The double standard coming from you is gross. It's your body your choice but when he wants to something it's wrong and it's not his body? He can make that choice himself, it's his body. You might not like it, like he doesn't like your fillers. As partners we try to appeal to eachothers preferences, it seems to me that he didn't get the tattoo in the first place, because he knew you wouldn't like it. He was trying to please your preferences, but when you don't care to do the same, why should he?
Have you told him that? Have you told him, I actually really just want to go to x place for dinner. It’s very clear he’s out you on a pedestal and thinks you’re out of his league, whatever that means, and is trying to keep you and make sure that others also know you’re with him and I’m sure also that you’re not available. So I think it’s ok if you like this guy, to tell him what you actually want. Not even complaining or in that way, but ya know I like a burger from x, or being a little more busy and unavailable or treating him like a prince as well.
Cheating is going against what you agree upon as a couple. You both agreed to not sleep with anyone, she went against that. Its cheating.
The double standard coming from you is gross. It's your body your choice but when he wants to something it's wrong and it's not his body? He can make that choice himself, it's his body. You might not like it, like he doesn't like your fillers. As partners we try to appeal to eachothers preferences, it seems to me that he didn't get the tattoo in the first place, because he knew you wouldn't like it. He was trying to please your preferences, but when you don't care to do the same, why should he?
Yeah fair enough. Will take that on
Have you told him that? Have you told him, I actually really just want to go to x place for dinner. It’s very clear he’s out you on a pedestal and thinks you’re out of his league, whatever that means, and is trying to keep you and make sure that others also know you’re with him and I’m sure also that you’re not available. So I think it’s ok if you like this guy, to tell him what you actually want. Not even complaining or in that way, but ya know I like a burger from x, or being a little more busy and unavailable or treating him like a prince as well.