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Date: January 1, 2023
I’m just confused from my dating experiences I think. I’ve dated the super model looking girl and we really got along. But she was also horrible to me and that ended extremely badly. Then I dated a girl who was lovely. I found her sweet and kind and pretty. But then as soon as we became exclusive she stopped trying at all physically. Her mental health degraded and I felt myself degrading because of it. And ended up just feeling guilt the whole time coz I wasn’t sure I really wanted to be there anymore. But I cared a lot about her and loved her. But didn’t love love her.
So I dunno. I’ve had the love at first sight type feeling. And the other type of love feeling. Neither worked for me
This is one of the most wholesome posts on here, love it
I'd say A is light brown, B is a dark yellow, but still yellow
Sounds like there are lots of bavkstory and details missing. Is sex on birthdays a norm for you guys? Do you usually like this? Only playing Devils advocate bc those are important details. Did you console her in any way? What's the expectation when YOU want sex? Does she reject you like this?
You're completely in the wrong here. Let me break it down for you in point form:
1) Men and women can be platonic friends. 2) Not every platonic relationship evolves into a fling. 3) Texting volume is not a metric of relationship security. I guarantee you that if your girl wants to cheat, she can do it without sending a lot of text messages. 4) She has no idea you find texting volume 'disrespectful'. How exactly is she supposed to figure that out and compromise with you if you don't communicate that to her?
Every man is allowed to have boundaries – but if you're honestly threatened by this guy, the problem is you. Neither he nor she are doing anything wrong.
You should read your own words.
Imagine reading this and thinking this is normal. This is far from normal. You are dating a child.
My son was the same. He absolutely refused to sleep longer than two or three hours at a time. At 15 months, I had to put him in daycare three mornings a week just so I could get some sleep cos I was on the verge of losing my shit in a big way. I tried sleep training and it never worked with him. He also had crazy growth spurts and fed ALL THE TIME. He's always been in the 98-99th percentile for height, and I almost exclusively breastfed, except for when he drained me dry and I would use formula to fill him up. I thought formula would keep him fuller for longer. Nope. I thought starting solids would fill him up. Nope. Nothing helped.
Some babies are just terrible sleepers.
My second baby, a little girl slept much much better. Same parenting, same household, just a more relaxed baby who never had crazy growth spurts, so she never fed as often as her brother. She slept all night early on, and she was a total breeze compared to my first. And I was dealing with re-occurring mastitis caused by MRSA, and I required surgery. Still easier to deal with than my son!
First of all, who pays the mortgage? If it's you, you need to insist on being added to the deed or it's a straight up D-I-V-O-R-C-E. She is controlling as hell and you're getting next to no benefits from this marriage.
Here's how to approach this in a general manner: 1) ask to talk 2) apologize for what you said, sincerely. Don't say things like “I'm sorry your feelings got hurt”. Do say things like “I'm sorry I said those things to you, I understand why it hurt you” 3) let her know that you appreciate the thoughtfulness and intention of the gift from her 4) explain the feelings/emotions/reasons behind why you wanted to buy it for yourself 5) profit
Shit partner
Nope. That's what I got out of it as well.
I'd be done with my partner and his friends.
Jesus, thank you. I don't know why no one can believe that I simply picked up my friend and helped him look for his wallet. I was fully sober & he needed help…what is so unbelievable about that? And it's like, so many people are making a fuss about it and saying that I'm lying even though everyone involved knows the truth, including my girlfriend, who is the only person that I really care that knows the truth.
I'm so confused. I thought she was the one who found him attractive..?
My biological father used to walk around without a shirt on and in his underwear, either boxers or boxer briefs. I was constantly uncomfortable living in the house with him, after a while I started to voice my discomfort and asked my mom to please ask him to wear some clothes when he’s in the house, his response was a lot like yours, he didn’t care about making me uncomfortable at all. He only cared about himself. If you don’t care about making this young girl uncomfortable, then maybe you should tell your gf that it’s a deal breaker for you. That poor kid doesn’t have any say in where she lives right now, and a young teen isn’t going to be honest when confronted by a half naked man. For all you know, she’s the one asking her mom to talk to you about it. She might not feel safe living with you.
