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Have you talked about him how it makes you feel?
If you had repeated and he still didn't change, maybe it's also time to rearrange your priorities. Without him on the list. Cuz then he clearly doesn't see you as a partner, someone that waits on him.
Please get out. If you want to try a conversation about boundaries and sensory needs, go ahead, but I doubt it’ll go well. You’re not supposed to be scared of your partner. He’s absolutely in the wrong here and realistically not going to change. It’s veering into abusive territory. Leave before it gets worse.
Not if I don't cheat on her she won't get herpes. She actually gave me Chlamydia when we first started dating. Who's to say a “real man” won't actually cheat on her? I'm just talking about it and not actually cheating I've been loyal and can continue to be. Just asking y'all's opinion about WANTING to cheat
Your point is valid. He goes and spends time with her to spend time with the kids. It's all on her terms if he doesn't do what she wants he doesn't get to see them at all.
surprisingly ex boyfriend knows about it and doesn’t care! we’ve built a good friendship with each other. i think it’s brother that would feel weird about it.
Ah yes, the refugee who's had to leave her entire life behind and has no home or safety net other than charity from people like your boyfriend is clearly too comfortable.
someone who is sober can never drink again. ex alcoholics can never drink again. at that point, there is no safe way for them to drink. it's not “fine” even if it's in small amounts
I mean you're with her for the right reasons which is good, but if you find parts of her beautiful like her personality and compatibility, just tell her she's beautiful. If someone was honest with me and said I didn't look good but they find my personality i'd understand but felt like they could have spared my feelings a little… I'm on the side of, do not hurt her.
“Do what you wish BIL but this is our day not yours. We plan to hire security to ensure our wedding guest stick to the code so if you want to show up in a clown suit and make an ass of yourself you are more than welcome but understand you won’t get in the venue. You won’t ruin our wedding.”
Can you start doing shower play? Encourage her to get in, soap her up, then have fun. Try it 4 times a week lol might get tiring having to ask another adult to shower constantly so it might be time to have the hard sit down talk. It’s important she knows that she smells unpleasant, because she may be okay with her own smell. Just don’t be rude about it
This is kind of tricky because he legit thinks he weighs more and so what seemed to him like an innocent joke struck right at something you feel insecure about.
And if you tell him that, you're afraid he'll think less of you.
Women store body fat more than men do and that's just the reality of it. You're both young enough you can be excused for not knowing and understanding that.
It's just how mother nature built you.
I'd say just rip the bandaid off and tell him. If he's a good boyfriend he'll apologize, and try to make it up to you. Just let him off the hook quickly and put it behind you.
If he actually gets weird about it that would make him a bad boyfriend and you're better off without him.
You should keep the headphones on and ignore him. Tell him his refusal to respect and support your goals, is affecting your health (poor sleep) and GPA. I would say “if you can't change the constant interruptions and be supportive, then you are showing me that I don't matter, my education and goals don't matter. Only what you want matters. This is not sustainable in our relationship.” If he doesn't change, I suggest you get your own place in two months.
Have you talked about him how it makes you feel?
If you had repeated and he still didn't change, maybe it's also time to rearrange your priorities. Without him on the list. Cuz then he clearly doesn't see you as a partner, someone that waits on him.
Please get out. If you want to try a conversation about boundaries and sensory needs, go ahead, but I doubt it’ll go well. You’re not supposed to be scared of your partner. He’s absolutely in the wrong here and realistically not going to change. It’s veering into abusive territory. Leave before it gets worse.
Not if I don't cheat on her she won't get herpes. She actually gave me Chlamydia when we first started dating. Who's to say a “real man” won't actually cheat on her? I'm just talking about it and not actually cheating I've been loyal and can continue to be. Just asking y'all's opinion about WANTING to cheat
Your point is valid. He goes and spends time with her to spend time with the kids. It's all on her terms if he doesn't do what she wants he doesn't get to see them at all.
surprisingly ex boyfriend knows about it and doesn’t care! we’ve built a good friendship with each other. i think it’s brother that would feel weird about it.
I feel like she’s too comfortable
Ah yes, the refugee who's had to leave her entire life behind and has no home or safety net other than charity from people like your boyfriend is clearly too comfortable.
someone who is sober can never drink again. ex alcoholics can never drink again. at that point, there is no safe way for them to drink. it's not “fine” even if it's in small amounts
I mean you're with her for the right reasons which is good, but if you find parts of her beautiful like her personality and compatibility, just tell her she's beautiful. If someone was honest with me and said I didn't look good but they find my personality i'd understand but felt like they could have spared my feelings a little… I'm on the side of, do not hurt her.
“Do what you wish BIL but this is our day not yours. We plan to hire security to ensure our wedding guest stick to the code so if you want to show up in a clown suit and make an ass of yourself you are more than welcome but understand you won’t get in the venue. You won’t ruin our wedding.”
More context is needed for you better prepare to have as much sex with me as I want or else I’ll profit you and do it anyway?
What the fuck?
Can you start doing shower play? Encourage her to get in, soap her up, then have fun. Try it 4 times a week lol might get tiring having to ask another adult to shower constantly so it might be time to have the hard sit down talk. It’s important she knows that she smells unpleasant, because she may be okay with her own smell. Just don’t be rude about it
And what exactly is your question? This just seems like a pointless rant.
This is kind of tricky because he legit thinks he weighs more and so what seemed to him like an innocent joke struck right at something you feel insecure about.
And if you tell him that, you're afraid he'll think less of you.
Women store body fat more than men do and that's just the reality of it. You're both young enough you can be excused for not knowing and understanding that.
It's just how mother nature built you.
I'd say just rip the bandaid off and tell him. If he's a good boyfriend he'll apologize, and try to make it up to you. Just let him off the hook quickly and put it behind you.
If he actually gets weird about it that would make him a bad boyfriend and you're better off without him.
bruh
You should keep the headphones on and ignore him. Tell him his refusal to respect and support your goals, is affecting your health (poor sleep) and GPA. I would say “if you can't change the constant interruptions and be supportive, then you are showing me that I don't matter, my education and goals don't matter. Only what you want matters. This is not sustainable in our relationship.” If he doesn't change, I suggest you get your own place in two months.