Don't make the same mistake that I did … I hadn't talked to my dad in about a month after my mom passed away .. Mostly because of how I thought he allowed relatives to take over how the funeral was handled .. Anyway , he passed away suddenly of a massive heart attack and I never got a chance to say things that I really wanted to say to him .. There isn't a day that goes by that I wish I hadn't picked up that phone when he was trying so hard to contact me .. I will never get that chance again .. Please , don't do what I did .
Don't play these ganes, there is no prize at the end. Whether she is cheating or has some other bad reason for lying to you you shouldn't press for answers. Break up with her, she is lying to your face and has no respect for your concerns. Just break up and move on. You don't even need to explain yourself to her.
Hypoglycemic here. It's on OP's partner to manage his condition. It's not hard to manage. Regular meals, and keep small snacks on hand for sudden crashes. Bf chose to skip his snack. Chose to be a child because he was “hangry.” And chose to be nasty to OP. OP, you don't deserve this. At all.
I hope to hold you don’t go back to her! 2 YEARS! She has been cheating for 2 YEARS! She isn’t sorry in the slightest! She is a POS and knows it. Get DNA tested and if the kid isn’t yours then leave her life. Man I’m so sorry this has happened to you but never let a POS have the chance to fool you twice otherwise the next time will be on you.
Free childcare is great if it's quality. Not sure how you feel comfortable leaving your infant with someone you yourself describe as ” in general quite childish and immature”. Sounds potentially dangerous. Maybe try to find some alternative so you have the leverage to not associate with Mom for a while if she's being vindictive about your auntie.
This is why I'm a proponent for no marriage. Each party should feel free to leave at any time and without a court hearing or lawyers. Also, not losing half of your shit is a good reason, too.
4 to 5 times a year for 2-5 days sounds like a week every other month. It's not uprooting in the sense that they are relocating or anything like that. She does say she's working late as well.
It's also not just the time sink. But also emotional and mental sink as well. Her husband is saying that he feels like a third wheel to her work. All the comments are telling her that her career is more important than her husband and child. That's insane.
Repost troll, don't bother. Long time no see!
That’s a really good point. I think it might just be a trust issue on my end. Do you not think I can fix that while still being in the relationship?
Don't make the same mistake that I did … I hadn't talked to my dad in about a month after my mom passed away .. Mostly because of how I thought he allowed relatives to take over how the funeral was handled .. Anyway , he passed away suddenly of a massive heart attack and I never got a chance to say things that I really wanted to say to him .. There isn't a day that goes by that I wish I hadn't picked up that phone when he was trying so hard to contact me .. I will never get that chance again .. Please , don't do what I did .
Don't play these ganes, there is no prize at the end. Whether she is cheating or has some other bad reason for lying to you you shouldn't press for answers. Break up with her, she is lying to your face and has no respect for your concerns. Just break up and move on. You don't even need to explain yourself to her.
Hypoglycemic here. It's on OP's partner to manage his condition. It's not hard to manage. Regular meals, and keep small snacks on hand for sudden crashes. Bf chose to skip his snack. Chose to be a child because he was “hangry.” And chose to be nasty to OP. OP, you don't deserve this. At all.
I hope to hold you don’t go back to her! 2 YEARS! She has been cheating for 2 YEARS! She isn’t sorry in the slightest! She is a POS and knows it. Get DNA tested and if the kid isn’t yours then leave her life. Man I’m so sorry this has happened to you but never let a POS have the chance to fool you twice otherwise the next time will be on you.
3 weeks and 2 dates and you “love” him?
Need more info:
-How were YOU able to up and move so quickly. What do you do for work? Why can you move so easily? Are you working?
-Who will you be near in this new city? Any family or support near the new place?
My shortterm advice is to close any joint accounts. Lock down your credit cards.
Then turn off your phone and go enjoy Christmas with your family. Leave him “the fuck alone” for a few days.
Turning your phone off will give you a breather from his bullshit.
She doesn’t “need” to do anything. His shallowness has rendered him completely unattractive to her. Bye to him.
This should be the top comment. OP get out now without him knowing, and report the incident to police. Remember gabby petitto? LEAVE IMMEDIATELY
I would consider that he's keeping his options open and he doesn't consider you two as exclusive.
how do you just walk into someone’s house lol?
lock your doors .
You can’t teach an old dog new tricks. Find someone who shares your views on a fundamental level.
Free childcare is great if it's quality. Not sure how you feel comfortable leaving your infant with someone you yourself describe as ” in general quite childish and immature”. Sounds potentially dangerous. Maybe try to find some alternative so you have the leverage to not associate with Mom for a while if she's being vindictive about your auntie.
unhinged is an understatement, IMO….
I assume you like… talked to him about it though.
This is why I'm a proponent for no marriage. Each party should feel free to leave at any time and without a court hearing or lawyers. Also, not losing half of your shit is a good reason, too.
Keep in mind I am a very gentle person who rarely gets angry, it was a one off incident that was exasperated because I had a bit to drink.
Dude. Don't even try that.
4 to 5 times a year for 2-5 days sounds like a week every other month. It's not uprooting in the sense that they are relocating or anything like that. She does say she's working late as well.
It's also not just the time sink. But also emotional and mental sink as well. Her husband is saying that he feels like a third wheel to her work. All the comments are telling her that her career is more important than her husband and child. That's insane.
She doesn’t respect you enough to hear you out. She keeps diverting the conversation to her agenda.
It may not be fixable. What are the core repeating problems of your relationship? Is it her selfish behaviour?
Why would you think someone that cuts you off and is hyper defensive is a great partner? There is being too flexible.
Absolutely nailed it. Thank you.