That is assault, you did not consent to what he chose to do. The fact that it's happened multiple times even after you've explicitly said no is disgusting. He's trying to manipulate and coerce you into doing something you hate. This is not a good person OP, he's a piece of trash.
I would not stick around, he clearly has no respect for you or your boundaries. He will not change or learn to respect you. Leave now.
Yeah… Having compassion for others isn't about a need or communication style. It should be automatically there when you care about someone. Good luck though
Breaking up is already a big toll on our emotions. But if you do not do it soon enough, it will cost a bigger toll and consequences throughout time before you reach the breaking of yourself
By all means, i dont wanna see couples breaking up. Believe me this, you will feel sad for sometimes, angry, even question your decision also, but stand tall and never look back. You will feel like you drop a big burden off your shoulders.
All and all, you deserve someone else better, much better.
Also something to consider is a give and take, address how the issue isn’t so serious, but at the same time if you don’t have time to respond properly wait until you have a moment to send a more carefully crafted message. She may rather wait longer for a reply she’s content with, also might be something to discuss itself
Why do you use the word “icks” if you hate that term?? lmao you didn’t have to include it.
But really agree with everyone else and you should just let her know you aren’t interested anymore and be civil about it and continue your friendship with the flatmates
When someone says “I need to find myself” it means like a cheap excuse to break up.
I’m just spitballing here but maybe she feels to young to plan to marry, perhaps she is immature to have a serious relationship, maybe she wants to travel, live elsewhere or there is another person.
That said… if you didn’t do anything wrong then you need to move on. She left and you must find someone that wants the same as you.
Means you're allowing yourself to be a booty call/place holder
My boyfriend has meet feeling friends for dinner and he’s told me and I was fine with it
That is assault, you did not consent to what he chose to do. The fact that it's happened multiple times even after you've explicitly said no is disgusting. He's trying to manipulate and coerce you into doing something you hate. This is not a good person OP, he's a piece of trash.
I would not stick around, he clearly has no respect for you or your boundaries. He will not change or learn to respect you. Leave now.
Don’t waste time. Time to take the bandage off.
Yeah… Having compassion for others isn't about a need or communication style. It should be automatically there when you care about someone. Good luck though
Breaking up is already a big toll on our emotions. But if you do not do it soon enough, it will cost a bigger toll and consequences throughout time before you reach the breaking of yourself
By all means, i dont wanna see couples breaking up. Believe me this, you will feel sad for sometimes, angry, even question your decision also, but stand tall and never look back. You will feel like you drop a big burden off your shoulders.
All and all, you deserve someone else better, much better.
Also something to consider is a give and take, address how the issue isn’t so serious, but at the same time if you don’t have time to respond properly wait until you have a moment to send a more carefully crafted message. She may rather wait longer for a reply she’s content with, also might be something to discuss itself
Nice. Now break up with your insecure boyfriend and slip your number to that lawyer guy.
Why do you use the word “icks” if you hate that term?? lmao you didn’t have to include it.
But really agree with everyone else and you should just let her know you aren’t interested anymore and be civil about it and continue your friendship with the flatmates
Don't hurt your future over what is probably a temporary relationship.
You're a bit older than me, not much. But I can tell you from a few years back, the jump is definitely worth it. As is “owning our own shit.”
When someone says “I need to find myself” it means like a cheap excuse to break up.
I’m just spitballing here but maybe she feels to young to plan to marry, perhaps she is immature to have a serious relationship, maybe she wants to travel, live elsewhere or there is another person.
That said… if you didn’t do anything wrong then you need to move on. She left and you must find someone that wants the same as you.
Wtf no just drop her. No true friend hits on their friends partner. Please don’t give her a chance she will continue.