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Room for online sex video chat Petite_li
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Date: November 6, 2022
I do. I know basic details I just wanna know some deeper stuff you know?
This situation is a huge red flag and you are going to be loser in it. Try therapy and see if you want to save your marriage or not but don't try a corner that has danger written all over it.
Sounds like she has already fiund the two and waiting for an opportunity.
Take the job. You haven't been together long and he's already being pushy about you moving.
That sounds like a first date to me. If you think there was confusion about if it was a date or not, you can specifically use the word date. Ask her to go on a dinner date or a bowling date or something.
I do. Loads. But I have them all in my city. I’ve only been in his town for a month so not met all that many people yet.
What am I right about? And I didn’t ask for her age when I was told she was 13, I had asked before we started going out and she said she was 16, then the other day her mom took her phone and texted me about it
Récord those conversations. Texts and take The kid
You can take this opportunity to prove your womanly smarts by dumping his misogynistic ass.
In the bin.
I would leave him alone… permanently
There’s no indication she’s cheating like some people are saying, but just based on what you’ve told us alone, you two sound incompatible in lifestyles.
Your 20s is when people really start to experiment and change, and it’s worth asking yourself what YOU really want from a relationship.
I’m not here to paint broad strokes like “oh all rave girls are xyz” or “all guys like you do abc” because that’s useless. You’re an individual, she’s an individual. You’re displaying different life values and that’s okay.
I’ve had friends meet at 18 who stuck together way too long, nearly a decade, because there was affection there but not compatibility toward the end, and it ended up a slog the last few years for both of them. You’re still so young— go take some time for yourself and think about what you value in a relationship, maybe ask her what she values if she’s open to it, and have a discussion around that. If it feels like things don’t line up, or her words don’t match her actions, then I’d consider separating. There are so many opportunities out there for you to grow / experience still, outside of a relationship that doesn’t fulfill you.
None wtf
Stop flirting back if you are and just ignore her. She will probably just start doing it again with another guy once she loses your attention but at least you won’t be the home wrecker.
Of course, he's fantastic.
I would have these insecurities with or without him.
I just want to alter my appearance to become more confident without breaching his boundaries or going too far.
Why would you want to stay with her? She clearly checked out of the relationship years ago.
What should I do now?
Apologize?
Will he cheat?
Probably not?
Is this all normal and I am overreacting?
Yes him still finding people cute/attractive that aren’t you is normal
And yes you are overreacting
Which isn’t to say it’s not understandable
It’s not irrational, but it isn’t logical
You don’t have to do or feel the same, but to basically say he has to live his life with blinders on because the only one he should ever be thinking is nice looking is you is just not realistic or fair to him
I think you did the right thing to express your feelings about it to him, but if he says
he would never cheat and that he just likes to talk to new people
you have to take him at his word
Regresses of who else he thinks is cute or whatever, he is with you, he wants to be with you
He doesn’t feel for them what he feels for you and it would be beneficial to you to focus on that aspect
was it always like this?
If she's been acting like this lately, she may be projecting her own guilt onto you.
Are you sure she's not dating anyone?
Behaviour like this starts when people show their true habits and personality in a relationship. Why on earth didn't you live together for 8 years???
Things my ex did after he got comfortable… – started driving whilst watching a movie on his ipad in the car…like as in, while he's behind the steering wheel, car in motion 60 miles per hour. – stopped washing his privates with soap – stopped cutting toe nails – ignoring or putting pets in danger – becoming unemployed
It's an addiction your gf has, most likely not benadryl…and she should speak to a Dr if she's got health concerns which have her on medication for literally years
Final question: should I just accept the fact that women want to be liked/admired by other men even when they super committed and loyal and wont flirt? It is itching me and I know I might be paranoid
the first sentence was all you needed. run
I get it! We don’t want to hurt loved ones! And I’m definitely not advocating being a jerk lol. But he’s unreasonable and you cannot reason with the unreasonable. He’s always going to be mad about something so you might as well make yourselves comfortable ?♀️ Because short of you disappearing and your husband being tethered to his brother it seems like Bro is always going to be upset.
It’s going to take time!
And if his dad gets all upset about abandoning the brother tell HIM he’s welcome to become his new emotional support person.
you’re right thabks
I agree. After saying no multiple times but him forcing himself on her, I don't see how else it could be viewed other than rape.
Also, why did you cross post this? What a dick move.
Parental alienation is a real thing. It doesn't help that her mother spoils her either. She'll come around when she gets older. Hopefully she won't have daddy issues.
This. The only possible reason she told him about her “love” crush was because she thought he might dump OP for her.
Not ok.
Because he has you. He can be in the damn closet about his sexuality and be in denial while he hides behind your relationship. He's using you as a beard. It isn't about you he just doesn't want people knowing you broke up with him because he wants another dick.
You make it very clear that you are having this conversation because you can envision a life together. That’s the best way to ensure she doesn’t think.. oh, he’s bailing so I am getting out now. It’s all in the presentation.
You have a point.
Fair. I suppose it was so bad it almost didn’t feel real.
I think you need to get out of it and go live your life. If a relationship gives you bad feelings, it's not a good one and you deserve better.
She’s being assaulted, the fact you think saying words is an ESCALATION shows you aren’t considering that there is already violence in that situation.
You can only think of stepping in as an escalation of the situation if you are discounting her experience in that situation.
You say you were empathetic to his feelings, but why isn't he empathetic to yours?
Doesn't your hurt also matter in this? Your personhood is being shrunk down to a sex organ and he's using that to punish you. You don't need to be punished for this, a mentally sound person would have appreciated you being honest and that would be that.
You can't undo what you lived through. And even if you could, why would you want to for a man that's punishing you for something that isn't an issue?
This dude is a lot. It seems to be like there might be a mental illness issue on his part. This isn't an okay response to your kindness and honesty.
You’re still in the middle of the storm. People think they’re being helpful and encouraging, but this is all still raw and bleeding for you. Take as much time as you need to feel what you are feeling, and heal.
Probably not. People have sexual histories man. Unless you are worried about catching an STD, it's best to keep that box locked.
Why should she even have to consider that when her partner should just come home immediately!? Wtf
OK well first of all, I did not demonize anyone.
Second of all, how is he to find out the reason for the situation? He asks.
This post makes it sound like all he has done is talk about his feelings and his needs without ever considering or asking about his partners feelings or needs. If that’s the case that’s not OK.
The rest of your post I don’t even know what to do with because there are so many assumptions and ridiculous assertions that have no base on any kind of evidence. Also, the alpha male thing is complete bullshit, and has done nothing but spread toxic masculinity.
God, just imagine the trauma for the daughter having to see her friend/dad's gf at school, and inevitably beginning the subject of teen gossip because your dad's screwing a classmate. He probably ruined her senior year.
And the wife, woo boy I can't imagine the damage done to her relationship with her parents. I hope her alimony pays for therapy.
Talk to him. Keep your eyes open.
You're obsessive, that's for sure.
I wish I could upvote this comment a hundred times. This guy is just getting started. Testing the waters with clothing. If he sees that worked then like you said, it’ll be clothing , places, jobs. He wants to dominate this young woman. I hope she’s not too naive to see it
Thank you for your input on this, I really appreciate it.
Has she been in therapy and grief counseling?
But yes, you are absolutely right not to want to add another child to this situation. But she needs help to come to terms with the fact that she is now disabled and has to live within the limits of her disability. And that won't be easy or quick.
Fucked it up dude!
UpdateMe!
This is how I’ve felt since we separated. I’ve been absorbed with it!