Someone downloaded the Tinder app to his phone, made an entire Tinder profile, matched with girls in his area (not a different area), and talked to girls about things he specifically likes, but he says it’s not him?
If you're in a serious relationship with someone, do you think that you should be treading the thoughts of “should I break up with my partner”?
No. You would be standing strong in it.
Two times in your relationship you have come close to ending things… People deserve someone who is firmly planted in the relationship. If that is not you, that's fine, not going to hold that against you.
What I would hold against you is feeling like you want to let go, but afraid to do it.
Being in this position affects both of you long term. The likelihood that you two break up down the road is high.
So, are you just going to pretend to be in a relationship that you're not fully invested in?
And is he going to be lead down a path of false security?
Also, you feel like you're not getting enough out it and wish to experience more. If that is what you need and want, then go after it.
I'm with you. I find this “OP was in a bad mood and felt unwell, he had every right to be an abrupt doink because whatever, his house his rules” attitude mystifying.
It sounds fair enough in theory. In practice, in actual life, you have to put your shit aside and be pleasant for a minute. Otherwise you wear down the people around you, and they stop wanting to deal.
(As an aside, I've noticed Reddit has a lot of “common courtesy is silly” people, plus a lot of people who complain about how lonely they are. Hmmmmmm.)
That’s what I want him to do but he wants me to figure it out and pay my part. I cried because i didn’t have enough to pay all my bills right now and i told him i couldn’t afford groceries, and he came home asking why i didn’t buy groceries.
I’m reallly in a rough place and on top of it all, my school is so heavy that i am failing a class because i don’t have enough time to study. I feel like i haven’t gone through this struggle phase in my life and i don’t know how to handle the stress. That’s why i wanted honest point of views.
Right, but that is what the husband expected the wife to do.
Someone downloaded the Tinder app to his phone, made an entire Tinder profile, matched with girls in his area (not a different area), and talked to girls about things he specifically likes, but he says it’s not him?
Uh..he’s lying. Flat out..liar.
If you're in a serious relationship with someone, do you think that you should be treading the thoughts of “should I break up with my partner”?
No. You would be standing strong in it.
Two times in your relationship you have come close to ending things… People deserve someone who is firmly planted in the relationship. If that is not you, that's fine, not going to hold that against you.
What I would hold against you is feeling like you want to let go, but afraid to do it.
Being in this position affects both of you long term. The likelihood that you two break up down the road is high.
So, are you just going to pretend to be in a relationship that you're not fully invested in?
And is he going to be lead down a path of false security?
Also, you feel like you're not getting enough out it and wish to experience more. If that is what you need and want, then go after it.
That’s a conversation you need to have with your boyfriend, not his ex.
Dude, you have to separate and format your Text. It's unreadable on mobile.
I'm with you. I find this “OP was in a bad mood and felt unwell, he had every right to be an abrupt doink because whatever, his house his rules” attitude mystifying.
It sounds fair enough in theory. In practice, in actual life, you have to put your shit aside and be pleasant for a minute. Otherwise you wear down the people around you, and they stop wanting to deal.
(As an aside, I've noticed Reddit has a lot of “common courtesy is silly” people, plus a lot of people who complain about how lonely they are. Hmmmmmm.)
That’s what I want him to do but he wants me to figure it out and pay my part. I cried because i didn’t have enough to pay all my bills right now and i told him i couldn’t afford groceries, and he came home asking why i didn’t buy groceries.
I’m reallly in a rough place and on top of it all, my school is so heavy that i am failing a class because i don’t have enough time to study. I feel like i haven’t gone through this struggle phase in my life and i don’t know how to handle the stress. That’s why i wanted honest point of views.