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Date: October 6, 2022
Tell limp dick to go find a Barbie
It may be time for a family meeting to discuss all of this. Unless your father is demanding that you marry before he passes he probably wouldn't want to be the cause of you trying to rush your fiancee to the altar if it means she'd have to shortchange her education. There's a good reason students are advised to not marry until they finish their degrees (and that's because statistically when college students get married they end up not graduating). Maybe there's a way to hold a small ceremony without all the glitz just so your dad can see it and then plan a big reception (the part the requires all the planning) after she's done with school. You're going to both have to find some ways to compromise on this because it would be a shame to get this close to forever only to end up breaking up over the scheduling of the wedding. Good luck.
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Currently I am in final year of university, I had crush on a girl and decided to ask her out soon as we have less time together. I had few mutual friends with her who helped me to get in contact with her(dinner, sports). After a month of meeting her along with her other friends I asked her out if she would like to go out on a brunch sometime.
She said that “as of now I am not open to dating”. She had a breakup a couple of weeks ago. After this I limited my talks with her.
As I had mutual friends I came to know that she said that as the ask out was out of blue for her and hence she said so. Also I texted her same regarding the situation and she said everything is cool and talked about this gesture as a good sign.
As I said that I stopped talking to her, like after of two weeks out of the blue she unfriended me on social media. This was very random as I had no such action in these two weeks which would lead to this. What I think is that on the same day she tried to give me a hint by making a situation to come and talk to her but I didn't (shy) do that she might have felt bad.
According to my friends, they thought that she might have felt that you are ignoring her too much and might have stop the thought of dating her so as to confirm and see your reaction she might have unfriended you on social media(ig).
Could I get some advice about how silly I acted and what should I do next?
My childhood was ok in my opinion.. other than having strict parents who were never there for me and my siblings (emotionally). I was sent to boarding school when I was 12 and haven't spent much time with my parents ever since.I don't think that has anything to do with relationships but maybe only a therapist can help me figure that out.
I think you forgot something
That's not the point. You said you met him September and we're in mid December. To be 2 and 1/2 months pregnant, the most generous scenario would be, you met him Sept. 1st. and got pregnant Oct. 1st. Do you really think it wise to have unprotected sex, risking a child that would bond you both for 18 years within only 1 month of meeting him? Or did he force you to not use protection?
Ok, your pills may have failed. They do, that's why you use condoms.
I still don't understand why, if you were in such intense medical distress, that you didn't seek medical care. But, I do think your SO was an a-hole not to pay attention and not rush you to an emergency clinic if you were actually passing out.
You can't make him stop. It's his body.
But I'd dump him already. 3 years?
Not sure why your wife is staying with you given she is lusting heavily on all the women in her life.
it doesnt show the amount. but she said it was just for gas
Well, she wanted a child and he was cheaper than artificial insemination.
You’re welcome!
Sounds like you're doing a great job as her father then.
I'm sorry This is happening. Your spouse needs to talk to someone. Sounds like other things are going on besides a sudden fear if parenthood. Stay str8ng and take care if yourself
I mean is there a medicine reason he needs to keep a list? Like for stds or is this just a bone list? This behavior seems very immature in my opinion. I think that you should work on making some power moves to get out. That is kinda ew and creepy
You would have had more comfort from a stranger on the street had you explained to them what happened. This was so horrible. I can’t imagine how you are feeling. I’m so sorry about your friend. You deserve a lot more
Wtf did I just read? Do you even like your husband or did you just want to get wedding photos where you matched? What a bizarre thing to add.
Of course your husband is insecure about his height, you clearly are too and he can pick up on that. Why would you join a table when you knew damn well your husband was already worked up?? Did you really think someone of a small stature could take a large muscular man? That he really wanted “workout tips”??? You either purposely wanted to see him humiliated or have him beat someone up “for you”. Whatever the reasons this entire situation is toxic as fuck
And NOW it’s about you and how you can’t “look at him the same”??? There’s easier ways to file for divorce than publicly humiliating your husband. Should he have controlled himself? Absolutely. But you could have put your foot down and prevented the interaction from happening, too.
Pump the brakes, imo.
In fact, step away and give her less attention and time. She told you she isn't single but still continues to go on walks, dinners and out for drinks with you? Nah, this could end badly for you if you don't manage your expectations
Exactly… agree with this.
