner's conscius intentions and decisions. I don't trust their assessments of their capability to execute those intentions in different circumstances.
I don't trust my own assessments of my own capability to execute those decisions and intentions. That's why, when I'm on a diet, I literally do not buy tempting food and keep it in the fridge. Because I know, that I can't very strongly desire not to eat it, and yet I can still eat it.
That0s not a ''me issue''. That's human nature 101
Don’t have his kids unless you are 100% on board. Religion is a one way street. There’s usually little or no leeway by cult members of any denomination no matter what they tell you to get you onside.
It doesn’t matter when the screen shot was taken. What matters is that she cheated on you when she’s very happy with you. Can you imagine what she will do when the relationship hits a rough patch?
The only reason i say willingly is thats what a witness said, they left together to the room willingly, if she was in a state of being pushed out id assume someone would have went to check the situation. Again shes not to blame for the assault but from whats being said she was willing to go with this guy to the room.
Agreeing here. I was always in tumultuous relationships and tried SO hard to make them work and obv they never did. I met my partner at 37 and we are going on 8 years now. We dont HAVE to try to make it work. It just does because we are compatible. I never knew it cold just be so easy! We have arguments and discussions but never fights and we both ‘fight fair’, no name calling, no hitting below the belt.
I’m fine with an open marriage I just don’t like the kissing and oral part. That’s the main reason I stopped having sex with her or kissing her
This really killed me. My ex does that too. Did “men who hate women” help and what do they recommend for guys like that?
texting your ex while upset at current bf would not sit well with current bf.
Could you potentially give a very meta explanation?
“I cannot explain this trigger to you in a way that you can rationalize, b/c it is not a rational reaction. However, it being irrational does not mean that it does not exist. You should not talk about it with me because it causes me immense unhappiness. You can rationalize not doing something to avoid hurting someone else.”
Also, not to encourage you to if you don't want to, but do you have any plans to begin smoothing out this trigger? If you do plan on eventually doing something about this trigger you can include the information that you have a timeline for when you will begin the process of working on it, but it is not a high priority and there are never any guarantees that you'll get further than not feeling physically panic-stricken when it pops up unexpectedly.
Tell her to fuck off then
Tell the Police – they'll find her
And gas, water, broadband, they should be split too.
So she rejected you, you keep hoping something happens, keep doing unnecessary things for her under the excuse of being a friend. Then when she have a relationship with other person and tell you about because you are her friend you get mad?
I mean she definitely shouldn't have a relationship with a married man but that's her own problem, not your because she only telling you this because she thought of you a a friend.
Stop creating drama, stay away from a girl who makes drama and work on yourself because being a “nice guy” it's not the only to make a girl like you.
OP, she will never change. How much you do for her & her child is irrelevant. Besides it will never “be enough”.
The dogs are not at fault for the child leaving his games out. I’m going out on a limb & say her child is golden & never does anything wrong… like mom.
Is this your home? Are both your names on the lease? I’m thinking she needs to move on with her manipulative, narcissistic, disrespectful behavior. You deserve better than this in a GF.
She’s blaming your dogs. If they go? She will blame you for any & every thing.
So you don't trust your partner.
Again – this is too simplistic.
I trust my partner's conscius intentions and decisions. I don't trust their assessments of their capability to execute those intentions in different circumstances.
I don't trust my own assessments of my own capability to execute those decisions and intentions. That's why, when I'm on a diet, I literally do not buy tempting food and keep it in the fridge. Because I know, that I can't very strongly desire not to eat it, and yet I can still eat it.
That0s not a ''me issue''. That's human nature 101
No you have to leave it. Yelling will only get worse. Sorry op
Don’t have his kids unless you are 100% on board. Religion is a one way street. There’s usually little or no leeway by cult members of any denomination no matter what they tell you to get you onside.
tell her parents. its in her best interests. she needs help and you won’t be able to help her on your own.