Also, how can you trust this woman not to just tell your wife? You're not her best friend. She is. She has opportunities to tell her and you will always be the husband that kept it secret. Just tell your wife.
You're saying you don't trust your partner. There's no mincing words on that. That's what you're telling them. And why are you with someone you don't trust
I’m not gonna tell you what you should do because I don’t know your relationship but if this was me? I would leave. I wouldn’t feel safe with someone like this. If you get pregnant and he finds out before you can get an abortion he is going to make your life hell. Or, if you decide to stay with him and have his kids eventually, what about if you have a daughter who needs an abortion for whatever reason? Imagine having a 13 yr old who was raped at a sleepover and your husband forces her to have the child. Fuck that
This is a non-negotiable for me personally. And even if he seems perfect in every other way, you’re 24. There are millions of eligible men who are compatible with you on this issue. The choice would be simple for me, for my own safety and for my potential future children’s safety.
One thing I don’t get – he says this is an issue of whether the government has the right to control human bodies? So his stance is yes they absolutely do? I have never heard a pro-life person or Republican phrase the issue like this ??
I don’t think you should get back together. Yeah it seemed great because you have been down and lonely and seeing her was familiar and comfortable. You did break up for a reason. I sounds like you are both being codependent which isn’t healthy.
You have to create an identity for yourself before you can be in a happy and healthy relationship.
Really? I'm just terrified of getting an iud. I've heard it's so painful
Also, how can you trust this woman not to just tell your wife? You're not her best friend. She is. She has opportunities to tell her and you will always be the husband that kept it secret. Just tell your wife.
You're saying you don't trust your partner. There's no mincing words on that. That's what you're telling them. And why are you with someone you don't trust
I’m not gonna tell you what you should do because I don’t know your relationship but if this was me? I would leave. I wouldn’t feel safe with someone like this. If you get pregnant and he finds out before you can get an abortion he is going to make your life hell. Or, if you decide to stay with him and have his kids eventually, what about if you have a daughter who needs an abortion for whatever reason? Imagine having a 13 yr old who was raped at a sleepover and your husband forces her to have the child. Fuck that
This is a non-negotiable for me personally. And even if he seems perfect in every other way, you’re 24. There are millions of eligible men who are compatible with you on this issue. The choice would be simple for me, for my own safety and for my potential future children’s safety.
One thing I don’t get – he says this is an issue of whether the government has the right to control human bodies? So his stance is yes they absolutely do? I have never heard a pro-life person or Republican phrase the issue like this ??
Do you find it appropriate to be in a relationship and have a somewhat large folder of their ex’s nudes?
Apparently chastity belts are coming back in style
I don’t think you should get back together. Yeah it seemed great because you have been down and lonely and seeing her was familiar and comfortable. You did break up for a reason. I sounds like you are both being codependent which isn’t healthy.
You have to create an identity for yourself before you can be in a happy and healthy relationship.
Geez! Yeah, Op is more invested in the relationship than the partner. Hence why Op has no ability to set boundaries and gets walked all over.
I bet you that’s why, the ex, is getting more respect because I’m going to say it, the ex probably set boundaries, probably the one who ended things.
Men and women alike, LOVE people who are so secure and will walk away when disrespected. Forever dumping you. That confidence is moth to a flame.