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Date: December 17, 2022
Before anything else, you need to hear this: the kind of loaded questions she’s asking you probing your memory of prior conversations… that is not normal and it is not healthy
Not gonna go all Reddit red flags!!! ? but this behavior from her is weird.
It’s what cops do to coerce confessions out of suspects. It’s how one starts off a gaslighting campaign. Ask anyone repeated questions about prior conversations and the story will change because memory is imperfect. If she thinks this interrogation process is appropriate, she’s been (best case) taught wrong.
Assuming innocent motive and poor role models on her part, this is an opportunity for you to have a conver with her about the fact that her repeated questioning of you about the same thing is not productive.
It’s also an opportunity for her to let you know what types of things you say in an off-hand manner that she finds problematic.
Probably you both could benefit from therapy, but that’s expensive. In lieu of that, adult conversations where you both discuss yourbown feelings and reactions to behaviors that the other person exhibits is a good start. Just don’t make it personal about them and try to make a good faith effort to identify compromises where you can modifyba behavior (not your thoughts) and they can give you the benefit of the doubt.
Thats pretty rough dude. I would have some heavy resentment for her after putting you in this position… at least that anger may help you with moving on.
There's no magic fix here. You deal with reality, avoid each other as much as possible and get out of there as soon as possible. If you can afford it you might be able to buy yourself out of the lease at some point. Really it should be her doing that, but there's a fat chance of her doing anything for your sake.
It might help you to take a trip and have some alone time to grieve the loss of the relationship so you can move forward undeterred.
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