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Date: February 9, 2023
I've had 4 major relationships in my life.
3 were much like what you're describing. Natural differences in libidos and feelings about sex that caused friction over time. I felt like such a “skeeze” for wanting to have sex more than once or twice a month, I grappled with those same thoughts and had the same conversations that led to the same, scheduled, sex. I thought I was just doomed to date people with mis-matched libidos.
However, after my last relationship ended I made it a priority to learn how to communicate my needs when it come to intimacy in relationships. I was very upfront with how I felt sex played an important role in a relationship and I was looking for someone who was also comfortable communicating about our sex life and having an open and honest relationship when it came to topics of sex/intimacy.
This totally changed my dating experience. Yes, It ended up ending some potential relationships early, but it allowed me to find the kind of people who thought about sex the same way I did. My current partner enjoys sex every bit as much as I do, and is as easily turned on as I am. We have an extremely open line of communication about our sex life, so there are rarely issues when one of us isn't in the mood and the other is. I never feel rejected by her because we don't think of sex as a commodity but as an experience for both of us.
My advice here is to think hard about the rest of your life. How important is physical intimacy to you? How confident are you that you and your partner can communicate in a healthy way about sex (without either feeling attacked or guilty.) Sex became the #1 problem in all 3 of my relationships. It became very frustrating for me as I felt wholly unloved, unsexy, and emasculated.
There ARE people out there who can match your libido, or at least communicate about sex in a way that doesn't feel forced for either of you. You just have to make it clear that sex/intimacy is a PRIORITY FOR YOU. I spent a lot of time thinking it was misogynistic to want sex in a relationship. It's not – you just have to be respectful in your communication and understand that you're not entitled to sex from your partner. I was in relationships with people who didn't think of sex as a key component to a relationships, while I did.
It’s obvious that you know what you need to do. I’m sending you a big hug and some love. Please take care of you!!!!!! and only you!!! If possible, let us know how you are doing.
Look I don’t want to be cynical, but it’s concerning that this isn’t something you and your wife have fantasised about, it’s coming from her, and she’s already picked someone out. I really hope you don’t do this and whether you do or don’t, some therapy might be the go. If you do you’re going to need iron clad boundaries, set by you about who can do what to who, and especially a safe word for if it becomes too much for any of the participants.
Cue the Cheers theme tune ?
It was two dates too many with a seriously unstable man.
When a guy leaves mid-date, don’t follow him.
I couldn’t be with someone that slept with my brother, doesn’t matter when. She lied by omission because she knows few people would be ok with dating someone who was intimate with a family member.