You probably gonna have to either deal with not having another dog or break up, plus the dog you want are working dogs so unless you live on a farm and got plenty of time to let him get enough exercise getting a working dog will be a bad idea
What advice are you looking for? Are you asking whether or not you should feel guilty about secretly recording your boyfriend? If that’s the case, then yes, recording your boyfriend in an intimate moment without his consent is a huge breach of trust (regardless of how you think he would react). If it was consensual, then there is absolutely nothing wrong with what you’ve done. However, this is completely wrong.
She gave you clear feedback about what she was not enjoying about kissing you. (If you should have the opportunity again, or when you have the opportunity with someone else, make sure you're swallowing before you make lip contact. Close your lips occasionally and swallow while kissing as well.)
She's still willing to see if the effort of working with you on that item is going to be worth it to her. So one of the things she's probably considering is how into her you are. If this critique and subsequent request to slow down on the physical affection turns you off on her- you're not that into her. (And you're also baseline incompatible in that case as well.) If that's the case, I'd agree with her, probably not worth the effort. Especially if she's interested in more than a fling. Not because of any moisture issues while kissing, but mainly because of an inability to be willing to be flexible and explore her desires, at a pace that works for her, instead of a partner being concerned of just their desires. So it comes down to consideration, respect, and desire.
She'll also probably be paying attention to how well you take critique. Your reaction to that criticism seems disproportionate to me. (Monster she can't touch? Really?)
She's not asking a lot of you. And frankly- you're going to need to learn how she – or any other future partners – likes to interact. There is not one right way to touch, kiss, or interact physically or emotionally. You've got to learn to be observant and willing to communicate and work with your partners.
I'd give her the chance. See how well you like spending time with her in general, and develop some trust and communication so as you go forward and work together- on matching up physically you're in a better place together to do that communication and work on getting to the same page.
Yeah I'd be fine with it. Early on dating, my gf moved into a house with like 3 guys and 1 girl in it. Totally fine with it because I'm not insecure and trust my gf. It's crazy they didn't just have crazy orgies all time cause apparently cheating is the only place having friends goes.
What you described is not a man who is perfect in every way and who loves you. You just described a selfish asshole who uses your mouth to masturbate in everyday. You are the living fleshlight he feel entitled to every single day regardless if you are in pain and are in the mood. This is not the behaviour of a man who loves, cares and respects you. This is the behaviour of a self absorbed, selfish asshole who only cares about his dick. Why would someone this selfish and entitled who has little respect for you be someone you think is perfect in every way? You have a rotten boyfriend problem. You don’t have to stay with someone who uses you to masturbate in daily.
this is fairly normal you're just being picky imo, if you don't like it break it off ?
You probably gonna have to either deal with not having another dog or break up, plus the dog you want are working dogs so unless you live on a farm and got plenty of time to let him get enough exercise getting a working dog will be a bad idea
What advice are you looking for? Are you asking whether or not you should feel guilty about secretly recording your boyfriend? If that’s the case, then yes, recording your boyfriend in an intimate moment without his consent is a huge breach of trust (regardless of how you think he would react). If it was consensual, then there is absolutely nothing wrong with what you’ve done. However, this is completely wrong.
She gave you clear feedback about what she was not enjoying about kissing you. (If you should have the opportunity again, or when you have the opportunity with someone else, make sure you're swallowing before you make lip contact. Close your lips occasionally and swallow while kissing as well.)
She's still willing to see if the effort of working with you on that item is going to be worth it to her. So one of the things she's probably considering is how into her you are. If this critique and subsequent request to slow down on the physical affection turns you off on her- you're not that into her. (And you're also baseline incompatible in that case as well.) If that's the case, I'd agree with her, probably not worth the effort. Especially if she's interested in more than a fling. Not because of any moisture issues while kissing, but mainly because of an inability to be willing to be flexible and explore her desires, at a pace that works for her, instead of a partner being concerned of just their desires. So it comes down to consideration, respect, and desire.
She'll also probably be paying attention to how well you take critique. Your reaction to that criticism seems disproportionate to me. (Monster she can't touch? Really?)
She's not asking a lot of you. And frankly- you're going to need to learn how she – or any other future partners – likes to interact. There is not one right way to touch, kiss, or interact physically or emotionally. You've got to learn to be observant and willing to communicate and work with your partners.
I'd give her the chance. See how well you like spending time with her in general, and develop some trust and communication so as you go forward and work together- on matching up physically you're in a better place together to do that communication and work on getting to the same page.
Yeah I'd be fine with it. Early on dating, my gf moved into a house with like 3 guys and 1 girl in it. Totally fine with it because I'm not insecure and trust my gf. It's crazy they didn't just have crazy orgies all time cause apparently cheating is the only place having friends goes.
What you described is not a man who is perfect in every way and who loves you. You just described a selfish asshole who uses your mouth to masturbate in everyday. You are the living fleshlight he feel entitled to every single day regardless if you are in pain and are in the mood. This is not the behaviour of a man who loves, cares and respects you. This is the behaviour of a self absorbed, selfish asshole who only cares about his dick. Why would someone this selfish and entitled who has little respect for you be someone you think is perfect in every way? You have a rotten boyfriend problem. You don’t have to stay with someone who uses you to masturbate in daily.
Welp