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Your husband prob means well but is being very insensitive. He should have waited to hear your decision first.
I feel like that prob the last thing on your mind but I guess that means he's ok with sperm donor so it's obviously different than asking you to keep a baby after what happened to you.
Maybe much later on you guys can consider something like that. You're both young. But obviously your well being and recovery should come first
If you get upset by having a boyfriend who masturbates, you absolutely should not be dating men. At his age most guys jerk off 1-3x every day, and honestly he probably can’t even fall asleep at night otherwise. Seriously.
However, masturbation is a private activity, and you should ask him to stop telling you about it when he masturbates. That is none of your business, and it clearly makes you feel insecure, so he should not be talking about it with you.
Only girl in a group of guys….. Hooked up with two of them…. Plan events for everyone except you…. Lol. Those aren’t your friends. They keep you around for sex.
6 months he’s been in a relationship with someone else. No remorse no accountability for throwing 6 years away. Just lies about not caring for her & only loving you even brought her around his family too. wow this man is the bottom of the dumpster trash. Please leave this man…
I mean this is not at all uncommong, maybe the degree is a bit more extreme, but it sounds like a very common issue in relationships.
Maybe it's a backwards take but she should just respect what you tell her. “Don't touch my shit, end of story.”, “Leave it where it is.” If she claims it's due to some kind of disorder, tell her to get it treated. Otherwise if she refuses to stop I'd just start throwing her stuff around in places where she can't find it and see how she enjoys that.
you did not ruin anything
I don't think its salvageable.
Destruction of property is abuse.
The way she behaved to his daughter is emotional abuse.
I do not think this should be salvaged.
well i think that you shouldnt make promises that u cant keep
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Sorry that happened!
Your husband prob means well but is being very insensitive. He should have waited to hear your decision first.
I feel like that prob the last thing on your mind but I guess that means he's ok with sperm donor so it's obviously different than asking you to keep a baby after what happened to you.
Maybe much later on you guys can consider something like that. You're both young. But obviously your well being and recovery should come first
You want to be a mom, take this as a win. I actually think your family will get over it. Grandchildren usually trump ex husbands anyway lol.
100% this.
As soon as your parents meet that baby they will be on board.
How do you keep a job if you’re there 6 mos at a time?
If you get upset by having a boyfriend who masturbates, you absolutely should not be dating men. At his age most guys jerk off 1-3x every day, and honestly he probably can’t even fall asleep at night otherwise. Seriously.
However, masturbation is a private activity, and you should ask him to stop telling you about it when he masturbates. That is none of your business, and it clearly makes you feel insecure, so he should not be talking about it with you.
Only girl in a group of guys….. Hooked up with two of them…. Plan events for everyone except you…. Lol. Those aren’t your friends. They keep you around for sex.
It’s all about control, it’s never been about the truth.
6 months he’s been in a relationship with someone else. No remorse no accountability for throwing 6 years away. Just lies about not caring for her & only loving you even brought her around his family too. wow this man is the bottom of the dumpster trash. Please leave this man…
I mean this is not at all uncommong, maybe the degree is a bit more extreme, but it sounds like a very common issue in relationships.
Maybe it's a backwards take but she should just respect what you tell her. “Don't touch my shit, end of story.”, “Leave it where it is.” If she claims it's due to some kind of disorder, tell her to get it treated. Otherwise if she refuses to stop I'd just start throwing her stuff around in places where she can't find it and see how she enjoys that.