She wants to be taken care of and thinks she is entitled to your money because you have savings. She is telling you exactly who she is and what she expects. And, as you said, you have to take into account her dependants (kid and mom) when it comes to spending. So she obviously feels you should be paying for them as well.
Where do you see this going? If she, her kid and her mother ever move in with you, do you think she's going to magically start paying her share? What are the odds that you'll end up supporting her, her child and her mom to at least some degree?
It's only been a year and she's already fighting with you about her right to your money.
Yep. She’s gonna walk down that aisle. Don’t understand why people come for advice when they’ve already made up their minds about what they’re going to do.
These ones are easy, either he is willing to split the cost with you in the new city, regardless if he lives there or not, or he has to accept whatever you want to do. I do have to warn you though, his insecurities, even if he disguises them as “boundaries” will not get better unless HE decides to work on it, and he makes the effort to deal with it. Good luck
Didn’t know? Did she accidentally stumble fully naked into a boudoir photoshoot when she stepped out of the shower?
The only way this went down because two adults consented to it. They talked about this and both agreed this was a great idea. The “gift” intention is thinly veiled since it sounds like it was his friends idea more than hers.
i save them too! i use them to dry flowers
She wants to be taken care of and thinks she is entitled to your money because you have savings. She is telling you exactly who she is and what she expects. And, as you said, you have to take into account her dependants (kid and mom) when it comes to spending. So she obviously feels you should be paying for them as well.
Where do you see this going? If she, her kid and her mother ever move in with you, do you think she's going to magically start paying her share? What are the odds that you'll end up supporting her, her child and her mom to at least some degree?
It's only been a year and she's already fighting with you about her right to your money.
Yep. She’s gonna walk down that aisle. Don’t understand why people come for advice when they’ve already made up their minds about what they’re going to do.
These ones are easy, either he is willing to split the cost with you in the new city, regardless if he lives there or not, or he has to accept whatever you want to do. I do have to warn you though, his insecurities, even if he disguises them as “boundaries” will not get better unless HE decides to work on it, and he makes the effort to deal with it. Good luck
Didn’t know? Did she accidentally stumble fully naked into a boudoir photoshoot when she stepped out of the shower?
The only way this went down because two adults consented to it. They talked about this and both agreed this was a great idea. The “gift” intention is thinly veiled since it sounds like it was his friends idea more than hers.
Haha I'll try !