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It is normal for a certain kind of guy and it isn't normal for another kind of guy. What is important is whether the information is truthful or not. If it is truthful then it is a warning that bad behavior will not be tolerated. If it is false, it's just a way of trying to send the same warning but without the leverage to do so.
Thanks We've talked over the last few days and both understand where we need to improve We're looking at therapy too
It isn't abuse if he's clapping back at his abuser. Read a book.
i dont think my gf set it up, but i definitley believe that her ex was trying to achieve something and break our relationship as they dont exactly have the best history together
You got married too young. Get out now while you have no kids and you’re still young
Coal can be very decorative. OP can put a glitter coating on it, or attach flecks of gold.
So she was assaulted but didn’t press charges, lied about it to him and also remained in contact with her friend who did it? Nah. Situations like this suck but at the end of the day he broke up with her and even offered to be there as a friend non romantically. I wasn’t there so I don’t know what happened but with the picture he was given I believe he made the correct choice
As in if she wears leggings and tank tops a lot sort of stuff? Her clothes are not usually baggy either
It sounds like in your first relationship (or situationship, whatever you want to call it), you had an unhealthy infatuation that caused you to stay in the toxic relationship. In my experience, infatuation for the 'wrong' (read: a person who is toxic, doesn't reciprocrate, etc.) person will also feel like anxiety, which at first makes it feel exciting. In reality, it's really just anxiety over knowing your relationship is toxic, or that they are not into you the way you are into them. So if you then actually meet someone who is good, caring, hits all the boxes and shows a healthy amount of interest in you, it may feel different. Maybe the infatuation is still there, but the anxiety that came with it in your last relationship isn't. Then of course the current relationship probably feels much safer, and much warmer. But: less exciting, because you're not so anxious all the time. If you ask me, that's a good thing!
Your current relationship sounds like a healthy one. Don't mistake anxiety and infatuation for love. If I look at how you describe your partner, I think you're more than set in the love department!
I think that you need to step back a little bit, let him divorce her and resolve his problems!
Somehow she thinks that they can still be together, she feels hurt so he needs to resolve that with her. Clearly communicate and send the message. Getting restraint order is sending a message to her but it also gives you a example of what could happen to you in the future…
So your wife had to wake YOU up to scream about cat vomit? She couldn't handle it herself like a competent, normal adult? Period has nothing to do with this. Why would YOU want to have kids with a woman this unhinged over cat sick?
She's probably lying about her therapist saying that. I read a post and thread on Facebook where women were talking about having apps on their phone that notify them when their men do anything on their own phones, they get notified when their men call, text, open apps, get on social media, search history. They use these to stop their men from crossing their porn boundaries. A woman said her husband isn't supposed to masturbate even without porn. When I questioned this crazy level of control they were all trying to convince me their therapists recommended this shit. I don't believe it for a minute. People think if they say a therapist said it everyone will go, ooooh yes, that explains it. As if therapists can't be wrong.
OP, your husband is either intentionally gas lighting you or he's paranoid. If it is the latter, get him some counselling. If it's the former, call him out on it and if he can't handle you standing up for yourself, your marriage is over.
Go for it! Goood luck!! ??
This again…
Can you see a therapist together? It may be helpful to clarify feelings, plans, and options with a professional to facilitate a productive conversation.
What do your bf told you this?
That could be an option, I'll look into it. Thanks!
Lol I’m pretty sure I experienced the same thing but luckily no marriage and only for 2 years.
Your gf is 26 going on 16. I'd be so fucking insulted that I'd never be able to look at her again.
Please do not waste anymore time on this girl. You deserve better. A person you can be a team with and who understands you. She has spent 6 years with you and she doesn't know you at all.
Of all the places a GPS could misidentify, it just happens to pick this particular guy’s address? Not some other incorrect location? That would be an incredibly coincidental, don’t you think? You know the truth, you’re brain is just trying to make it make sense because you want to believe your wife isn’t lying and probably cheating.
Even before the hitting part, I could have told you your boyfriend is an abusive piece of shit. The hitting makes it even worse. LEAVE HIM.
Yes shes your friend.
Why did you a 35 year old become best friends with a 17 year old?
You need to toughen up a bit.
You wouldn’t have cheated on him if you truly loved him. Idk why cheaters always say „i love my partner so so much“ well obviously not otherwise this whole situation wouldn’t happen. Just tell him so he can divorce you.
That was my concern
In the end only you can decide if you can forgive her. Being drunk is never an excuse. To have any chance of reconciliation she needs to be 100% honest with you about the cheating. She did fail the first step of being the one telling you but there is still a chance if you are willing.
Steps for her to build trust. 1. Be completely honest about the cheating. 2. Tell family and friends what she did (if you want to or if you take a break and people ask why) 3. Open phone policy, you always having access to her passwords and devices. 4. Being consistent and honest about her whereabouts. That is telling you where she's going how long she will be gone and staying true to that.
Couples counseling and also finding out what made her want to cheat, being drunk is not the full truth.
Sorry to here about the tumors. Hopefully your Drs have a plan for treatment. As for your gf’s viewing porn, there isn’t much you can do about it except have the hard conversations about what can be done to correct the situation to where it will not damage the relationship. If you feel she is lying about other things you need to take a stand. Lying is the one thing that is unforgivable in any circumstance but as common as dust. This is when you must decide if your going to attempt to repair and get the complete truth or just throw in the towel because she burned too many bridges for you. If she’s deceiving you after two years being a free loader then it will get progressively worse. Make a quick decision and focus on getting healthy as that is paramount.
Yikes. That’s cringe. Run as far as you can. He’s psychotic.
I’ve been the girlfriend before and it kind of helped meeting the “triggered” friend because then I wasn’t just some stranger trying to take their best friend away. It was my therapist’s suggestion because I was pretty uncomfortable at the idea but it worked out and we got along fairly well and had quite a bit in common.
Well done! This reminds me of the situation where the (ex) boyfriend kept telling the poster that she smelled bad. It turns out it was a manipulation tactic to make her feel insecure so that she wouldn't leave. Guess what- she left! Life is too short to have to put up with emotional abuse
Sigh.
Ultimatums like this are bombs to a relationship.
If I had a dollar for every time someone on here dropped the “U-bomb” in their relationship and then sat there wondering why it blew up in their face, I'd be a wealthier man.
I just have some questions, most of which are all for you to consider, not for us.
Why is all the pressure on him?
Have you actually asked your partner why the goal posts keep moving, or why he seems hesitant, or have you just continually applied pressure to him to do what you could easily do yourself?
What concerns or hurdles does he have that are holding him back?
Is this the only conflict you've ever had in your relationship? (If so, that's not actually a good sign, it's a sign you're both taking an avoidant attachment style, and this is generally not healthy)
If not, did you take this same kind of pushy approach in other conflicts?
Why is marriage so important to you in the first place?
Not gonna lie, this post makes you come across as pretty shallow and spoiled. You're willing to put your entire relationship on the line for what, a piece of paper and a shiny ring?
Hey! Saw your post. Just have a conversation with your husband and say you want to “share experiences” with him.
I didn't read anywhere on there that he was upset at his sister. He said that she blindsided them. Not that he was upset.
Lol.