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Date: October 16, 2022
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He has to be equally invested for it to work. He can start to figure out his living situation then. Please don’t take care of this ungrateful low quality yet high expectation man anymore. Good luck to you.
Almost everything you say in your description of them during your childhood is just the standard obligations of a parent. Transportation, clothes, and haircuts? Yeah, that's the deal you sign up for when you have a baby. You don't owe them anything for that.
The first step in setting boundaries is to move out so you can actually create legally enforceable boundaries. Until then, it would just be talk.
Find an apartment, sign a lease, move your stuff. And then you can just say no.
i am so sorry, but with those measurements she is way past the overweight category and entering obesity, even as far as “morbidly obese”. for reference, i am 5’2 and 150lb and i am already considered overweight. you might need to rip off the bandaid and tell her that she is going down a bad road and needs to improve her lifestyle. Good luck
Except she said pants and underwear so this doesn’t apply here.
The fact you helped him, rather than being angry, shows you are a decent person.
The fact you NEEDED to do this at all, at this time of year, shows he is anything BUT decent.
You can find someone who will make you happy, who never does stuff like this, why waste another moment on this moron?
I feel like you are in denial. You don't seem to acknowledge the fact that he already cheated on you. And the way you jump to his aid as if he was a victim here is odd, the only real victim is you. You also said your relationship is based on mutual trust, that is apparently not true and he has been able to trick you for quite some time.
I'm sure this is a huge shock and a lot to process, but you need to come to grips with the fact that your boyfriend is not the person you thought he is. He's probably been cheating on you for a while and is not honest with you in the least.
Ok so I'd say something like “Hey, how are you? I have been thinking about you as I felt we had a really cool connection I'd like to explore it more now that I am single again. Would you like to go for a coffee?” Or y'know, whatever you want to do but something along those lines.
Probably end up in a shit sandwich of angry sister and and a GF who is mad that he couldn't think of his own idea.
I will add though that is not like you will be single FOREVER if you leave him. You are too young to think like that. If he is dating you someone else for sure can
Tell him the truth and give him a chance to defend himself, that’s the least he deserves after having his privacy grossly violated.
If she wants to run away, let her go. Ask yourself why she wants to leave without discussing it with you. You cannot ‘do’ anything, so do not try.
Stop being stupid. You realize she could be setting you up to get you in trouble for violating the no contact order right? You should be documenting every time she tries to contact you or get a third party to because she is in violation of her own order. Also, BS about waiting two weeks, she can walk into court any day and say she wants it dropped and is no longer scared of you. But here you are worried about your toxic relationship that should end.
In theory yes. She said he was a customer at work and that’s how they got to talking. In an ideal world I guess I could get the camera footage from the store with dates etc but I doubt they’ll give me them. However it wouldn’t show anything other than an employee and a customer chatting. I’m not sure if they met up or anything whilst she was 17. I don’t think she’d tell me if they did either.
The silent treatment is abusive. The five page apology letter is absolutely bonkers. He’s not your boss or a teacher, he doesn’t have authority over you. You’ve already discussed this with him and nothing has changed. Are you willing to be in a relationship where this is how you’re treated?
What are you worried will happen? That they’re going to start making out in a public place and then run off together?
You get to feel how you feel. But she’s truly no threat. And if you were concerned you should have discussed it with him and perhaps asked if you could go and meet her.
Yes, she should have been honest that she was not exclusive when it was not an exclusive relationship. That being said, this is not a casual relationship and what she did with others before they became official has no bearing on the type of relationship they have (casual/casual sex). She should have been honest, yes. OP can end the relationship if it’s a dealbreaker. That said, if he’s going to stay in the relationship then it’s his insecurities he needs to work through.
You guys are young. You seem mismatched from the start. You shouldn’t have been asking her to drop her friends when she’s 26 with no children. I’m guessing you weren’t spending any social time with her, and then she moved on without telling you (rudely). Just get divorced. Seems lame for both of you.
“Short term” really? I wasn’t aware that checks notes the entire length of your marriage was considered short term. Stop putting up with this. The silent treatment is a form of emotional abuse and he’s now extending that abuse to your son as well. Leave his sorry ass. There are plenty of people out there capable of handling conflict like an adult. Your husband is not one of them. Your husband handles conflict like a child and abuses you while ignoring the problem until you’re in line enough to stop bringing it up. Is that what you want your son learning from????
