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Date: October 9, 2022
Roxanne, 28 y.o.
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I have longish hair, I shed like a cat. It’s come into the house attached to your daughter.
we’re both young? we don’t drink coffee??
As someone studying mental health at a masters level, I think don’t get swept away too much by diagnoses. They can be a great way of helping a person being treated, but they are also highly subjective and mistakes are frequently made (for example ppl don’t always disclose trauma, clinicians biases, the tendency to want to fit someone into a box, cultural factors being misinterpreted). This man is still your husband and father of your children and surely you chose him because you saw something in him you wanted to keep around? It also seems like he is seeking treatment
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There is no need to change something if you like who you are. What he said: he don’t want to marry you. What you understood: no one wants to marry you. But: 1. Men are not all the same. An other man might think you are wife material. 2. I am not a native English speeker but the term connects with some stereotypes in my head. Those are: do all the household, do everything g for your man, he is always right, do only “feminin stuff”, have children. But again: idk if I take this wrong but this sounds manipulative to me. 3. What would husband material be for you? Maybe it’s not the same for me? Who defines that? 4. Change to be the person you want to be not to a person someone else thinks you should be
“Wife material” would be for me (a woman): be honest, trustworthy, now your value, speak up if necessary, have a own opinion but be able to change it if you learn it’s wrong, be open minded, handle your responsibilities, don’t be someone’s play doll, … but even if you do all this I still would have to love you deeply.
There might be something else that’s distracting her or that makes her feel that way. However on your end if that really a big deal breaker and she doesn’t want to have an open conversation like a normal adult. You should maybe start to think about letting her go. There is no point in being in a relationship if you aren’t happy and if you tried to make it work and it doesn’t well…
Yeah, I know, that is a dangerous and dark world (scorts, prostitutes…). That's why I explained this is a safe place. But yeah, it's a sex related job still.
Sure, she wouldn't treat clients badly because therefore they wouldn't come back.
I'm still thinking, I know she did because it's her job, but she's still a good person anyway
Not that crazy. I know of companies who offer to fly family in for z weekend rather than fly the employee home and back. There are ways it can financially make sense.
Getting a second ticket in place of housing wouldn’t be in insane ask.
What does she say specifically?
You should ask her if she's really fine with your height or not. If she really stresses so much about it, she should either address her mentality or you should leave her, it's not healthy to make your partner stress about their body…
Wow maybe your ex and this wife of op should get together, they're perfect for each other… similarly impulsive and stupid too!
Just to provide some balance to this comment section, personally I wouldn't take her claim to want to travel for an undetermined amount of time very seriously. That is, frankly, not something she's capable of doing. That is almost exclusively for rich people. Kids can get away with it for a few years if they're willing to be au pairs or farm workers but that gets old very fast. The other thing is that traveling kind of sucks. You're often out-of-sorts, you might not be able to communicate with the locals very well, and living out of a suitcase is difficult and uncomfortable.
She's lived in her same hometown with the same friends and the same life for a long time. I think many people experience the same funk at some point or another, call it a midlife crisis if you want, where their lives seem stagnant and they're wondering what life could be like if they did things differently. So they want to shake things up. This can be a good thing. It doesn't necessarily means that she'll cheat on you or leave you. A trip could help reset her priorities.
Encourage her to go on the two week trip and to come home and take stock afterward. If she feels that she needs to travel and be away from her family to find some nebulous “happiness” that she doesn't have with you, then so be it. But I have a suspicion that being away from her baby and her loving husband and her job that she loves and her home for two whole weeks (perhaps the longest in her life so far?) will cause more homesickness than wish fulfillment. France is wonderful, but two weeks of vacation is more than enough for the average non-traveler to be done and ready to go home.
You're kidding yourself.
You were a child. How were you supposed to know that it was wrong?
Your description does sound like SA/grooming attempt. It is not your fault. Unfortunately there's not much you can do without proof except for speaking with your parents if you trust them enough. I hope you are away from that creep now.
Not a rule just common sense. Some folks can't deal with their SO exes being in the picture.
Wow OP is horrible too, good lord the man was dating a teenager and her only concern is if he will dump her later not the fact the AH is a predator. Like eeeww both of them are disgusting!
Most of the sacrifices made for SAHM fall firmly on her, and it sounds like she did NOT sign up for being a SAHM but instead a decision was made between the two of them . The fact she has a part-time job makes it clear she does not want this current life. So no she does NOT want these sacrifices as it is driving her to a breakdown. And unless he changes then yes it seems he was a bad choice and he may get a brutal shock when she divorces him and forces him to take a 50% responsibility with either time or the $ to cover the time.
Bro – you’re single