Tell the landlord, get your money from the deposit back(if possible), and leave with the other roommates. Get video evidence of the cat being destructive.
Personally, I wouldn't warn the roommate whose cat sucks. But if you get enough video, the landlord might call animal control, who'll likely put the cat down. Especially if you get evidence of the cat attacking your dog and you for no reason
Get him to help by moving out and living on your own and not paying his bills. He's living the dream. He isn't working and you're doing everything for him. Why would he change? He knows you'll get sick of it being dirty and clean. He knows you'll pay the bills.
Sis, you're childish. If someone asks you something and tries to create boundaries for the prospective relationship, they're trying to weed people like this girl out.
That's the point of communication. You can be with the people who like that if you're so comfortable with it. Otherwise, why be cagey and lie about it? If you're proud of your lifestyle, be transparent and let your prospective partner choose.
Also sex is a huge deal. Going on multiple dates is one thing. I'm not gonna have sex with you while you fuck multiple other people, and the reason most don't say this is because they know in the case of a monogamous relationship with boundaries- it's wrong.
He's always going to feel pissed because he was forced into something he specifically wanted to avoid. You want some poly shit go be poly
First of all, your partner is toxic. Calling you names (you aren't a mama's boy, you're a good son), refusing to make an effort/taking advantage of you, disrespecting your energy and time (not to mention the wear and tear an hour's drive puts on your car), etc. What does she contribute to the relationship? A relationship is about give and take and it is entirely reasonable for you to expect for her to meet you instead of her always meeting you.
Second of all, the fall of this relationship isn't your fault. It sounds like this was a long time coming. You're better off by yourself or with a partner who understands and respects that you care so well for your ailing mother, need a break after work, and cannot always make time for them (but will when you can). It sounds like this relationship is another job.
Reminder: if you're unhappy in a relationship, you don't have to stay in it.
I don't believe anything OP says especially after reading some of her comments.
Tell the landlord, get your money from the deposit back(if possible), and leave with the other roommates. Get video evidence of the cat being destructive.
Personally, I wouldn't warn the roommate whose cat sucks. But if you get enough video, the landlord might call animal control, who'll likely put the cat down. Especially if you get evidence of the cat attacking your dog and you for no reason
Get him to help by moving out and living on your own and not paying his bills. He's living the dream. He isn't working and you're doing everything for him. Why would he change? He knows you'll get sick of it being dirty and clean. He knows you'll pay the bills.
Your boyfriend should ask what he is paying for.
Your husband is disgusting.
This.
Sis, you're childish. If someone asks you something and tries to create boundaries for the prospective relationship, they're trying to weed people like this girl out.
That's the point of communication. You can be with the people who like that if you're so comfortable with it. Otherwise, why be cagey and lie about it? If you're proud of your lifestyle, be transparent and let your prospective partner choose.
Also sex is a huge deal. Going on multiple dates is one thing. I'm not gonna have sex with you while you fuck multiple other people, and the reason most don't say this is because they know in the case of a monogamous relationship with boundaries- it's wrong.
He's always going to feel pissed because he was forced into something he specifically wanted to avoid. You want some poly shit go be poly
This won’t help OP but maybe the dude doesn’t want a relationship with her, not vice versa.
First of all, your partner is toxic. Calling you names (you aren't a mama's boy, you're a good son), refusing to make an effort/taking advantage of you, disrespecting your energy and time (not to mention the wear and tear an hour's drive puts on your car), etc. What does she contribute to the relationship? A relationship is about give and take and it is entirely reasonable for you to expect for her to meet you instead of her always meeting you.
Second of all, the fall of this relationship isn't your fault. It sounds like this was a long time coming. You're better off by yourself or with a partner who understands and respects that you care so well for your ailing mother, need a break after work, and cannot always make time for them (but will when you can). It sounds like this relationship is another job.
Reminder: if you're unhappy in a relationship, you don't have to stay in it.