If you won’t do better for yourself, do better for your son and get him the hell out of there
“Short term” really? I wasn’t aware that checks notes the entire length of your marriage was considered short term. Stop putting up with this. The silent treatment is a form of emotional abuse and he’s now extending that abuse to your son as well. Leave his sorry ass. There are plenty of people out there capable of handling conflict like an adult. Your husband is not one of them. Your husband handles conflict like a child and abuses you while ignoring the problem until you’re in line enough to stop bringing it up. Is that what you want your son learning from????
If you won’t do better for yourself, do better for your son and get him the hell out of there
I don’t disagree with you. But many times cheaters will claim that they still absolutely love their partners that they cheat on. Does it make sense? No. But the fact that this dude made out with her sister doesn’t necessarily mean he didn’t love OP. He probably thought he’d get away with fucking around and OP would forgive him. But she did the smart thing and dropped his ass. Because like you said…cheating with a sibling or family member takes it to a while other level. But does does all of that have a bearing on his behavior now? Probably so. We will have to agree to disagree on whether he actually loved her or not. And before you say I don’t know what I’m talking about…I, too, despise cheaters. My ex was cheating with my best friend for most of our relationship. So, I feel your disdain.
If I am an asshole I would love for someone to call me out on it and it state the facts as to why. This is my first attempt at talking about it with “someone else” at all. So please ask me any questions if you need more info etc.
The way you both get past it is by talking about it. Each of you discuss why each you felt and acted the way you did, acknowledge the other person’s perspective, apologize for the way each of you acted towards the other, and set up a plan to avoid this from happening again (she gives you a heads up that there’ll be a guest over, you can give a heads up if you’re feeling bleh on your way from work, etc.)
The age gap may not be the problem.
You mentioned he has a new job and it is high stress. High stress changes a lot of things within a person (short tempers, isolation, no desire to to anything, decreased libido, decreased arousal, fatigue, decreased immune system).
You mentioned that he had been to many weddings recently and did not invite you. Often times wedding invitations are invite only. The venues have limited seating, the budget per person can be a factor, and many other reasons. The weddings are not his, but rather ones he was invited to go to.
You have found various items belonging to his ex GF. There may or may not be something about that. But typically men do not go through every inch of their place to find ex partners items. I divorced for 5 years and found items that belonged to my ex, these were in boxes I hastily packed when I was married and moved out of the house.
As far as meeting each others friends. If his friends are getting married, then his circle of friends is getting more distant. As for him not meeting your friends, is logical. If he does not meet your friends (more than likely most are female), he is avoiding the accusations that jealousy can bring.
As soon as you made her aware how awful you felt, she should've walked out and said, 'I am so sorry, hubby is not feeling well and needs to rest, let's do this another day.' For those of us who suffer with bad headaches and migraines, the last thing you're worried about is etiquette with a guest you didn't ask for and don't want to interact with. You honestly did more than I would've. I would've walked straight to bed. When my headaches get that bad, sleep is the only cure. Migraines are even worse. If you were puking, would she have expected the same polite conversation? How about diarrhea? What ailment would she find acceptable to being slightly dismissive because you were sick? If this was AITA, NTA.
Things take time! I cant magically change my language within an hour.
I’d remind him that you did tell him. He was aware of your pregnancy but chose to be a jerk instead. He chose not to be in their lives. The way he’s blaming you rather than taking responsibility for his choice says that he is still a jerk. And I doubt he cares now, rather his mother and other family are hounding him about it. Tell him to take you to court for custody and pay all the back child support he owes for the last 13+ years if he wants to step up. And block his family, you don’t owe them anything.
This is seriously a case of 'play stupid games, win stupid prizes'.
You were LOOKING for drama with the questions you sent, it was only a matter of time until you found something to disagree about. It's unsurprising that it went wrong.
For a lot of people, the sports they follow are a way of engaging with community, which becomes part of their identity. It's almost like a belief system – don't try to disengage people from their chosen sports and hobbies, why would you even try to insert yourself between your bf and something he loves?
You set yourself on a fool's errand here. I mean, in what possible situation does it even MATTER that he loves his sports? You are acting like his team is another woman.
You love him as he is. If you actually want to keep a relationship with him, I suggest that you stop calling his interest in sports 'stupid', and stop trying to make YOU the most important thing in his life. He is allowed to have interests that don't include you, it's not healthy when couples do everything together.
TLDR: It's not all about you.
Stacy will be our only child. He doesn't want more and I don't want to physically have kids. I'm happy with a single step child.
Cheating -> breakup
How many different ways does she have to tell you she isn’t ready and/or doesn’t want to?