Listen to to what he has to say. Watch his behaviour over time. Tell him it would be good if he wishes to change. Tell him it will take a long time for him to show you he has changed.
Maintain your distance to the level you are comfortable.
Listen to to what he has to say. Watch his behaviour over time. Tell him it would be good if he wishes to change. Tell him it will take a long time for him to show you he has changed.
Maintain your distance to the level you are comfortable.
Yeah, from your comments it sounds like she was essentially feeling like your parent instead of your SO. And with an age gap like that, it’s quite ironic. For you to actively say “she asked me to change these things and I didn’t change them, now I’m completely blindsided by this breakup” is kind of silly. You just gave her reason. She communicated her needs, you failed to meet them. There was no blindsiding.
Get proof and tell her. Talk to a lawyer now
Listen to to what he has to say. Watch his behaviour over time. Tell him it would be good if he wishes to change. Tell him it will take a long time for him to show you he has changed.
Maintain your distance to the level you are comfortable.
Listen to to what he has to say. Watch his behaviour over time. Tell him it would be good if he wishes to change. Tell him it will take a long time for him to show you he has changed.
Maintain your distance to the level you are comfortable.
There are so many red flags in your post and comments. This is an honest question: why are you with her?
Yeah, from your comments it sounds like she was essentially feeling like your parent instead of your SO. And with an age gap like that, it’s quite ironic. For you to actively say “she asked me to change these things and I didn’t change them, now I’m completely blindsided by this breakup” is kind of silly. You just gave her reason. She communicated her needs, you failed to meet them. There was no blindsiding.