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Date: December 24, 2022
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He gets a home and whatever else you do for him, do you clean, cook and do laundry?
Does he get a cheap place to live in?
He is a low energy person with no interest in you, but you are putting up with it mostly, he may even be used to being scolded and just doesn't care enough to make the effort. Generally those sort of people are going to just wait it out until something else comes along to look after him.
Tell me what does he do in the home? does he do his share of the chores?
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Is there an off button? /s
turn your phone OFF. He is very immature, you do not need to justify/answer on HIS time, he is very insecure and honestly needs to mature (not what I want to say, but I'm trying to be nice).
Good Luck!
I'm starting to wonder the same thing! I guess I've been sweeping a lot under the carpet. It's easy to turn a blind eye I guess. Especially when it happens slowly over a 10 year period.
You think she should cut back when she said she drinks one beer a night or every other night? The problem isn't her drinking, it's her bf.
Dangerous to fuel that, just like a choking fetish.
I do not enter it, im talking about massage
It was before your relation with her , so it shouldn’t matter
OP, you're not getting the answer you want or need here. This sub is notorious for telling people to break up over even minor shit, because folks come here to see drama. Go see a therapist. Ignore everything else here.
Because they would keep each other up talking all night instead of sleeping. Again they were kids so you can be sure nothing creepy was happening then and I’m sure nothing creepy is happening now because that’s not something people do. I know them and for as much as they’re assholes to me they aren’t like fucked up people. They’re both in relationships too like this is so weird I never thought I’d have to defend my siblings against accusations of incest?
Truly. The time to leave, my friend, is now. Right now. All you have to do is take your kiddo to “the park” or some other activity he enjoys, with a fully charged cell phone, a charger, whatever money/credit cards you got and medicine if you take a daily medicine. That's it. You don't need to bring clothes. You don't need to bring your son's toys, except maybe if he wants to bring one or two to the “park.” Hell, you can go to the park too. You can go the park and call this number. And you can take the ticket to leave that is calling for you right. Now. 800-799-7233 (US National DV hotline)
When someone tells you who they really are, believe them.
You ARE a better person than he is, he's too old for you, and he's a frickin' alcoholic. Why are you with someone who can't be an appropriate partner for you? Is he really the best you can do? I mean you ARE settling for a broken older man, and he feels it.
Get therapy. This isn't even a predatory man, it's a younger woman begging to be prey. There's something wrong with you.
I suppose I would be remiss if I didn't mention that there are alternatives. You could look into opening up the relationship, but there are too many issues here that would need to be addressed before that should even be broached. In other words, it would just make everything worse.
I also don't get the impression that either of you are the type that would really want that in a serious relationship. I don't know either of you, but I just kind of get those vibes somewhat.
He needs help desperately. You can't give it to him. It's something that he has to do for himself.
I’ll add another thing as an older man : I like doing things for Valentine’s Day, but dayum do women make a huge stink over a capitalist invented holiday.
Valentine’s Day has ruined countless relationships and saved precious few.
A woman will develop massive expectations (sometimes) and then cause massive drama. In this case, you were lonely — instead of just eating a pint of ice cream, you threw a massive party on like a Tuesday with massive drinking.
Fuck Valentine’s Day. That is all
If you feel like you don’t belong then you have no obligation to stay. But before you do anything, you should drill down on why you are feeling this way. You haven’t really described anything other than you taking care of chickens and them being sick. What else is going on? Do you have gainful work other than caring for the family chickens? Do you have friends? If the answer is no to either question, then why is that the case? If you do some soul searching and you conclude that you don’t see a future with your girl and her family and in the place you moved, then you did to discuss with her and find a solution, either break up and go separately or work something out together.
And expensive
Cut your losses and skip town, leave both of em, you don't like abc and you don't deserve your original girl.
Just chalk this up as one of those painful life lessons
If she is going to ignore you here she will do so many times in the future as well.
Great point.
He assumed this, I did not tell him. The first time he brought it up I was thrown off and just laughed awkwardly, it kind of got out of control from there because I was (still am a bit) worried he’ll break up with me over this.
I do not believe a word OP says. It’s a classic missing missing reasons post where she complains about her partner’s reaction but is extremely vague about what precipitated it. Saying her partner isn’t getting her way is meaningless. It’s pure innuendo that her partner is manipulating her without any factual basis. And of course the partner only reacts that way with OP. Casual relationships don’t trigger intense emotions.
He has some misplaced guilt and emotions that are all twisted. Focusing on you and blaming you for any perceived impure things that happened is how he's choosing to deal with it. He's going to need to work through this himself. If you are there, he'll just redirect it at you.
I'd give him a lot of space. And don't answer if he contacts you because it's likely he'll look to you in moments of horniness. And blame you again each time.
Feel free to brag that your skills make men speechless
Confront the lot of them he probably getting something put of it.
In that case, you should respect her boundaries and not attempt to contact her. Perhaps with time she will be in a better place and reach out to you.
If I dated a person for 7 years and they bought a house for themself without any input by me, I would consider our relationship to be over. Except maybe if I had my own house and we've discussed to have separate households. But in my twenties? Would have been the end of that relationship for me.
Oh give me a break.
Ask ger about, and tell her you don't want to assume the worst so you would like to open it on your eyes, and show you everything.
If she refuses, regardless of ger words, assume the worst, and break up.
That’s the same logic rapists use. You’re disgusting.
I take LDN for fibromyalgia, and it's amazing. Based on how OP's boyfriend's description of how he feels, I can't help but wonder if he might have fibromyalgia too.
Like the thing about the paper cut? When I get a paper cut, the skin on either side of the split tingles, at the very least, until the cut heals. Even if it's not a stinging pain, there's still a persistent ticklish or tingling feeling that takes days to go away. It can be distracting enough to keep me up at night, even if it doesn't hurt. I didn't know that wasn't everyone's experience unless my pain doctor mentioned it, and then I asked a few other people what their paper cuts felt like. Apparently, they usually stop feeling them about 20 minutes after they get cut..? That sounds really nice, and I'm kind of jealous.
Is this the same guy who gave you multiple STDs after cheating on you? If so, why tf are you still with them?
I’d not, yes, it’s controlling and Instagram not being a “safe place” for you is a you problem, not a him problem. Are you in therapy?
There was already a very, very similar post a while back from the boyfriend’s perspective. What a coincidence.