“Why is your immediate reaction…”
Because they have a type B cluster personality disorder. Why do you think? It’s not as easy as just “go to therapy”.
So by your logic, 1/4 = 0
get some people he trusts to help confront him
The rest of the comment is fine but this part is an awful idea. Unless he has some serious porn/sex addiction issues that impacts his day-to-day life then it is his own private business and telling friends/family about it and having them confront him is a big betrayal of his privacy and trust.
Do you expect to change his mind? Or him to change yours? That's silly. I don't recommend struggling through a relationship with someone when it's unnecessarily difficult to be who you are. That's basic advice I would give to anyone.
As an ex international student with a really good degree, this isnt true. If they're in the U.S. doesnt matter how good the degree is the H1B work visa is offered on a lottery basis. You could just not get pulled and its very likely you dont. If she applied for a work-based green card those applications have been stalled for over two years now. It's not that simple.
You sound incredibly young and naive. He is not your friend, bestie hugs aren't a thing, friends don't kiss each others necks and he wants to sleep with you. Distance yourself from this guy and stick with people your own age.
Ok, so I understand why she's telling others, but is there anything I can do to convince them that I'm going to change? I don't want this low point to be my defining characteristic.
Your relationship was toxic AF. Don't go back because it will only drag you down again. She needs therapy and not a relationship.
I don't disagree.
I wish we could turn the tables on this matter so he can experience how it is to be in my shoes and stop with this poor attitude.
Have I got news for you!
Big yikes. Maybe consider if you want to spend the rest of your life with someone that has no financial intelligence, is selfish, is EXTREMELY materialistic, and doesn’t compromise.
I wouldn’t.
I’m a woman and I think spending that much on a (likely blood) diamond is one of the stupidest wastes of money possible. ESP when you literally can’t afford it. She just wants to show off to people who literally don’t actually gaf anyway.
Just explain all of this to him, maybe even ask your Dr too! It may not be a good idea with your condition.
She went away for a weekend. You’re texting her twice a day and want to have phone calls on top of that. She gave you answers so there is no “radio silence”. If you know she’s going to these getaways to decompress, why are you all over this trip?
The message you’re proposing in the last paragraph would enrage me. She’s been in touch.
Do you know what’s driving your anxiety? Are you concerned that she’s not texting because she’s hurt? Too drunk? In danger? Entertaining a gentleman caller?
Are you afraid for your safety?
I might hold off until you have your bags packed, even if it means breaking the lease to get away sooner. Living with the guy you just broke up with is a special kind of hell.
Ideally you are leaving and breaking up on the same day. One clean break instead of being dragged out over weeks or months.
Why haven't you talked to her about meeting with a financial counselor to figure out what to do about it? I mean refinancing and income based repayment are obvious starters. Tbh it doesn't sound like you WANT to even consider talking to her to help her figure out how she will reconfigure and pay the debt, which, yes, isn't your problem, but also, isn't the approach of someone that sees themselves as a life partner either. Y'all weren't gonna make it either way.
The only part of her you had in mind is that she would be living in YOUR house and have to follow whatever archaic rules your beliefs determine.
being upset about being lying to, reasonable. Unless there’s trauma involved then it’d probably be unreasonable to be upset , for me
Being upset they you’re not her first, unreasonable.
Ok let’s give her the benefit of the doubt, she wants him to find someone to have sex with once.
Deep dive in her phone, my guy…
I'd be concerned she's suggesting a hall pass because she's already playing in the hall.
Sweetie, he was ALWAYS like this.
He will not loosen his hold on you and in fact it will get worse, until you end up in the hospital or dead.
This is bad and there is no way to “fix” this because he justifies his behavior and blames you for his anger and his perceived loss of control on you.
The only thing to do it to start making your exit plan.
If you're not upset that she did it, and you're only upset she lied, I guess just get over it. I would never get over it, the lying is one thing but sex work is a deal breaker. I think especially if someone were considering a partner as the mother or father of their children they have a right to know. I would never choose a former sex worker as the parent of my child. You seem to only care she lied, so I guess it is kind of ok she lied, since it seems you wouldn't have cared she had done it. She didn't tell you because she thought you'd care and not want to marry a former sex worker but you would have and don't care she “experimented”. She only lied in case you were the kind of person who didn't want to marry a sex worker. No real harm done to you.
Yeah, I didn’t want to say it but I was thinking it. Makes sense
It sounds like your husband doesn't even like you.