I know plenty of couples who had a similar “break up” at this age and are happily married now. 20s are for finding yourself and your 30s are for enjoying the life you created. I heard this in my 20s and a decade later I can tell you it’s true for most, myself included.
You know the relationship best, her character best, and YOUR WANTS BEST.
If you want to work through the hard times, do that.
If you want a break to see who you are without her, do that.
It’s ok to have doubts. It’s ok not to know the answer. Mistakes are the best way to learn and No one is perfect. Just remember everyone giving advice is based on their own life experiences.
She might steal your kidneys hahha
It would traumatize you.
If you have nothing to hide let him do it. What’s wrong with it?
I know plenty of couples who had a similar “break up” at this age and are happily married now. 20s are for finding yourself and your 30s are for enjoying the life you created. I heard this in my 20s and a decade later I can tell you it’s true for most, myself included.
You know the relationship best, her character best, and YOUR WANTS BEST.
If you want to work through the hard times, do that.
If you want a break to see who you are without her, do that.
It’s ok to have doubts. It’s ok not to know the answer. Mistakes are the best way to learn and No one is perfect. Just remember everyone giving advice is based on their own life experiences.
Good luck!
Have you seen her in person yet? If so, how did it go?