Getting him on meds is definitely one of the things I want to talk to him about without him shutting me out. Do you think it would distract from my initial message of “you are ignoring me and it's hurtful” to put that in my letter? Or should I bring that up in the conversation that follows? He's been resistant to the idea in the past, but I haven't ever really discussed with him how his anxiety hurts me because it feels selfish or something.
All I can really say is I’m sorry, this must be a distressing situation.
What I can suggest is ensure you keep an open dialogue with your children – it’s a bit of a red flag that he is instructing them to be secretive. Make sure they know they can come to you with anything they need to. I can imagine this could be extremely uncomfortable for your children knowing their father is dating someone who’s so young.
Honestly, knowing the feature could totally change our perspective.
It is extremely annoying that you refuse to name it but expect honest opinions.
I don’t think you read the full post lol
I feel a bit conflicted there cause he tries to make tome for me, and isn't (imo) egocentric at all. But when we are spending time together he's always so glued to the phone that it hurts, its like I don't have much to give
I'm also a very anxious insecure person, so it might be my perception of it
If he was able to be with her then I would understand, but he’s literally not in the country so he’s not leaving her at all
Exactly. Are you trying to prove what I said?
At the end of the day, she had to tell the truth. There's no future here for her not just with OPs dad, but possibly her kids if she doesn't speak up.
She will lose all her relationships. And tbh, after 30 years suicide might be on the cards. OP you might need to keep on this. Sorry you ended up in this situation.
18 years ago therapists and marriage counselors would have said to take that to your grave so you don't hurt your daughter or husband because women are supposed to be the glue that holds together families and not people.
She’s being an ungrateful brat. Wait for her to recognize her behavior wasn’t appropriate and she put you in a difficult position when she didn’t have to at all.
If you already accept that you'll break up “sooner than later” then why even ask this question?
If the relationship has a shelf life so short you'll be that blase about it, well again, why stress over it?
Both of you are so young you have tons of options – if she “doesn't know what love really is” well I've got news for her and you both: a ton of us don't know.
Sometimes it's as simple as someone you feel safe, secure and reassured by, for others it's someone with matching interests and life goals – you don't need to open a relationship to determine “what love is”…..unless she's into Polygamy, in which case well – you'd best get on board or off the ride before it gets going.
If you want advice on this it's simple: you're either OK and understand the implications of this, or aren't. If the former, well you do you and keep at it. If you aren't, pull the chute and find someone who after a year is happy with what they have and doesn't need to go play lucky dip with other folks too.
Tell her “That's a great idea! I already have someone in mind to spend some time with” and see how she reacts
Seek therapy once you break up so you can talk about your problems + learn to recognise healthy relationships.
3 days a week is reasonable. Perhaps next time you're over ask him to show you the game. If you engage him in his interests then he might appreciate it.
I don’t know about the UK; wish I could help you there! (Former Director of HR in the US.) I can’t imagine that basically taking you down to part time and affecting your remuneration is terribly legal. Hope you have a contract!
Hey OP i would go ahead and tell him yourself. That way you can tell him what happened and not have to worry about any third party who may tell it wrong. It will be way better if he hears it from you then your old sugar daddy. You at least have the ability to answer and be truthful. Someone else may have nefarious intentions.
Three months is long enough. You should dump that guy.
Whenever we visit my husband’s hometown, he would spot someone and say, “Oh yeah, I dated her for a week.” Truthfully, it never bothered me because meeting his friends, it seems like everyone in the same age range dated each other. He truthfully doesn’t remember them but he did have three serious relationships before me and even though they were over, I was super jealous of them because they meant so much to him. This was after we started dating. Now that we’ve been together for over twenty years and he hasn’t done anything with anyone else, I am glad he dated and had relationships before me since he has experience but still chooses me.